I find it to be almost obscene when women marry for money, and everything else is irrelevant. I’ve looked through a lot of profiles,, tens of thousands on fb, Vk, and in dating sites.,,, and the majority are looking for a sugar daddy.
A girl I wrote to for a short time is/was married to someone in California. I’ve known it for about a year now,, I had tried to write to her on fb,,, but she was only interested in writing on AOB. I had been looking through old letters on fb when I spotted her letter near the bottom. I recognized the face but not the last name,,, she had been married. The guy is a body builder, one that gets the spray tan and the baby oil. They looked quite silly together,, she is taller than he is. She had dozens of photos of the two of them together,,,, wedding photos, vacation photos, etc. I went back to her profile tonight, because I planned to write this,,,, and there were no recent photos,,, so I searched and only found three photos of him, way at the bottom. I checked out (About) in her profile,,,,, nothing about being married or in a relationship. Now her profile is filled with photos of herself with an older woman,,,, older sister or mother, in exotic locales. She also has a job on a cruise line,,,, months away from home. The guy was most likely just a stepping stone for her.
I’ve had interpreters latch on to me too,,,, but just how sincere they were is unknown? It’s a great thing for them to live there and collect an income from multiple fiancés.
What the women will post in their fb and Vk profiles tells a lot about them too. Maybe some of their postings are wishful thinking,,,, nothing more than dreams. But some are willing to wait until they find a guy who will give them the world,,, I don’t even care to try.
LR,
I received an e-mail from a beautiful 23 year old from Kyiv who i met in a restaurant last January there.She is as pretty and built nice and as hot as any Victorias Secret model no bullshit, a definite 10 with perfect English but too young for me but we e-mail once in a while.
She told me she now has a Turkish boyfriend and he has asked her to move to USA with him to live with his brother.She said her boyfriend has lived in USA for only three years and is back now in Kyiv.She said her boyfreind`s brother has been in the USA for eleven years now. How is it possible for her to come to the USA ??? She has never been here before.I told her i dont think it is possible unless someone is paid off at the embassy in Kyiv and she doesnt have any property to come back to in her name. I asked her what the f--k with the Turkish thing and she said she visits Turkey quite a lot. I told her to be very careful about prostitution rings from Turkey and she turned her ear.They forge everything to move them around.Every Russian and Ukrainian women i ever met seems to have an interest in the Muslim world or man. I know of three Russian women from my area who came over on student visas who were not Muslim and did indeed marry Muslim men from the Caucases and the Stan countries. Just my observations.
Sunvolt,,,, I have an almost identical story about a Ukrainian girl. She was a plan B girl that I never met,,, and don’t ever want to meet. We had shared a few stories about our travels when she told me about her Middle Eastern visits. I simply told her to be careful,,,,, they still buy, sell and trade women in that region. Her reply was something like,,,, I was treated very well over there,,, perhaps better than in Western countries? I then said,,, Sure,, they will treat you very well,,, in the beginning to get you there,, but one day you could wake up chained to a wall and never see home again. Her reply to that was a half page long tirade,,, to which I replied: Go bleep yourself and drop dead!! The first and only time I truly wrote what I felt! (ill feelings)
I know of several women that have been to many of the trouble hot spots,,, Middle East, Thailand, Mexico Viet Nam, etc. A guy is wasting his breath trying to warn them. Many are going on these trips not as dates,, but as interpreters. When you are writing to a girl on a website,,, and she wants to go on vacation,,, it may not be the girl in the photo asking??? And to think that I almost planned a trip like that several times.
Turkey is a cheap vacation for people from the FSU. The airfare from KBP to Turkey is just a few dollars more than going to Odessa. The airfare for Dubai is cheap from Kiev too,,, which doesn’t surprise me too much. While in one of Ukraine’s poorer cities, I noticed a Dubai café and a Dubai travel agency. I thought to myself,,, why on earth would they have that here,,,, Ah,,,, the girls!! I’d bet they sell a lot of one way tickets.
While searching for a shorter duration, yet fairly cheap flight from Green Bay to Kiev, I have come across a few flights going thru Dubai,,,, the price was 2 or 3 times the normal amount???? Yet Kiev to Dubai is so cheap??
One of my Ex’s is like a deer in the headlights of a car when it comes to a man’s money and possessions. I pointed to the SUV that I own while in her city,,, you should have seen how big her eyes got? I asked her if she liked it,,, and she shook her head yes with a big smile. On the 1st or 2nd trip she wanted my watch?? It’s not a fancy watch, but rather a simple one from a better brand “Citizen” . She also wanted my Leathermen combo pocket knife,,, which was a gift from my father. I didn’t give her either one,,, I suppose I could have replaced both,,, but I had already provided her with plenty!!
