You have not been paying attention. Now it's you and me arguing about this on a crap thread that you created and you think he and I killed this forum? The forum can live outside these three crappy threads.
Before my thread, he was unaware of his lying. Now, he is irritated and watching it. It is not his posts that I am worried about. It is his lying.
You just posted on the Malaysian Airlines thread. How is this forum dead? With TomZ aware of his lies, it is a better forum. It's like taking medicine. It tastes bad.
I'm not arguing with you RB, in the absense of Tommy Boy you're so wound up you're actually arguing with yourself.
My days of "going for it" on forums such as this are way since passed.
I've long since retired from scrapping on forums, the new kids are on the block, Tommy Boy, Rick, Tom Shea a.k.a. Giss, you're still here RB because you still haven't learned and why Lonely Ranger is still slugging it out with the dyslexic one after all these years is still beyond me.
Perhaps I'm the older statesman, the owners of this forum Oleg & Olga, crikey we had some scraps 10 years ago, these days we have a mutual respect for each other and pass pleasantries.
I think your problem is RB that you still haven't learned when to hang up your boots, you can't take this forum with you when you die so at what point, before you die, are you going to chill out, as I have done, or walk away from it altogether?
No point in responding RB, no doubt you'd like to entice me in to an argument but I can assure you that isn't going to happen.
It got escalated because when I pointed out TomZ's lies, he would make up more lies to turn it around and blame it on me. But, look what happened when I started the "lie" thread. He started a similar thread on me before that. He got virtually none on the thread that he started and he got exposed for his lies on mine.
No, he is unlikely to stop his posts, but he is likely to stop his lies. That's how I see it.
Well, you're not doing a good job not arguing. If it is going to be by myself, so be it. But posts are there to read, not necessarily respond.
"I think your problem is RB that you still haven't learned when to hang up your boots."
Nope, I haven't learned to do that, nor do I want to. I am not going to follow your footsteps.
When does our conversation become an argument? I see it as similar to my conversations with TomZ. I just needed to get my conversations back to reality. That means beyond the lies.
I was fairly quiet on the forum until he accused me of being into prostitution for just talking about it. I think that was blatant. He got my attention. He continued with blatant lies, including that 4 wheeler thread. You asked me then if I wanted him removed. I said no because the problem will just be shut off and and will recreate somewhere else. It needed to be worked out.
As I said. I think my "lie" thread worked, but it is probably too early to tell. I can go back to being quiet, but no. I will not let him go on with his lies without challenge.
What is the difference between a good post? In my opinion, it is truth. Others may think not arguing. But if it is true, I have no problem posting it, even if it causes arguing.
"MartinPC does have a point. Life is too short for this shitty forum."
Life is too short period. If you are out of the forum, will you have a longer life?
My beef with TomZ goes back months ago. If you don’t agree wit him,,,, and don’t have a gf laying next to you in bed every minute of the day,, then you are a failure? My reply was this,,, I’m looking for a wife,,,, you haven’t married one yet (fsu),, so you are not a success at what I’m trying to achieve,,,,, so how can you call me a failure and not yourself also??
Then,, he would not accept our definition of success and that we shouldn’t be applying it to others,,,, while never ceasing to call others failures?? At that time he started to act like a Dunt,,, absurdities, lies, contrary, everything opposite.
He is a Dunt,,,, but perhaps not thee Dunt. If he is danny,,, or is doing the perfect impersonation of danny,, then he is not here to help,,, and his sole purpose is to hurt.
He claims to be helping someone at the moment with airfare,,,, someone that is not proven legit yet,, at least not to me. That is another Dunt tactic,,, create bogus profiles,, argue or agree with them,,,, use them when needed.
TomZ: “I was trying to help others in that I was saying that one should make realistic choices but even that got trodden upon.”
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OK - I'm a cheap jerk. But if I am these women have made me this way. I've gotten used and abused so many times I've become jaded.
In spite of all this I still have a nice girlfriend which I'm grateful for. “
If that works for TomZ, then he should keep doing it for HIMSELF! But being a cheap jerk, has never helped anyone find and keep a woman anywhere at any other time.
Months ago, I told everyone here,, that the reason TomZ acts the way he does now,,, is because he had been taken advantage of in the past. I was right!!
He is against everything,,,, taxi fare, dinner/supper,,, gifts. Is he trying to balance the playing field??? If so,,, understand this,, the members of this 4um are just a drop in the bucket when comes to the number of men arriving in Kyiv everyday! If we all stop going,,, or if we all fly over with our wallets full tomorrow,,, it’s unlikely to change TomZ” odds!
"He is against everything,,,, taxi fare, dinner/supper"
He is only against things when you are doing it. There is no way he can be against these things.
Who can have decent conversations in the forum with someone like that littering around? Even Martin, who called himself neutral could not, in spite of what he says. He didn't let it go being called a pedophile by TomZ. Just last night, he posted, right before he declared himself neutral and after he told me to take the high road, he posted this:
"TomZ is such an irritating little shit, comparable to a mosquito but I have smoke coils to keep those irritating little shits away from me."
Well my girlfriend didn't make it back to me yesterday, the darn ferries are still fully booked, so tomorrow she hopes to travel to her home island of Leyte to occupy a day with her child before travelling Sunday/Monday to me.