Ok, eeyore....you win.
This website is full of ladies who DO NOT meet your criteria.
Will you now the the FUCK out of here once and for all?
Thank you...good bye...and good riddance.
toad
No way Man, I would not want to deal with his as a patient. Have you read what that crazy donkey writes? He is delusional! In his last post you can actually notice (1) delusion (2) disorganized speech and (3) negative affective symptoms....You only need 2 of them to be present more often than not in a 1 month period in order to be diagnosed with schizophrenia. ....And I have the feeling that he has presented those symptoms for a lot longer. In addition, he appears to be somewhat delusional and paranoid, so may as well give a full Schizophrenic with a 295.30 paranoid subtype diagnosis. In other words.....He needs meds. I hope for the sake of all Russian women who make the mistake to contact him that they do not speak English since he appears to be quite firm about the language requirement.
For the record crazy donkey...You will probably be “drooling” again very soon. It is one of the side effects of some medication to treat schizophrenia.
Well Dax, perhaps there is a little Jenny donkey for him out there somewhere, just as whacked...........You know the scary thing is ....there just may be
I am not sure any patient would want to be under dax.
Dax, are you from the US? -The land founded by people who refused to conform.
Are you genuinely one of those doctors who selected a special area where you can keep 9-5 office hours and never have to see blood?
(But you still feel the patients purse before starting treatment.)
If so, you should know better than discussing a diagnosis in public.
And, I have no delusions, and no paranoia - you really *are* out to get me.
Quite apart from that: My first posting was actually about a reality check.
I am just making your life fun my dearest donkey. Just relax and do not take things personal. Notice, however, that my therapy style is already working on you; you had the cojones to reply to me so, your self –esteem is not totally dead. I am indeed in the US, the land of the free. And no, I do not take my patient’s money; I work for a charitable institution. And it is not illegal or unethical to diagnose a Disney character on line. But seriously, from one guy to another, you need a reality check my friend. You need to act with balls. If girl X is looking for John Wayne and I am the Rock, I will show her the reasons why the Rock is a hundred times better. Everything is in the attitude rather than in the wants of a girl. If you read enough profiles, which I am sure you have done, most girls are just looking for a decent man to treat them like a person and not some jerk who treats them like prostitutes. There are obviously some that would react well to such attitude, but for the most part, just be nice respect them, and you might be able to find the person you are looking for. I have been here for less than a month, and I was very skeptical about the whole thing; I though I was going to get rip off. But it hasn’t happened that way. While I found a couple of suspicious characters, most girls, at least on my experience, are really nice. One important thing is to be realistic though, look at yourself in the mirror and the things you have to offer. Are you handsome? Do you have a good profession or business? Your age, etc. All of those things influence greatly, a lot more than being or not a “real man.” I can guarantee you that if you look like Brad Pitt or have his money, most women will be glad to become your wife, even if you like to play with Barbie dolls instead of fishing or hunting. At the same time, sit down and make a list of what you are looking for in a woman from the way she looks, religion, kids, etc. Have a mental picture of who you really want to find. My first week here I was all over the spectrum, but I took some of the advise of some of the experimented people here, even Toad, and some of my own stuff, and waited. Since I have been on this site, I have been getting at least one or two letters per day, but there have been those days in which I had not receive any at all; usually a Saturday or a Sunday. I was very tempted to reply to some real knock outs, but I knew they were not what I was looking for; so I waited. A week later, I opened a letter and there she was, physically, and for what I was able to read in her profile, she was the woman of my dreams from the color of her eyes, to her education level. I personally do not care about the language, since I am quite capable of learning her language as long as she is willing to learn mine. However, she came with an added bonus, she speaks English quite well. And she also came with another major bonus, but I will reserve that to myself for now. If things work out, I will tell my story later; and if it doesn’t, I will keep on searching. In fact, a few days ago I opened another letter from another excellent candidate, and she also speaks English very well; so for now, I am talking to her too just in case. So, follow some of my advice my dearest Mustafa, and good hunting. If you really want her, she will come!
Re. 'reality check':
If you go back and inspect you will find that my first posting was actually exactly that. -A realisation that according to my 'wishing list' there is less than one page of profiles. Furthermore, some of the women I 'want' do not want me. Very "real"!!
Re. what girl X wants: Since I have not yet met her, it would be easier for me to look for a 'girl X' who wants something which I am, rather than me changing myself or me trying to change her opinion of what she wants.
And, I am not handsome, and, I do not have a good profession or business. Is that necessary for being here?
If so, I certainly *am* in the wrong place!
I *did* have a mental picture of what I want. That's when I stopped being the little boy drooling in the lolly-pop shop and became the 'realist'!
By the way: US was the land of the free - once upon a time. But now?
It is also the land of the Pill-popping...
And now a *very* important question I want you to analyse:
The reactions expressed above were somewhat strong.
eeyore- Don't worry about being ugly or not being a business man. Have seen many sites that show marriage pictures and there are some dog-ass ugly men that end up with some real cuties. Just show them some attention and respect and you'll go farther than you can imagine. Of course you've got to have the cash to get there.
"Since I have not yet met her, it would be easier for me to look for a 'girl X' who wants something which I am, rather than me changing myself or me trying to change her opinion of what she wants." eeyore I'm not searching, but I know from living here, that the easiest way is not to change yourself, but to develop yourself to the next level. If you won't do that, nobody will do that for you!! And as for me I don't like to communicate with the people who don't develop....it's really boring for me:)
"And, I am not handsome, and, I do not have a good profession or business. Is that necessary for being here?" now you're complaining...don't you tired of that??? Maybe you should do something else besides complaining??? Maybe read a good book, or what a really good film...something that makes person think, and something what touches his feelings???:)
Toad- Here's a little friendly advice, try not to use certain words that maybe offensive to some people. I have no problem with them as I am a machinist that works with other guys all day that smash fingers and drop heavy parts on their feet. But some people might complain, plus the fact that some ladies read our posts. Olga wields a big eraser and can erase your butt off this site faster than you can say "what the hell" I'm not jumping you, just trying to help!
ID, if he is as a joke then it's even worse for him:) But I think that the topic about the real man, may be a rather helpful thing, after all. The definition of a real man, is a rather degraded definition to my mind, at least the one that I wouldn't risk to make:) It's so subjective, but as no any subjective definition worth discussing:) Of course it's all IMHO, but this is what I think:)
the real man topic is valid Ptichka but he must be a joke, I can see no other explaination. And why is it so bad for him, he is laughing at our replies, the only sad thing is that her has the time to waiste to do such a thing.