Once they get a taste of the good life,,, forget em!!
Rb,,, Really! Facebook has it’s dating site,,, “Are You Interested” and a dozen others that won’t leave you alone once you join one. Once upon a time, you could do a search on fb,,, but not after they came out with their dating links.
On Vk, you can choose “Actively searching” in your profile, which makes your profile easier for others to find.
Do a search for “Actively searching” women here in the US,,,, and take a long look at what you’ll find!! Bogus profile names,,, stolen photos!
During the last month I’ve added over a hundred women on fb,,, do you know how many of those women I consider to be eligible?? Maybe one or two!! On their defense, I don’t know how many of them are actively searching. All but a couple of these girls are on webcams, chat sites, or are pushing dating sites, or money making schemes.
I cannot comment on dating sites on FB. I have not been. What I have seen are sites promoting dating sites. They show beautiful women and then links to their sites. However, I have seen many "actively searching" women on vk. I see no indication of them wanting sugar daddies, even the ones whom are friends with me.
A Sugar Daddy refers to an rich old man, so perhaps the women aren’t looking just for that,,,, any rich guy will do.
If you look at women’s profiles on Vk or fb, you will see their taste in cars, homes, jewelry, clothes, vacations, etc. Most dream about an extravagant lifestyle. I hope you don’t think that they plan to work and buy these things themselves???
When you look at vk and facebook, this is what you see? I think you maybe making things up. I will not go into that page you are talking about on FB, but I will comment on vk.
I looked at a vk friend, who is "actively searching" I did not see any cars, homes, jewelry, clothes or vacations. So, I clicked "actively searching". There I looked at 10 random "actively searching" women. Again, I saw none of those.
Among my vk friends and the ones I noticed, the vacations, jewelry and money (I added that) on women profiles, are vk women who use vk for business. They post those to motivate their followers. The posts or somewhere in their profiles are usually links to their business site. I have not seen any homes posted. I think they do not want to post where they live. Clothes, I will give you that. But, I have not had one ask me for money for clothes yet. One vk friend showed a Greece vacation and another showed Italy on their status. They were there. A few regularly show cars. It is the same car each time. Sometimes, they are in the steering wheel. The car belongs to them.
LR,
As Paul Harvey said (here`s the rest of the story)if you would have watched the whole game.The Packers were at the receiving end of a blown call earlier where the Steelers blocked a field goal attempt and had clear posession picking it up and them fumbled and it went out of bounds.The referees said it was an illegal batting forward penalty and gave GB the ball on the goal line and they scored.Clearly a botched call announced by the commentators and video.The refs gave GB 7 points so they should not be complaining.
Sunvolt,,, I heard about that on the news over the last few days. The reason why they were making a big deal out of the refs slow or wrong call at the end of the game,, is because that’s the 3rd (game changing) wrong call since that “fail mary” call last year with the replacement refs. We’ve been on the losing end of each of those calls. The refs still owe us 2 or 3!!
Rb,,, I stand by what I wrote! I checked the first ten girls in the US who are actively searching,,,,, false identities, stolen photos, photos and/or links from sites that they like,,, fashion, jewelry, clothing, etc. Cars boats,,,, or should I say yachts?? Lots of Champagne and fancy restaurants. However,,, at least 8 out of the 10 were from bogus profiles!
I then checked the first ten girls that are actively searching in the FSU. Much better, but still a few that had many photos from links that they like or are promoting. There is nothing wrong with posting things that you like,, I’ll post an occasional photo from a Jeep site on fb, but I’ve owned two of them already. I didn’t get, and never expect to get, one cent from a woman towards a Jeep! I don’t think the women can say the same thing about men,,,, and the things that they post in their profiles!!
A lot of wishful thinking!!
It isn't that these women are not posting cars, boats and such. They are certainly not the main focus on the ladies profiles with "actively searching". I did look. And now, I just looked again. You have to look at all their pictures to find that.
If you are going have a vk page, why not have your desires in there? I think you are stretching it to say that these women are looking for rich guys. I think they're looking for just guys. Since they are on vk, they are expecting FSU guys.
Rb,, when I write “actively searching” I am referring to Vk! Facebook doesn’t have that as an option.
