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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > I AM REDEEMED! Author Post GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/3/2004 8:19:03 PM   CRASH....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Are you asking us to feel sorry for your multi women problem, pal? LOL, you better not.... Now seriously....I have no qualms whatsoever about telling every single one in my harem that unless and until we meet in person and "know first hand how it feels to be in each other's arms" I will not fall in love with anyone.... They know I want to meet them, and they know I will meet just them. They also know I chose to keep corresponding with them after choosing them from over 80 responses or initial letters I received in this site. With women of any nationality I have always chosen to tell the truth even if it hurts a little ...or a lot. The ones who belong in the 'harem' know they're the finalists until I meet them all, one at a time. Of course they would like to have me visit JUST them, but no woman will ever dictate to me who, where, how often or how many times I meet anyone. I let them know politely that if they can accept my way of doing things, it could be very rewarding if I end up falling in love with her. "Dear....., you may walk away from my life any time you feel uncomfortable with me. I will not resent you for it." None of the ones I've chosen has walked out yet. They all want to meet me, and they all know I am going to meet others. good luck, buddy...:) crashnsplash Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/3/2004 9:07:30 PM   lol, no not at all. If all my problems were like that one life would be great. Just wanting to hear some opinions like yours. Theres no way that any lady is going to tell me to be just with them. and anyone here that thinks there in love without ever meeting in person is a fool. But I'm not going to tell them I speak with others if they don't ask. Hell, it would be nice to take them all home =) idiotdetector Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 4:04:22 AM   I was just wondering if all you guys talking here have met these girls yet. Sorry, I read this forum but do not keep track of your individual stories. My point is that you seem to be getting excited about letters and phone calls. Try to keep your cool here guys. I get excited when a girl I like sends me a letter because it is a little hope for the future, but thats all, hope. I had one who said such lovely things in letters my heart jumped but she failed to say such things in real life. Same goes for the phone. The truth is in the metting and even then its not all told. I wrote to one for 8 months and we brock up after meeting for for days. Just as we should not be destracted by their looks, (god I know its hard, I got a letter from one today and I am sure god scupted her from my personal desciption of a goddess) we sould not get destracted by a few words. And by the way, 7 days. I would not go for less than a month myself. Take a holiday boys and enjoy the fruits of this region. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 4:11:58 AM   Totally agree - by letters alone (for me anyway) it would be impossible and INSANE to fall in love with a woman. And if you are just writing - she HAS to accept the idea that you are also writing to others as well. When you have actually met - spent five days together in the same room (need I get more graphic?), but she knows you also happene to have feeling for another woman - who used to be her best friend - and who you met because they happened to be traveling together..... (WHY do the two most beautiful incredible women I have ever known so far, HAVE travel together and be good friends????? I don't know). NOW the problem of visiting one, or both during the same trip becomes bigger. OF COURSE both you or she can "walk away" before you have held each other in your arms. But after you have (and then some) the attachement is harder to sever. gladiatorUK Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 5:38:46 AM   Decisions decisions eh Jet? life is like that,you start to look for a beautiful girl to be your partner and what happens 2 or 3 come along at once,the problem is made worse after you have met them,because then you put all the pieces together..........BUT this is the point,Honesty means everything to these ladies,and I know you have said that your ladies are aware of each other,and a lot will accept that.......not all however......sooner than later you will have to get decisive as hard as that may be,but take it from me my friend if you give your chosen one 100%,you will get that back double..............and more. Good luck with the choice. crashnsplash Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 5:50:03 AM   I would be a fool to tell them about eachother. I'm very honest with them, and if they asked I would tell them the truth. But i'm not screwing up a good thing with any of them, and im not offering them information like that. I would love to go for more than a week, unfortunatly I have a life here and I just cant fly away at will. how old are you guys anyway?? Unlike some of you, I choose to let my girls think I'm the ONLY one. Sorry but I'm going with my approach. thanks for the opinion though jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 6:03:09 AM   Crash - I'm 46 and I don't have a choice regarding these ladies knowing each other. I was in Odessa Ukraine on a Roamce Tour, they travelled together from Moldova. They had been good friends fro five years. I fell for one instantly but was given false information about her age. I, then, talked to her friend who appeared older. As luck would have it, a buddy of mine (met on the trip) hooked up with the one I was initially interested in, so the four of us did many things together. Later he rejected her when she did not respond to his advances. Meanwhile I had spent A LOT of time with the woman I did meet. Now I am going to Moldova to see both. Neither has spoken to the other since the trip. (Supposedly because one "got a guy" and the other - who's idea it was to go in the first place, didn't). There, in a nutshell, is my dilemma. