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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > find a western man Author Post tony1234 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 7:31:35 PM   Thanks for the post Icinderella, it was a fascinating read. i'm glad you are adapting well to Canada, and good luck for your future. icinderella Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2004 8:42:49 PM   Don’t cry for me Ptichka................. If you read English I was not complaining about my past. I was writing HOW HAPPY I am and about my adaptation. And anyway, what are you doing surfing this website? Are you trying to find a foreign man secret charm? I really don’t want to start a cat fight with you with people from all over the world watching. But you definitely made my blood boiling. And I wonder WHY SO MANY HAPPY UKRAINIAN WOMEN are looking for a man outside Ukraine? Have you ever thought of it? Thanks Tony for nice words. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 2:42:09 AM   I'm not shouting at you, I was just so startled with your words. I never shout at people. A friend of mine told me that there can be something interesting to see. I have never though about finding a foreign husband, and I don't want to find a one. I'm not sure how many Ukrainian women search for a man outside of the country, I never tried to find that out. But I know that many of my friends, are very happy with their boyfriends and husbands. I just wanted to tell you that it's not so good to generalize. There may be bad men, but there are good as well...what I tried to tell is that you can judge all men by one metric. Maybe I'm too emotial, sorry for that, but that's my temper:) Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 4:26:40 AM   Hi Ptichka- Just wanted to say that your input is greatly appreciated as there is not better way to learn a woman's perspective on things than straight from a woman herself. I don't think that most people tend to catagorize men or women. I'm sure there are alot of good men in Ukraine and to say all are lazy or drunks and so on, is blown way out of proportion. I won't bad-mouth the women from my country either.(U.S.) There are good women here also but the decent ones are few and far between. That's why I'm here. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 4:39:05 AM   Thank you a lot for your kind words!!!:) I agree with you that it's not good to generalize and catagorize people, but a lot of people try to do that. I'm not sure how it is in other countries, but here I came across such a thing. Especially when it is that girls should care about the house, and can't have their own interests beside it....I think it's crazy, don't you think so?:) One of my friends got married with an American, and she tells me how it is life there with the eyes of a Ukrainian girl. Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 4:53:34 AM   yes it's crazy! I'm interested in knowing what your girlfriend thinks of her new life and did she marry a good man? dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 4:58:45 AM   Thanks icinderella for giving a genuine perspective on the real difficulties you have experienced and probably most partners would experience in relocating to a new environment, man or woman. I read your words carefully and it has given me food for thought. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 5:15:56 AM   It's great Dale E that you agree with me, that's it's crazy:) It wasn't difficult for her to get used to her new life, because I believe that in her soul she was always oriented on changing the place of living, just because she didn't enjoy life here (meaning culture, habits, humor) I never saw him, but from her stories and letters, I think that he is a good, man but he is about 30 years older then she, or even more...that's what I can't understand, but they are happy:) Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 5:42:22 AM   30 yrs. to me is a HUGE gap in age! Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 5:54:59 AM   Yes it is. She is 23 and he is about 30+years older then she. But they are really happy:))) Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 6:01:04 AM   I know HE is! Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 6:05:08 AM   And she is too:) If to judge from her letters:) Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 6:18:18 AM   Nice chatting with you Ptichka, I'm going to bed. I work weird hours. 4:00 inthe afternoon till 3:00 inthe morning and it's six in the morning now. Don't be a stranger to our forum, I know all the guys get excited when a woman makes a posting here! :o) Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 6:20:36 AM   Thank you Dale E!!! I wish a good night:) Or should I say morning??:) Thank you for your encouragement, I appreciate it:) icinderella Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 12:04:57 PM   I'm glad you had a good time making fun of me. My husband is 6 years older then me. But you have nothing to say because we are on the different sides of a fence. I'm here and you are there. Yeah - Don't be a stranger to this forum. Maybe you'll get lucky too. Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 12:12:47 PM   No one is making fun of you. Why the bitterness? Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 12:14:44 PM   icinderella I never made fun of you. I really have a friend in USA, who is married with a man who is older 30 years then she is. I'm not your enemy or anything like that. And I don't try to find a man here, I have my boyfriend already and I really love him. I'm here just to communicate with people, it's the only place where I can communicate with people from different countries...so what's wrong in that? icinderella Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 4:53:58 PM   To DaleE : I guess I became a little bit snappy after a few nights with no sleep. My kids have contacted some nasty virus and our night sleep became a history. To Ptichka: I was surprised you are a woman to start with. And I didn’t expect that my posting would become a chat with another extra topic. I was looking for more answers to my question. And I’m sure there are many great, non-drinking, devoted, loving guys in Ukraine and FSU including yours. But there is something unique (in a good way) in America when it comes to the family and kids. There is always an exception to any rule. There is always a rotten apple in a good batch. Everybody knows it. But there is more good than bad here, in general. Anyway, Ptichka, enjoy being in love and socializing with the OTHER guys. I’ll drop by to check any new suggestions on my posted questions. tradman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/26/2004 5:34:44 PM   thank you both for your contributions, both very different, but both very interesting, there are hundreds of different experience, we must not generalise, there are many good women in England, I just happen to think that there are many more in the FSU that match what I am looking for, the maximum age group I look for is 10 years, I would have no problem with 20 years younger, but I would like that she is attracted to me physically now and in 20 years time, hence, I do not correspond with someone who is 20, it is building up problems in the future, I am glad that uou are happy in the west icindarella, and that you are happy in the Ukraine ptichka Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/27/2004 3:50:10 AM   Apology accepted, though I never felt you were directing your anger at me. :o) Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > find a western man
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