Perhaps it is a good idea that they post their dreams and wishful thinking online,,,, it makes them easier to spot?! Just as it’s their right to post whatever they want,,, it’s my right to reject them because of it.
I know how you always want to see and/or hope for the best with these women,,, but I can’t. I’ve seen far too much for that. To ignore the warning signs and hope for the best,, is a great way to waste years of your life searching for something you may never find.
OK. Let me walk you through it. Here is your quote.
"If you look at women’s profiles on Vk or fb, you will see their taste in cars, homes, jewelry, clothes, vacations, etc. Most dream about an extravagant lifestyle."
I shall look at vk 10 women's first 30 pictures and see who has posted cars, home, jewelry, clothes, and vacations.
1. None. Christmas trees, Santa Clause and pets.
2. None. Pictures of herself, mostly with the same clothes.
3. None. Pictures of herself, mostly facial and some on the beach.
4. Pictures of herself. Yes, with beautiful clothes. Is she looking for someone to buy her clothes? OK. Maybe, but I think it is a stretch.
5. She only has 11 pictures. One is a BMW.
6. Pictures of herself with nice clothes in the snow and in the garden.
7. Out of 30 pictures, One third is she is on vacation on the beach. Another one third on nice clothes and in a bikini.
8. None. Mostly facial pictures.
9. None. Again, facial pictures.
10. None. Seven pictures. One of herself and six on Christmas ornaments.
I believe in the law of averages. I think 10 is a good sample on top of the other 20 I have already done.
How can you come to the conclusion that these women are looking for sugar daddies by their vk posts or profiles? Out of 300 pictures, there were no homes, no jewelry, 1 car, 1 vacation, but clothes, OK. but what will she wear? You are reaching and it is not because I want to just see their bright spot. It is that you are making things up.
Rb,,, you need to read my posts over again. For the most part, I was speaking about women who were actively searching on Vk,,, but claiming to be in the USA!! I also wrote that the women who were actively searching from the FSU were “much better”!
Of the women I’ve had a correspondence with and/or met in person,, interpreters and such, almost all are seeing dollar signs. One went on a vacation in the Middle East, I asked her to send me some photos when she returned,,, she never did,,, so I went to her profile and took a look for myself. Not one photo of the pyramids or any other historical site,,, just photos of the cities and nightlife, or anything that sparkled.
You also need to realize that when either of us takes a look at the “first 10” profiles,,, it’s never the same 10 profiles! The time of the day might play a factor too,,, and I only spend time online between 10:00pm and 2 or 03:00am. Perhaps not the best time to look.
You need to scrutinize these women a little more closely,,, because do you really think Keira Knightley’s twin sister Raisa G is writing to you from Minsk?? Or that (D Hope-Cyrus) is writing to you from H-ville?? Or,, Nicole Kidman is writing to you from Moscow??
Oh,, you also have a confirmed scammer in your friend list,, Rose Okxxx and a few other suspect profiles,,, that’s just what I found in the last ten minutes!!
Actively searching from Ukraine.VK
1. Full of her own photos and many holiday photos.
2.The same only much prettier.
3. Her own photos, many Christmas cards and gifts from other people.
4. A personal and commercial site advertising clothes, jewelry, and fitness.
5. Actively searching but has a boyfriend. Photos of both of them.
6. Porn, celebrities, fashion, with a photo of 4 cu. yds of US money!
7. Another profile filled with porn,, but this one is a dude,,, he must have checked the wrong box. Over 56,000 posts.
8. Has a boyfriend or husband and a baby,,, hundreds of photos of herself in a bikini or less.
9. New profile only a few months old, another want a be model,,, likes fashion.
10. A pole dancer! Hundreds of her own photos along with a goat, Snoop Dog (with snoop) and a bunch of diamond studded bras.
Actively searching from the USA. VK
1.A wannabe model, many photos of herself and others in fashion.
2.Khanna Montana a bogus profile.
3.Denis Milani a soft porn/model with her photos plastered all over Vk, fb, escort sites, model sites, etc, etc. A another bogus profile!
4. Mayli Sayrus Another bogus profile!
5. Has a name and face I recognize,,, but can’t recall where. Profile full of photos and links for porn.
6. About the same, but with fewer photos.
7. A wannabe model with 30 photos of herself and one with “The Rock”!
8. Almost 500 photos of herself,,, and a few of the “Geländewagen™” a Mercedes SUV,, in a red ribbon.
9. & 10. Selena Gomez and of the next 20 profiles there were 6 more of her and a few more Mayli’s Cyrus’s!