only 70% trad? dump the brad pic and use mine. lol
Response rate may seem like a good thing in the short term and yes you get a flood of them which more often than not waste your time as your effort is spread wide and thin - I equally had a high success rate - but quantity means very little when what you're looking for is 'quality'. It may take 4 to 6 weeks before you find a connection often with a handful but there will be one that will (should) hit you like a sledgehammer.
> Ever considered that the creator was a woman.......
yes, why do you think men have b*lls on the outside and women can have multiple *rgasms? ;)
Do write as many letters as you see pretty ladies that may interest you...then compare their response letter to if they could have been written by the same person....I got a few of those fakers. Damn pity!!
They were gorgeous,lol...at least the photos were. Coould have been a pair of shemales for all I know
What is the process these girls go through to get the mail? I'm just wondering about response times, they have varied from within a few hours to three or more days.
Well, in my experience the girls that speak English reply right away. Other girls can have your letter translated and typed out for them and they bring them home, then come back with a reply, maybe days later. Then it must be translated back to English. Remember though, the girls are paying for all this, its not free.
Wait a minute? These girls have their own forum and chat about us like we are about them? Sheesh, best mind my pints and quarts when "playing" Hey, I wanna snoop in it. How do I get in?
Wait a minute? These girls have their own forum and chat about us like we are about them? Sheesh, best mind my pints and quarts when "playing" Hey, I wanna snoop in it. How do I get in?
tony, I think it would cost her the time for her use on the cpmputer, but I'm not sure.
mark, yes they have their own forum and I believe olga is their moderator also. we went and checked it out about 4 months ago. i didn't find anything too special there. its all in russian so i had to cut and paste everything into the online translator.
I just went back to the ladies forum and checked out what they were talking about (using a machine translator for whole pages).
One lady accuses other ladies of being a "prostitute" for leaving friends and homeland in serach of better living conditions in the west. Other ladies in the same thread took great offense and defended their position - describing problems with Russian men and successes they have known of.
In one thread I read of the concern that the ladies have of being proposed to and asked to come to America (or other western countries) after such short acquaintance through letters.
Some described the entire process as a "lottery", where you might get lucky and meet a great guy - or you may meet someone who is not a "good man" man and there was some discussion on which sites were best to be listed with.
those ladies should be very concerned about proposals like that. If a girl told me she loves me before I even had a chance to meet her she would probably never hear from me again.
Falling in love or proposing without even a meeting. That sounds like the calling card of some poor sap that cant even get laid where he lives
GLT, because western women don't suck, they Blow ? ;o))
Glad: "so many choices and just one ****"
Life ? ;o))
Tiny: "Hello Tony, I am unhappy today as my mother is in hospital needing an operation, it will cost $2000 and we have no money"
If you ever get that line, either in a first or even the 100th letter, run like hell !! :o)
> Ever considered that the creator was a woman.......
Of course she is !! If she wasn't feet would point back wards or men wouldn't stand up to pee !!!
Women might have it bad on the monthly cycle thing, but damn what I wouldn't give for "multiple orgasms" !!!
Never let a woman kid you that they got the sh*tty end of the stick cus they got periods !!!
;o)
Trad: "someone who invites you to visit after two letters"
Don't see why that should be a problem mate ? If she asks that then at least you can be fair sure she is who she says she is, photos and all, its the ones who wanna write for months without ever mentioning a visit that would raise my suspicions !!
Tony: many go to the agency daily, some every other day and some once a week, if they have private mail and know English then they can, if they wish to to the internet cafe every day, sometimes more than once a day, each is different as are we.
As to cot, if she is using an agency then it can be as much as $8 every time you write and she writes you back, so if thats her situation be aware she might not be able to afford to go more than once or twice a week, and she cant afford to keep doing it on her salary !! (see my many posts about Helping the lady to stay in touch with you. As was mentioned some take your letter home and reply next or following day after they have written and had their letter translated (my Natasha does and its works fine, I'm just always a letter ahead of her which is no prob).
www.finance.com/forum
then hit "home" in the top row.
should take you to theirs instead of ours, well it does on my browser anyway :o)) But unless you have a week to translate everything or you read Russian there isn't much point !! :o)
"One lady accuses other ladies of being a "prostitute" for leaving friends and homeland in search of better living conditions in the west"
Sounds like the ladies get Trolls in there too then !!
We have had similar in here a few times, saying we are all sado`s or just being generally nasty, I wouldn't pay too much mind to these sorts !!
Jet:
In general then it sounds very much like the ladies talk about much the same sort of things as we do !!
Who is real and who isn't,
Its a kinda lottery, (Ive heard that exact line used in here I'm sure of it !)
NB:
It might be that some western women have found the ladies forum, and its them who do the "Trolling" and the stirring up there !!!
Is the message getting across to our useless women in the US and UK I wonder ;o))
When they invite me after to visit after two letters and insist I arrange it through their friendly agency, I am smelling a rat.she gives me her address, I will arrange it myself, thank you
Always do as much of the organising yourself as you can, and pay only deposits for flats etc. And last but not least, if She suggests using the agency for arranging things, then check the agency on all scam lists and only pay small deposits because until you arrive they wont have any big out of pocket expenses, so why do they want so much money up front ? f they insist on big bucks before you even get there, then Oh yes, thats rat I smell !!!!!
There are lots of reasons to avoid paying big deposits or all in advance payments, such as : I may stay longer so I will decide how much to pay the flat owner when I know how long I shall stay, or I may not like the apartment so I will just pay for one/two nights now and decide when I arrive, or things may not work out and I may leave earlier than I planned, so I would rather book and pay for just a few days in advance, all acceptable reasons and if the agency cant accept them there is something not quite kosher !!