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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > second thoughts Author Post dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:13:35 PM   do you want to resend it again? TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:22:29 PM   will do :o) Off in the tub now, so will look for your reply later, or tomorrow :o) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:23:24 PM   too late, the excrement as they say has hit the fan. I'm upset, which has made her upset. * it. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:25:29 PM   Oh bugger !!!!! Drop me an email if you want mate, I will get it in a while. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:26:26 PM   And just remeber, if the re;ationship is real and worth having, upstes will pass and real feelings will win through, life is full of upsets, its how we deal with them that counts !! TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:27:19 PM   Lets try that little lot again shall we !!! And just remember, if the relationship is real and worth having, upsets will pass and real feelings will win through, life is full of upsets, its how we deal with them that counts !! dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 1:41:31 PM   reply sent. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/14/2004 3:54:10 PM   Got it and answered it mate. Enjoy that call :o)) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 8:37:00 AM   I just wanted to resurrect this thread again because I'm having "second thoughts" and having 'one of those days' ...life is complicated sometimes. As much as I have deep feelings for this girl -hell, she takes my breath away like no other- and she'll only ever be the only Russian I'll consider seeing, I can't help but feel some days how and why I am in this position. Some days I am 100% sure I am going and will see her. Today, I'm 100% certain that I am not going. How familiar a story is this for others? I planned to send my visa application today which is now complete but quite frankly, I don't want to and although I haven't told her that (yet) I know she'll find my SMS I just sent not the best ever. Ultra Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 9:01:25 AM   Dma, have you asked yourself a question why do you have such a feeling? Why do you feel that you don’t want to go? Maybe it is because you are not sure in her feelings towards you, in her sincerity? Maybe you think that when you come there and meether in person there will not be chemistry between you? In this case you would have to part and start the search from the very beginning. And since you really like her your mind fights against this and that’s why you feel unwillingness to go…But until you go and meet her you will never know… dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 9:14:09 AM   TY Ultra. I can't and won't post replies in the forum to this doubt - it's far too public for what I have to say but if anyone understands in part and has an ear to lend, then I may consider a private email. I will likely be unavailable for the bulk of today (as I am up to no good) so don't expect any quick replies until much later, possibly tomorrow. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 9:27:35 AM   Dma I'm not going to ask you any questions, so you don't need to write back, but just read. I have to admit that I understand the way that you feel. Of course I have never been outside of Ukraine, and so the worries about the far travelling are not known to me. But I know what are the personal worries are...is it the person I looked for??? And if he will stay with me for long or will go...and so on. there is nothing wrong, people always doubt and worry before the unknown, and people's relations are the unknown area and each time it is something new, and which we can't predict. And especially if there is such a big distance between you. So my recomendation take your time, everything will be settled. Be sure that your girl worries the same, and she may have the very same thoughts, only she doesn't express them to you. Buran_Fan Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 10:16:13 AM   Tim, My apologies, but we Yanks here don't get the Skoda joke. It it anything like the old Lucas jokes? Also, thanks to everyone for putting in your two cents. It helps to know I'm not the only one that feels like this a zillion times a day. My other paranoia is that soon my lady will reach the 100 letter mark - only about 1/4 of them written by me. That fact doesn't worry me. It's hitting the 'century mark' and having her show up as "Miss Wow" or "Miss Sellaneous" :-) Yeah, yeah, I know - if the spark is there, I shoulnd't worry about letters from a flood of new admirers. But there's still this little voice in the back of my head. . . Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 10:40:41 AM   Buran_Fan as far as I understood your relation with that girl just started??? Oh am I not correct? In case there is just a beginning, then you have nothing to worry about yet, when the relation will progress then everything will come to it's places. But if the relationship is a rather long one, why don't you talk with her openly??? And tell her all your worries??? Any girl will like that you're honest with her:) Buran_Fan Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 11:52:29 AM   Privyet, Ptichka! I've been writing to this young lady since mid-December of last year. I initially wrote to her (if that means anything) From a certain perspecitve, you might say we 'just started'. As I wrote previously, she's finishing school, and I believe -that- needs to be the most important thing right now. I've even told her that in one of my letters. If I had my way, I'd be there now. I know we've only been writing for a short while, but a voice in my head tells me "Don't let her get away". That's a total of 3 voices - my head is beginning to feel a bit crowded :-) I guess my concerns come from a certain degree of self-doubt. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 1:22:22 PM   My Mum had a saying that would have described you to a tee Del` :o)) "He will never hang himself !!" In that you will never make up your mind to do something long enough to actually do it ;o)))) I hope you feel better today my friend ? :o)) You know you can mail me any time you need to mate. Buran, its just a crap car which most people would be embarrassed to be seen in mate thats all :o)) LMAO @ "Miss Sellaneous" If the voice is saying "Go on, you know you want to" then don't ignore it, embrace it ;o)) Its the ones that tell me, " you`re ugly, everyone hates you, you`re gonna lose" that I always ignore :o)) Again Ptichka is quite right :o) After the first week (which was 3 months ago) my Natasha was only writing to me through fiance, her count only ever rose each time I wrote her a letter, and when I asked her about it she was very happy to tell me that it was true, and pleased that I had noticed her devotion and commitment too. By that time I was only writing to her too, so again she was glad to know this information, and we haven't looked back since. And as you know we have met already (3 weeks ago) and everything went Very Very well for us both :o)) Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 1:22:48 PM   Oh I see, then I guess all I can say is that what I told Dma a little bit above. She is finishing school....or maybe Institute??? That's something I didn't understand. Buran_Fan Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 2:08:01 PM   Sorry for the bad wording, Ptichka. I should have said she's finishing her studies at a university. I forgot 'school' implies something different - and someone younger. Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 2:17:51 PM   You will have a million second thoughts if you don't go. A couple of years down the road when you are wondering why love has past you by and you have burnt the bridge to the "only russian woman you would have considered seeing" is enough incentive for me to make the trip. I don't understand nor need to know what the underlying problem is, but if she's the only one, FLY BOY FLY! TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/5/2004 2:59:32 PM   Here here Dale, couldnt agree more !! Now get a grip back on your bottle Del`, and make your plans :o)) You know if you dont that you will regret it !!! Russian brides > Main Forum > second thoughts
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