Jeeezz, and I was expecting you to run to the pawn-shop with your biggest Teddybear!!
Disappointing, Birdie, really now... :)
Your story just proves a point in that anything has been tried already. Surely she reported him to the scammer's site's as well? Mmmm, beware of greedy male scammers preying on gullible Russiam Maidens....
Hey Sancho, surely now you know what 'greedy' means mentioned in Profile's??
Ptichka, think about it. I too have no strong statistics, but why would western men try to scam eatern women as much as eastern women try to scam western men? Eastern women scammers are going for gold, with the incomes significantly higher in the west. Western scammers, well, go for gold, but usually go for golden scams, not trying to scam a lady who makes 150 bucks a month, like my fiance!
Well I know men hurt woman and some men are snakes, I am responsible for me, I say what I mean and I do what I say, this is my credo. I don't string women on filling them with false hopes; I was just saying on another thread that I hate to have to hold a girl at bay while I wait for this other girl to fulfill my expectations. I think men and women alike are here for the same reasons. We all want hope for a better tomorrow, whether that is in the form of companionship, marriage, love, or personal growth and self development in a relationship. Personally I would rather disappoint a woman with a decline letter right up front, cause I hate it when I get them, but it is better than stringing someone along, disappointment is easier to deal with than the heartbreak of lies and deceit. Sometimes I write with the sole male perspective in mind Ptichka but I believe we all SHOULD be the perfect balance of male and female energy. I know that I am at least 50% female because my mother was one.
I only neglected to mention women in my string I know they have feelings too and men are less than fair.
Well put, Wes. IT is better to decline than to string along. But you need some time to determine if they are right for you or not first. Let a few letters go by, talk to them, and then make your decision. It is better to at least find out more about each woman.
True, Buckeyeman, most of them cancel out though really, I'm not gonna mess with the young
ones, some just don't have the phsy appeal you know, a few can't communicate at all. the list get's bigger and it is getting bigger the more I am here and realixe what I don't want. I am getting a clearer idea now of what I do want. I may have found it all ready time will tell and then I will tell all. Scottif got his visa today
Wes, glad to hear you are swearing off the young uns! :-)) You will be happier in the end if you shoot for a lady withless of an age difference. But you are right, there are times when a lady does cancel out, she just decides the man is not what she is looking for. Again, I suggest the ebook by Elena Petrova which details the best writing method to help eliminate the pitfalls of communication with FSU women, in terms of cultural differences, etc. You may never even know you have made an offending remark because of the differing cultural ways.
Ok I purchased and down loaded this book; it goes against my nature to do this, in a previous thread I did explain a philosophical supposition of mine, and that was exspense is the enemy of profit. How ever since you are so opionionated about this book I will read it. We both know I am beyond help. I will share my thinking process with you,
A. The book will help.
B. Someone may have to replace you if you can get ? over here.
C. Perhaps the girl I want will write me back and say something positive.
Which could be as simple as a qustion like, Wess do you know the Chance brother's? Then I wasted my money on Book I won't need and I can be semi cool with that!
Hey I am half way through her story this is a good and informative read, I feel some really good stuff here lies ahead, it is good to dispell the myths, knowledge is power, back on the street where I grew up we said that power was leverage but I'm pretty laid back now man! what did you think of my profile!