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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Narrowing The List Author Post michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/29/2004 3:38:07 PM   Im ready to date a Russian monkey at this point LOL are there monkeys in Russia? lol ensata Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/29/2004 3:42:17 PM   I don't know about monkeys but how about a Siberian tigress? I have had good conversations with Siberian women, and Tim has certaintly enjoyed his Siberian tiger lol, Ditto Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/29/2004 3:46:09 PM   Where do I send my letters to be professionally reviewed? Actually, all the ladies I have chosen have had few letters. Of the ladies that chose to write to me, I only responded to the ones with few letters. I understand what you people are saying and in general it is very good advice. Obviously I won't know for sure until I meet them and even then I might not be sure. The advice about talking on the phone is great, but I need to narrow it down before then. I'm not spending all my money calling 12 ladies from Ukraine. I want to narrow it down to 2 or 3 before I visit. I guess I've just been too concious of not focusing on just one. Can someone recommend someones sister? dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/29/2004 4:38:52 PM   If you search around - you'll probably find some unbelievable deals for phone calls. My calls to Russia are CHEAPER than a local rate in the UK (which I subscribe to unlimited usage anyway). It's not surprising that I talk for hours with her - it costs virtually nothing but is very expensive if you use a common/popular carrier. TimH Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/29/2004 5:46:50 PM   I didn't think you would need me to bail you out so fast !!! No Michael, I didn't see any monkeys looking for a western man !!! And there are No bears there being walked through the streets on chains any more either ;o))) Hmmm now let me see Del` *checks wallet, checks pockets, counts how many Rubleis he has left* The answer has two words, Both with only one syllable each, and the second word is, off, can you guess what the other one is Malchiki e Davoushki ? :o)) Ens` "Before Lucy hit "be like a ton of bricks"" Don't think I know that one mate, can you hum the tune ? ;o))) "Tim has certainly enjoyed his Siberian tiger lol" Tigress actually mate ;o)) And still have the scars to prove it too ;o)) Ditto: Unless you are going on a tour, planning to meet more than one woman is a very Bad idea !! If they get wind that you are not coming just for them they Will be very offended and you might end up meeting no one !! Instead of spreading your self so thin, concentrate on the one woman who writes good honest letters, answers your questions properly and has given you her name and address without a fight, if the only one who has done this has a face like the back of a bus, then try some other girls, but try to get it down to one :o) Del` I have had a deal for 4 years now that costs me less to phone the USA than it does to call my next door neighbour !!! Its got me lots of US business as when someone in the US wants a part and emails me to ask about it, I tell them I have it, and that I will call them to arrange order, payment and shipping, their phone number is usually back with me within the hour !! :o) michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/29/2004 11:59:04 PM   I agree Tim get it down to one.For awhile I was writng and calling two ladies from the same city before I got it down to one.Its just a gut feeling but I think they both may have know about it.I dont want to go into further details why I think this is true.Maybe they used the same agency.The point is like Tim is saying be as sincere as you can.At first I blamed the lady for not being sincere but look whos talking.Lets just say I ate my humble pie and didnt get any ice cream with it-LOL scottlf Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 12:22:19 AM   Guess that depends on what flavor ice cream you choose. michaelbutler Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 12:28:44 AM   I am going to try a new flavor the brown flavor didnt taste so well lol IceChaos Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 3:24:40 AM   hi gents i have found one very charming woman that the rest of you rats (just kidding) overlooked. hopefully i will be meeting her in sept. i think that it is easier just to concentrate on one, though i am still looking around. after all they keep adding more women to the site. ice Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 3:45:57 AM   That's great because I'm meeting her in august. lol dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 4:45:31 AM   I have her in July. lol tradman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 5:28:49 AM   next week dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 5:37:12 AM   last night GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 8:49:11 AM   She's right here with me right now, lol Don't bother calling her...she can't speak on the phone. Her mouth is ...er...rather busy at the moment....:)))) Ultra Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 9:13:53 AM   ""Between the ladies I have chosen to write to and the ones that chose me, there are currently 12 on the list. It is time to narrow the list....What criteria do you gentleman use for deselecting the ladies?""" First of all I can not quite understand why you can not narrow the list. Don’t you mean that you really like all of them? I think if you are looking for a soul mate you should have some preferences…you must FEEL that here is SHE. If you can’t choose yourself the ONE it means that you are not seriously interested in any of them. What are you waiting for? You wait till one of them say “I love you, I want to be your wife.” ? But even if a lady really loves you she will never say you this first as it is not decent for the “right” lady. So I suggest you think about it and choose those ones who You like most of all (judging not only by their appearance of course). Then you can start asking more private precise questions about her views on life, what she expects from her future partner, if she is ready to leave her country and follow her love… You can use the following “trick” – tell her/them that you are going to come to visit her as soon as you can. You will be able to figure out her feelings towards you by her reaction – either she will be excited, or indifferent, or disappear at all. Good luck to you, mate :0)) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 9:33:35 AM   Of course, choosing the ONE is mutual. You may think that she may be the one for you; but are you the one for her? I don't think there is a magic formula to finding the one - it just happens (the X factor) - and when it happens it will hit you like a tonne of bricks that all other decisions you thought difficult previously, were not. Using "tricks" is a good way to filter out the time-wasters and I would recommend deploying this as quickly as possible to avoid unnecessary wasted letters, but of course you must be prepared to follow through whatever you say. ensata Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 9:45:56 AM   After a couple weeks here I had about a dozen I was corresponding with to one degree or another. My first winnowing was to correspond with about four who I seemed to be having some mutual favor with. Rather than just going to one correspondence so soon, I figured that 4 or 5 were manageable. I could begin to write in more depth and expect that they would also do so. Some of the narrowing down was kind of automatic, some obvious. After getting more into it with a smaller number then it became clearer where the mutual compatibilities were and were the spark was. At first I was drawn to one particular woman, but I kept the other correspondences going. When I sent this one flowers and she would not receive them at her home, but only at her office, I knew this to be a red flag. So after a few inquiries with her as to why - I figured it was sayonara. Then a few weeks later it became a no-brainer that Lucy was the only one I wanted to continue with. I will continue talking and writing to her and visit her until it all breaks one way or another. dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 9:50:05 AM   what reasons did she give? Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 9:58:48 AM   ensata I don't wish to protect anybody, but there is one big reason for not receiving flowers in the house (unless it's a private house), but if it's a usual many-stored house with many flats, there is one big reason - elderly women, sitting on the benches before the house from early morning until late in the evening. They know everybody living there and they don't let any stranger come into the house, if only somebody who lives there comes and takes the guest, they are not paid for this guarding work, they just do it for pleasure. And besides at least here in Lugansk many many-stored houses with many flats, they are closed either for the code lock or for a lock which you can't open without a key.... As I said I don't want to protect anybody, but just wanted to clear the situation up:) dma Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/30/2004 10:02:28 AM   ty for that reason, Ptichka. Russian brides > Main Forum > Narrowing The List
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