toad and trav,
trav, where in the hell do you get your info on tours? you dont have a clue of what you are talking about. it is all what you think you have heard and from one women you dated? get real.all washed down information is your basis of analogy. you are blending in these companies together like they all belong to the same ring . you do not know a thing about them obviously. sex parties where they invite hookers to attend? your making me laugh. that is totally ludicrous and unfounded. so one hooker sneaks in , so what? afa and european connections have loads of men who have been sucessful in finding marriage. they are associated with the BBB excellent status.those who choose not to fork out the cash to experience something because of their unfounded fears are usually the ones who are trying to nickle and dime their way to find love and to and from the fsu.
toad,
i cant remember ever saying in the present and past referring to hookers at a social. please show me the thread. as far as your questions, the hookers at the 4 and 5 star are employed by the mob who are assigned to that hotel only. that is where they stay and work. the hotel does not bother them and they are strictly business. everyone is well aware who they are. if there is a social going on, they might be lucky to know about it. they have got better things to do. as far as your other question toad, my experience is with european connections, no women can attend unless they have been a registered member with no complaints . if they screw up they are gone . just like forum. european connections knows exactly who the attendees are. they are american based with 30 years family owned . there was no indication to me that any women wanted nothing more than to meet me and experience my charm and grace. trust me toad , i can spot a hooker from one who isnt. i know i promote socials because i couldnt swallow anymore canned letters. toad dont knock it until you have tried it. most of the stories and what you hear are pure third and fourth hand buffoonery. a social costs about the same as going on your own.are there hookers , yes in vegas and kyiv. toad , i cant imagine a guy the way you come across can be so skeptical about meeting women live . you appear to me as being a man of adventure. i honestly think you should go to one and then come back and write . you would be tickled pink. your whole outlook will change and you will be much better educated about this endeavor on e-mailing. if you go to a social, you are greeted at the airport and they will not let you get lost or let anything happen to you. all the way to the end. of course if you want to go alone to meet one girl and get information from our fsu gurus here on how to save your pennies and nickles at the train station for a ride is fine. but for the very first time it is the best educational experience money can buy. and toad, it is only a few thousand dollars.
jmoluv, come now there is no harm in trying to save a buck here and there. I have done much research on it as well and I can say the stories I have read have just as much merrit as any here. It is true we might like it but still just the same it is a different experience for different folks. I am convinced that the the mix will be about the same. I am sure there are those more serious than others and I am sure there are just as many people trying to make a buck off you in person as through the letters. Once again I might bring up that money is helpful but I believe that you can do anything you set your mind too. I think the real thing here to think about is it happens and no matter what we do here, there, everywhere someone is willing to help seperate you from your money. I really don't think its the money but the principal that really scares anyone. It sucks to be had period. It sucks worse when you know its your own fault. Lets not blaim anyone for being careful. I was told about the hookers from one in Riga. She warned me about the many things to expect and again she is one herself! Yes I found out in a letter but I have no doubt she was real as shortly after the topic in the forum she quickly closed her shop on this site. She said she also attended ones in Moscow as well. So again you never know? She never told me how many but that there was enough of them to lookout for.
jmoluv, I don't have the appetite to begin a feud with the prick like you show yourself to be. You’re unable to dare yourself in the challenge of actually winning a woman yourself, so you fork money so others will do this for you. Do yourself a favor, go to the socials, knock yourself, and shut your mouth because you can't tell the hole of a hooker from a fag. I will speak up whenever I want and I will stuff your mouth with your crap each time you dare to provoke me.
Yes, guys, I am looking at you for about a year and most people on this forum are a bit strange... It is like falling on the ground before somebody and shouting "Help me! He is killing me."
You know, hundreds of you guys have come through my agency, and you Gustavo, and you Jeofrey. You are all the same, begin writing to a decent girl, close to your age and feel happy. But then a charming birdie of 18-20 writes some sweet crap to you and you melt like snow in warm weather. Do you need a daughter or a wife, sir?
You shout: "Why don't they give us their e-mails? I wanna piss off this site and I am a smart guy to save 30 bucks when she will write to me personally!" You know, there are 70 girls in my agency. And only some 10 of them just know what IS E-MAIL! Should they? Their task is to sattisfy you in bed, cook a tasty dinner and be good mother for your kids!
You shout! Oh you are with the agency! I will not write to you! Have you thought that we at least ask our clients for passports and know where they all live? yes we censor letters, we ask them to write through the agency but it is our bread and believe me not easy bread. All right if you a Premium then it pays somehow but some of you write HUNDREDS letters which makes a cost of one letter just funny. tell me, how much will a translation of one page from Russian into English cost in the UK? I know the cost. Will you agree to pay my interpreters this price for every letter? No you don't want this. You want "private e-mail".
You know, at the entrance of our office we have a big instruction hanging on the wall "It is strictly forbiden to ask for money in your letters!" And we look for it.
Gustavo, do you really think that you will spoil your lady too much by sending her some present? You know, I know many guys from the forum, but I have never seen any of you sending some flowers through us to our clients. Just coinsidence I think, but believe me that some guys are used to sending every letetr accompanied with a small flower arrangement. Expencive? Gustavo, I imagine how much you earn... And you are so touched when another "scammer" says good buy to you when you just send a post card to her on birthday and that guy sends a marvelous gift?
No guys, you are too smart. You want to cheat everyone around, cheating yourself finally.
felicedate, I have been here around 3 months now and I must say it is very nice of you to join us on the forum. I have not used your agency to my knowledge but please understand there are many agencies that are abusing this system. It would seem from your information you provide you are not one of them but the truth is the majority of the ones on the net are less than honest. Fiance has an interesting niche that they take our money and contract with you for our services. There reason is they are saving us time and adding a sense of security that these women have been checked out and are truly seeking husbands. They are also supposed to eliminate agencies that are dishonest as well as the scammers. There only real purpose is to save us the time of individual searches at each agency and save us yes money. We are only wanting to ensure our money is well spent and we are receiving the services that are promised. I have had personal experience with many different agencies that flat out lied to me and fiance.com. Many of the concerns here are not that there are a few mistakes but that there are many repeats and many agencies that despite our complaints continue to be part of this service. In the past fiance.com has even refused to name some of the agencies so I could avoid them. I truly appreciate your honesty in the matter but you may want to refrain from discussing your clients in the forum. Most of western culture finds it offensive. I think if you look past the frustration you will see that many of our complaints are not petty and are genuine. I understand many get overly excited and even angry but you must also understand that a service should fit the ones it serves. I don't think anyone here cares if they have email or through agency. For me I am happy with the agency as long as they do not add or subtract anything said. Fiance has assured us that the letters are not censored but translated. I have no trouble with that but when an agency adds fluff to letters or responds with a canned letter of interest only to be dismissed when the person actually gets to see who wrote them. I know there are people that will abuse any system but with a little cooperation between us, Fiance.com and the agencies we could take out allot of the hassles and make it much safer and friendlier for all. Tell me does the passport have a unique number to identify your ladies? Could that not be used to eliminate repeats in the database? Could you not timeout the ladies that have been inactive more that 60 days. It makes so much more sense than selling bad addresses and hoping you don’t have to return the money. It would be so simple to have your ladies call in once a month and say yes keep me on or even automate it based on account activity. Believe it our not we are not all looking for sex maids or child raising chefs and there are many of us truly looking for love and happiness. I for one think that yes any woman wanting a life in the US should know about email and how to use it. It would be a great service to your ladies to teach them as it is almost as important as the language here to be employed. Yes some of us are not on golden budgets and some are probably not really interested at all but for the sake of the business and your paying customers I think more cooperation would be beneficial. Does it not make sense to learn from your customer and customize your business to ensure its success? Again we do appreciate your thoughts and views but hope that you can see some of ours as well.
shag ;
i exercise all options. i hit it from all angles. what is good though is i have made some reliable honest friends over there. it cuts out all the research trying to find things out . it is a luxary to be able to go straight to the source than weighing out myths and here say and ten different versions of how to catch and pay for a taxi. it is all good here but me and you have the stats to say otherwise. i did exactly the same thing you will be doing here in a few weeks, and i congratulate you. except the women i was writing to did not work out. luckily i made sure my backup plan was a social that would be going on the same week i would be there. that was the smartest thing i could have done. it worked out i have two solid friendships there who are very honest. it was worth every cent. and still is. you will be one of the very few who will boldly go where some wont even make it past sending flowers.
Yes I am looking forward to it. This first trip I have one that I will meet first if it does not work out I have 3 others that know I will be visiting and yes that they are friends and maybe more. I was very careful to let everyone know my plans from the begining. I took some gruff off some but the ones I really cared for all took it well and understand the SHow me spirit of things...lol. I think that I have done enough homework to make my way through the maze of things on my own. I may be wrong but thats the fun is finding out. If I fall short of cash though I will not hessitate to hit some of you guys up though...lol.
Only thing now is my passport is still not here....I know should have paid the extra 60 bucks...lol
Felice,
Where the hell do you get the idea I have ever been interested in anyone younger than 26? There is only one FSU lady almost 27 who I can call a good friend. The others are all over 30.
My own daughter is almost 19.
I'm flat out not interested in someone her age.
You must have the wrong Gustavo.
I have sent presents to three women and once a flower arrangement of 15 roses. And I will never send any cash to anyone.
That's all I have to say to you.
Jmov,
Thanks for the detailed description on the socials schedule.
As a first timer to FSU, the appeal of a social comes of course by the sheer numbers of women available, but also by the pampering the tours operators offers.
toad,
i think what is really good for the first time going with a good company is all the travel details are done for you . that reduces a lot of stress and leaves you more leisure time and doing your thing . when you know all itinerary is done for you. it makes it a lot smoother. you will make friends that you cant wait to e-mail when you get home as they will be waiting to hear from you . the second time you go if you do you can breath much easier.
It baffles me when someone argues in favor of something based on personal experience like jmoluv and he is told that he is wrong based on "research" and heresay.
