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Excellent reply the Aussi. I think ALL should read this and pin it on the right hand side of the Putor screen.
You are correct also in inferring that you do not succeed without much effort and time invested. I made mistakes to start (falling in2 lust) prob the easiest and most common trap for men on the rebound.
Yes, set rules and guidelines and stick to them.
I also think those big flashy Agency Sites are dubious ground to tread. Lets face it, they gain income from people paying to access a letter written to them by a lady who looks like Model, be easy to generate letters for a small fee from ??????
That age difference thing is pretty open affair.
Every individual is different. The FSU women are very mature for their age. I meet 20 -25 year olds who I thought were 10 years older by their attitude and conduct.
hey viking boy...
go pillage, plunder and debauch some FSU village full of maidens, you barbarian...:))
we're trying to make help some people here, lol
I think my girl is having a threesome with some dudes named Calvin Klein and Armani.. You know.. Tonight we were talking about where I live, and if she came to live here we would need to buy a car for her... She said.. It doesn't have to be a sportscar, but it has to be at least a new car... I have a quite new Mercedes E (2003) and even a sportscar (only for use in summer..), Jaguar XKR (2004/05).. I haven't told her about this..
I told her I had a dream about finishing my school.. To take the last two years starting this autumn.. She asked.. How will you make it financially? I told her I had savings, and that I still could work some in between, and I could always sell something if I needed extra money.. She said shortly.. It is better to make money I think... She asked what kind of school, I told her.. she said.. It is better to study lawschool I think, better to become a lawyer...
I told her I wanted to take her around Norway to show her the great landscape we have.. She said.. Better to go to somewhere warm...
I told her I would have to move to another city in Norway to do the school thing, and rent an appartment there.. she said.. Better to buy a house...
I am afraid I have found myself a spoiled brat.. me - who only wanted a normal girl...
Spoiled women is all over Norway, I don't have to go to FSU to find that...
She was not like this in the beginning, I have, as some of you already know, met this girl on several occations, but always at my hotel since she lives with her parents, so I actually never saw her real lifestyle.
She is always well dressed, she works with make-up, so I did not see anything wrong in it, but now I am afraid this is only a beginning...
TO be honest, I have also had contact with an Ukrainian girl who likes me a lot.. I have been very honest, and also told her about this Estonian girl, but she still wanted to be my friend, she did not wanted to give me up before I knew for sure the Estonian girl was the right girl for me.. so we have been talking in messenger quite often as friends... Now I find my self thinking more and more about her.. I think mostly because she seem normal.. just a normal girl that haven't mentioned either Klein, Armani, cars, house or anything... She is just happy about my choise to go to school, and tell me it is a great investment for the future...
But this girl is way too young for me.. only 24(turning 25 this year).. I am 38..
Frank Vans or any of his colleagues would sit you in their psycho couch and charge you a shitload of money to tell you the very same thing I'm gonna say for free...:))
YES!, it's you...it's all your fault. Kill yourself, but put my children's school fund as beneficiaries for your savings. I'll take the Jag if you don't mind, mate.
Serious now,
You've already ditched the estonian girl, by virtue of her westernized materialistic ambition and expectations.
Move on.
The ukranian girl is only 13 years younger...WTF is the problem with that??
And she supports your goals to study? what else do you need to hear?
Goodbye Estonia...heeelllooooo Ukraine!!
You only wanted more girls. