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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > sex at the first meeting? Author Post jjbarrier Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/20/2004 4:16:06 PM   Thanks for the comment, wessman, I probably will do so, actually not all is gloom and doom as I am making preparations to go to Moscow to meet a lady I have been writing to for a while. I have commented on this forum before, as a percentage it seems perhaps 10 - 20% of the ladies write letters would allow (for me anyway) the emotional bond to form, I am curious if others have similar experiences. groon Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/20/2004 4:22:50 PM   jj: Yeah I have noticed that too. Most of the letters are too formal. Almost as if they were writing a business letter or a thank you letter. It's as if they do not know how to express themselves in writing or they are too scared to open themselves up. Dunno what the real reason is but man it was very frustrating. I was about to cancel my membership here and stick with local woman when I took a chance and wrote someone. Now she's the only reason I'm still here. Hope things go well for you and the lady you are going to see. wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/20/2004 4:47:33 PM   As I had stated, they are extremely gun shy, if you knew the hardships these women endure really with the few available men in their region you know it is spelled betrayal. They are apprehensive (afraid) to reach out and bond with men period and then from overseas! It is a fact that if you write a four or five page introduction/bio letter and then translate it into Russian you will be so confused which woman to choose because there will be too many. In this letter assure them you are looking for a wife and that if you form a bond you will travel to their city for a visit. Don't tell them what a great husband you will make and how much stuff you have and don't extoll your virtues. If you want them to know you are honest tell them a story about something you did that shows you are honest. Every liar in the world starts the lie out with... Really, or this is true, or you might not believe this but... or I'm not kidding you. You have to lead, they want to open up they just need to be encouraged. When you start to correspond ask the girl to write you a bio and share her life story with you. jjbarrier Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/20/2004 9:07:12 PM   Groon, thanks for the wishes, and I hope things will develop well for you and your lady as well. I have been a member here for 4 months now and had correspondence with over 60 ladies, and there are only a handful that really developed meaningful correspondence. Some of the letters I got from Azov were remarkably similar, even whole paragraphs were the same, makes you wonder. I do believe the hardship the women there are facing, both economically and in terms of chances to form lasting relationships. Several women have stated that 1/3 of the men are married, 1/3 are either drunk or in jail, so that leaves few good men for the women. I don't think they have a concept though how the situation from our side looks like, and I have had 2 ladies ask me to come see them after 5 - 10 letters, before any significant bond developed. I wrote them that I didn't feel it was the right time yet and that I wanted to be a deeper relationship to be there, and that was the end with either one of them. For me living in the US it's a significant amount of time and money invested if I go see a lady, so I am not going to do it without strong reason. I was trying to express that much in my posting on the ladies forum, I hope it gets the point across. sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 12:01:42 PM   "...Mene mene tekel ufarsin..." -You certainly are multi-lingual, Thunderdome! "...Get the book! ..." The Book?? ?? wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 12:27:30 PM   You know the Book, right!! come on we have been talking about the book for months!! sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 2:44:25 PM   " You know the Book, right!! come on we have been talking about the book for months!! " I must have been sleeping... wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 3:05:18 PM   How to marry a beautiful Russian woman like me, by Elena Petrova, it will keep you from stepping into the pitfalls and teach you how to keep you money. It will also give you the information you need to be highly successful here. www.womanrussia.com sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 3:11:01 PM   "sex at the first meeting?" What would 'she' (the proverbial 'average' girl) think about a man if he asks....? What would she think about him if he does not ask...? What would she think, if she created a 'situation' where he should have 'taken the initiative' (or whatever...), but did not...? sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 3:13:20 PM   Thanks wessman wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 3:23:45 PM   when it is right it flows and happens you need to find a girl first, did you write any woman yet or R U still reading the profiles? groon Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/21/2004 6:02:17 PM   jj: "For me living in the US it's a significant amount of time and money invested if I go see a lady, so I am not going to do it without strong reason." My thoughts exactly! sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/23/2004 9:07:23 AM   sex at the first meeting? Would "A Real Man" ask for it? Would He respect her if she said No? Would A Real Man's doctor have an opinion? wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/23/2004 10:12:23 AM   sure read his opinion in car and driver magazine. Thunderdome Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/24/2004 6:45:52 PM   Would "A Real Man" ask for it? Well, presuming we're talking a man to a woman, a gay won't - so what's left? Would He respect her if she said No? Turn it around - would you? Would A Real Man's doctor have an opinion? Doctors always have an opinion - it's what you pay them for, and only for a wrong one you can sue. But what's your point with this thread Sanch'? You never had a date, totally forgot what happens when you're alone, or what? But not only that, the mere question suggests you believe the common misconception that women are not affected by their hormones - wake up please? sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/25/2004 8:56:02 AM   Let's try again. 1) re. " Would "A Real Man" ask for it? --> Would 'She' think 'He' is not a real man, if he does not ask? (Let's disregard the issue that 'He' has made up his mind beforehand and concentrate on 'Her' reactions) re. "Would He respect her if she said No? " --> HER thoughts about HIS respect... re."Would A Real Man's doctor have an opinion? " ---> Assuming the doctor takes a clinical view: What would the doctor think about STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) and sex at the first meeting...? (assuming the doctor has access to relevant health statistics) sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/25/2004 9:04:27 AM   Let's try again. 1) re. " Would "A Real Man" ask for it? --> Would 'She' think 'He' is not a real man, if he does not ask? (Let's disregard the issue that 'He' has made up his mind beforehand and concentrate on 'Her' reactions) re. "Would He respect her if she said No? " --> HER thoughts about HIS respect... re."Would A Real Man's doctor have an opinion? " ---> Assuming the doctor takes a clinical view: What would the doctor think about STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) and sex at the first meeting...? (assuming the doctor has access to relevant health statistics) Worldtraveller Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2004 10:29:30 AM   Sancho, what the hell you are asking here in all your questions? Havn´t followed the forum here for a while, but the mountains of Sancho´s questions make me believe he is only here to find another chatter-box! If I would have ever thought so long about so many unimportant questions - for sure never in my life I would have had time enough to start moving to eastern europe. What you are doing here isn nothing else than useless blabla. Without any intention, without any results. Just useless. Sex at the first meeting? I just read the story from scott. My experinece from the last couple of years is very simple, much more simplier than the exaggerated complicated behaviour from you: if any girl from Russia, Ukraina, MOldova or elsewhere agrees to accompany you into your hotel-suite or appartment, than in the very very most cases she agrees (and expects!!!) into sexual intercourse. Believe it or not, but the girls here are more practical and have not the time and interest to discuss for weeks about such natural things as you are doing here! WT sanchopanza Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2004 10:38:40 AM   re."Believe it or not, but the girls here are more practical and have not the time and interest to discuss for weeks about such natural things as you are doing here! " Actually, Worldtraveller, the topic, 'sex at the first meeting?', WAS raised in the girls' Forum. (I am sorry if my questions make your blood presure go up, that was not my intention. Perhaps Internet access is not good.) wessman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 8/26/2004 2:39:29 PM   I wish I could mail you my book my friend certainly all the answers are in the book, I feel you are hopelessly doomed. I like some of the others are wondring if you want to meet women here or if you feel it is your job to be the antagonist. Well what you do here is your business, but if you do not follow some of the protocol that you receive in answer to your moronic questions what is the use? the reason, the purpose, reasonable minds would like to know. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > sex at the first meeting?
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