Kind of like one who has been to the Grand Canyon expressing his awe at its granduer and size and then being told by one who saw a picture in an encyclopedia that its "Not really all that great or big" (after all - the picture of it fit in the encyclopedia!)
Kind of like after just having sex for the first time, being told by a friend who never has that it is really no big deal - they've never had sex but they read about it somewhere.
What goes on at a Social cannet be imagined unless you actually attend - simply becasue asny acurate description SOUNDS inflated and as so much hype. It isn't hype.
Its not so wonderful for the ladies and most will stop at nothing to keep you from attending, after all they are competititve too.
As saod previously, many of the best and most beautiful DON'T WRITE WELL. And unless you will only be satisfied with the next Emily Dickenson, they don't need to.
re.
"...only some 10 of them just know what IS E-MAIL! Should they? Their task is to sattisfy you in bed, cook a tasty dinner and be good mother for your kids! "
Oh, I see.
I have been able to survive on my own cooking for a while now, but of course 'her' better cooking would always be welcome.
Contrary to popular belief (advocated by many here in this forum) there is a limit to how much time can be spent in bed.
Sooner or later there will be a need to talk and communicate.
That is when some knowledge about the technological society I live in is handy.
Am I abnormal if I want a partner I can also communicate with about my life and the society around us?
First Shaggy. Thanks for your words. When I began to work with people from the US and UK I absolutely knew why. Because they are polite, upright and will nto try to deceive you at any step.
In many things you are right in many not. Fiance.com admins are very cruel to any facts of frauds or something. Just for information, once one our manager when sending a day's replies to the leters(it is made usually by pasting them from a WORD document) mixed two text parts and simply inserted a letter from another girl to another guy. That guy wrote to the support service of fiance.com and they cut out our access to the working interface for a day until we cleared out all the situation, though it was evident that it was not a canned letter, not a fraud and not a gir's mistake, just technical slip. I can imagine what they will do if you complaint of agency adverts added to the letter! I bet they will simply eliminate the agency from the database. As for the independent girls, beleive me it is impossible to track them, there are only about 500 of them on our site and it is already absolutely not searchable who is hones who is not. Just stay with this site and then in any suspicious moment you can address Olga, Oleg or Nadezhda. They will kick the scammer's ass!:-)
As for repeats in the database it is a hard thing to eliminate also. There are several agencies sometimes in one city and if a girl wants to ensure herself, she may visit most of them and in this case they can put her independently on the site, but to my mind it is a rare thing, we had one such case publishing a girl and then she joined the site herself independently, we erased her profile from our database. If a girl is published independently for several times, just look above and you will know what to do!:-)
Timeouting girls is no use. It is not fair to them. All our girls that get letters, reply them. Yes they can send a polite reject but never leave a letter not answered. Simply because it is our rule. And for those that do not get any activity because nobody writes to them...Well, why deprive them of the last chance? May be a millionere is waiting to write to them in a month but now he is stuck in Saudi Arabia negotiating on another million barrels deal!:-)
As for e-mail affairs I will try to answer everybody and my advise to burn my words on your hand, chest, back or simply write down!:-) Yes, they do not know how to use it because THERE IS NOBODY TO TEACH THEM! This society if uses computers then in most cases without access to internet, it is rather expencive for people. More or less good computer lessons in schools appeared only in the last 7 years and believe me there they do not deal with Internet and e-mail either. Who knows what is Internet are school pupils and students, but again for some reason those student girls who deal with such sites are usually ... well... not too beautiful. I know this myself because when editing new published profiles every day t our site I see independent girs and girls from agencies. Well, there are exceptions of course but my general picture of a "progressive" internet girs is not what you like, she usually has short hair, slim figure, longer nose, some red stuff on her face and sometimes glasses. And what is more important - awful photos which, you guys, would never pay attention to. Besides independent girs very often do it just for fun.
This is an agency task for her to get rid of all the obstacles on her way to you and then teach her how to use e-mail, drive a car, use a dish wash, build an H-bomb... it is yours! My wife was absolutely zerro in computing when I met her but having two comps at home will make anybody learn how to use it. I remember one IT ingeneer coming here to our customer... He was so surprised that although she had a computer she couldn't install a Aol Messenger herself! I asked him, how many computers he had in this life. He told that he now has a network of 7(!) installed only in his house. I told him, this lady just a week ago got access to internet from her house(we bought a modem for her children's comp) what do you expect from her?
I say, that the ability to send a private e-mail is nothing in comparisson to support you when this life sucks...
You are always welcome.:-)
Toad.
24!:-) Sorry, I will correct you. It was.
Geri, believe me that our women know much more about the surrounding world at least because our schools are much better than for example in the US and besides the mojority of our college have University degree. Well, it is usually here because education was and is free for those who are not too silly and I for example managed to get two University diplomas. Agree that it has sense. Well, as for distinguishind a harddrive from the floppy, here your girl is very likely to have many problems but she will know much more than any of your surrounding girs in literature, geography, music and so on... This is more important. And how to open an IE, get an account with hotmail...You can teach her this in two hours yourself.
All the rest stuff is not this easy to aquire.