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 6:16:02 AM   Actually Crash - I had not read your post (on the previous page) until now. I agree that you would be a fool to tell each about the others - but it may be difficult to see each in the alotted time and explain why you will not be available for the enire week of your visit (unless you tell each that you are only there for a day or two - whatever you decide to give to each girl). Again, I wish I had your option, where the girls didn't already know each other. I DO feel a bit of your guilt - especially regarding my one lovely, who thinks I am only coming to visit her. If they have had their profiles deleted, they obviously feel that there is special thing going on for just them. Ultimately, of course, you have to do what is right for you - but you certainly have my best wishes. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 6:52:43 AM   Im 40. One word of caution, if they live in the same city, and they are about the same age, they may already know each other, just that they havnt told you yet Crash !! The world can be a very small place sometimes !!! crashnsplash Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 7:09:42 AM   Thanks for the reply Jet, its good to know a little more about your situation. This is really not going to be easy for me especially when I am going to be in a totally foreign world. Its good to hear from men like yourself that have the experience to share with all of us that haven't been there yet. Tim, did you ever get the email I sent you a few days ago. I explained a little more in detail about that very situation where the girls are at the same agency. Never received a reply from you Oh, and Im 36 TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 7:45:01 AM   Yes I did get it, and I though I answered you mate !!!! And now I cant seem to find the letter you are talking about !! Very weird, can you resend it please, it may be I have got it but cant find it. crashnsplash Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 11:12:47 AM   I resent it Tim Jeff M Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 11:30:16 AM   Hey guys. Good thread going here. Wow, what a hangover this morning lol. It was fun last night tho, went out with two female friends and I talked about my upcoming travel plans to either russia or Ukraine (four different lovelies) and one said, 'are you gonna get mail order bride?' I just about fell off my seat! I said'well, ya never know' haha Jeff M Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 11:35:37 AM   Also, a question... I know there has been alot of talk about age differences. Frankly, I am looking at much younger women, well, just because!! If I can get a 22 year old versus a 36 year old, why the heck not? It has been written that FSU women do mature faster. In US, (I am 37), If I was to even look at a girl 16 years younger, I am perv..(well, I am a perv, but thats another thread ;-O) Besides, girls that young in western world, are , well just young. What do you think? TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 12:28:57 PM   LOL Crash !!! Resent !! You mean Re-sent I hope :o)) And I haven't had it mate !! I have checked my mail several times in the past hour or so and zilch !! You sure you have the correct address ? tim.haines@ntlworld.com Jeff: the remark about "mail order brides" just shows the ignorance of women in our countries doesn't it !!! (not slagging off your friends mate, all my female friends and some males here too think and say much the same things !!) Why don't these people actually find out what its really all about before they make such ignorant and illinformed remarks !! Its Not mail order, its a way to hope to meet a woman (with the qualities we want !!) and to form a relationship, the marriage or bride part wont happen unless there is a relationship formed first !!!! I certainly wouldn't want a "mail order bride" !!! I would not marry anyone I had never met, and at least know that it can work !! I'm meeting Natasha in 2 weeks, she is 14 years younger than me (at 40, 41 in Aug Natash is 27 in June, so the gap wont get any bigger through the years) I want a wife that much younger because I Want children, few 35 to 40 year olds want to start families at their age, so I must go younger, And I want a beautiful woman to wake up to every morning too of course :o)) Also as you mentioned FSU women are more mature, and WAY WAY more mature than men of their age there !!! The FSU women have 2 choices, try to find an older husband there, in which her choices are limited to available men, men who will actually Work ! Many older men cant get over the CCCP collapsing and get used to having to work hard for the same or more money than they used to get for little effort from the state, and these older men are far more likely to be drinkers !! Or she can look to the west and have everything she wants and needs from the likes of us :o) We cant lose ;o))) tradman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 12:29:45 PM   I think 22 sounds fine, Just a little worried about 15 years time, girl I met in Holland was 27, I am 41, thats as far as I think I would go, most are 30, 32, I mean, I don't have a problem with a 20 year old, just wonder whether she will in years to come, when she becomes slightly westernised as see's women of her own age with much younger men TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 12:48:34 PM   Indeed Trad !! My reasons exactly that 25 is my lowest limit !! By the time Im 60 she will be 46, thats not so bad a gap, but if I was 60 and she was 40 there is a huge difference !! Jeff M Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 1:22:37 PM   ok, I will confess, I am 37 and she is 19!!!! and a real lovely!! But her letters (excerpts first post in this thread) show real maturity. ;-)) jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 2:39:47 PM   Got you beat. Jeff M. I'm 46 (the old man of the bunch here, I know). My lovelies are 23 and 24. What makes me even sound worse? (As if anything can.) I have children by my first marriage - boys age 20 and 27. It means potentially my oldest son could have a step-mother who is 4 years younger than he is. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/4/2004 2:47:34 PM   My 23 year old lady has a mother who is age 45. It means I could potentially have a mother-in-law a year younger than I am. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > I AM REDEEMED!
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