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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Is this girl for real? Author Post Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/24/2004 5:00:47 AM   litterbin 2 years is a long time...and if you didn't decide what you wanted from that girl for 2 years...at least you could show her and tell her that you intensions are serious. The thing that you spent 2 years communicating with her itself shows nothing...if during these 2 years you didn't speak about your plans for your and hers future together...then it's no wonder she got tired. "women don't know what a gentleman is, and cannot understand it when you treat them as a lady", it's a very big generalization, it means that there are no good women who don't understand decent attitude towards them, and there are no good man who treat their women i a very kind and goo way...as a summary of these words we may say that all people here are not decent people, which is rather funny:)))) As I always say there are may be good and bad people, but never a generalization should be made litterbin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/24/2004 11:30:41 AM   Ptichka - it was not I who made the generalisation, but a Russian lady. Also, the "lady" who chucked me knew full well what my thoughts and intentions were. We had exchanged visits before, she had said that she would marry me. We were supposed to be getting married - that was why I went to Belarus this last time to finalise arrangements. As I said to her "if you have changed your mind, why don't you tell me?" No answer. So, having tried to eleict an answer in another way, I finally said "Okay,then, forget the whole thing". She has, by her own admission, a pschological problem. But the money with which I supplied her subsidised her other activities. She knew, alright, and as long as it suited her to take the money that was okay, she'd say anything she thought I wanted to hear. But when it came time to front up and make good on her promises to me - that was a different story! I didn't waste time at any point - but I was thwarted by her with so many (I now see)lame excuses for not getting married. What an escape for me! Why am I so annoyed? Because I worked so hard to win her and I still don't know why she treated me like she did. It was, quite frankly, inexcusable! I won't be lead down that path again, that's for sure. Ptichka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/24/2004 11:54:35 AM   Oh I'm so sorry, I just did misunderstood the whole situation...so now I can only say that you it was a narrow escape, and that you can say that you were lucky no to marry the women who is not serious, and can't keep her word...and I think that she wasn't quite honest with you, right??? Anyway it's in the past, and I'm glad to welcome you here, and I hope that you will find your happiness:))) tradman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/24/2004 1:53:25 PM   you have my sympathy litterbin, but two years is a long time to keep up an act, maybe I am just lucky, but all the girls I met, were beautiful, intelligent and sincere. And the one I settled on is all of those things as well, but we have chemistry as well. when I left her at the airport, I gave her about $30 in local currency, she gave me $25 back, saying the taxi would not be that expensive. She only accepted it, laughingly(what a great laugh, no act)when I pointed out, I could not spend it in Britain. Although I paid for all the meals at the restaurants, she would turn up every morning with breakfast, that she had brought with her own money, and paid for her own taxi to get there.....She is off to live in Italy for 3 months(she has a brother there) so she has no need of my help to come to the west. Is it just me, or is it so difficult to see through someone who is not sincere? sethie Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/24/2004 2:09:46 PM   Just wanted to say: "NONE OF US CARES HOW YOU FEEL, WE ONLY CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU DO DO." Toad, you're not speak in for me. In fact, this is one of the things that has drawn me to Russian women, is that time after time in personal ads, they say they not only want a man who is strong, but someone who will share their innermost feelings and be vulnerable with them. GLTALLTOAD Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/24/2004 5:43:09 PM   Sethie, let me translate what you read in the western personal ads from women who want a strong man who will share his "innermost feeling and be vulnerable with them", lol First a couple of definitions.... 'feelings' are what is considered Female Energy. Any father who watched his puberty age daughter grow up can tell you that girls need to "feel good" to "do good" 'Actions' and the thoughts leading to them are considered Male Energy. Most men worth their salt 'feel good' only after having 'done good' Women and men have both of these energies. Most western women make no qualms whatsoever that they want to dominate BOTH the male and female energies in any relationship with men....They want to ACT any way they see fit and want you to respect them for it. They also want their men to cherish their feelings in any way they (women) want. The above described formula renders most western males who enter this type of relationship as little more than a human doormat. The very same result would happen to any woman who does respects her man, but gets no cherishing of her feeling in return. Doormat syndrome all the way... Now, many western men are perfectly happy living like that...After all, millions of men have been raised and trained to pee sitting down and to play with dolls over the last 40 years by the very same women who started the feminazi movement. Sling came here with a unique personal situation and I, like most other men here do not want to see him waste his energy making the same mistakes many of us have made in the past. So it is with an honest wish for a better overall outcome for his search that I made the blatant reference to his feeling not being cared by anyone here.... You can go ahead and cherish his feeling all you want, Sethie. Be well, laugh often...:))))....and f...ng stop taking my comments out of context, please. toad sethie Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/25/2004 2:08:18 AM   You can go ahead and cherish his feeling all you want, Sethie ahhhh schucks. :-) Sling came here with a unique personal situation and I, like most other men here do not want to see him waste his energy making the same mistakes many of us have made in the past. So it is with an honest wish for a better overall outcome for his search that I made the blatant reference to his feeling not being cared by anyone here.... Got it, I think -- that comment was you expressing concern, nothing more, nothing else. As for your ideas about masculinity and femininity and culture, I shall ponder on them. Be well, Sethie Dale E Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/25/2004 4:09:33 AM   To all ladies of the F.S.U.- Do not believe everything GLTALLTOAD writes.There are not millions of men raised by "feminazi" women. (Whatever that means.) Nor trained to pee sitting down. The only ones that were, happened to be little boys with extremely bad aim. :o) I happened to be raised by parents who taught me good morals and showing respect for other people.(men and women) I still help little old ladies cross the street. :o) nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 6/25/2004 7:11:50 AM   Dale E Feminazi is a term introduced by Rush Limbaugh to describe radical feminist women here in the states. The Anti men crowd especially. You were blessed with great parents like me, who gave me everything I needed on the morality department. My Dad will always be my hero in that area. I would love to have the marriage they had. But that was a different time, when traditional values meant something. Later Mike Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Is this girl for real?
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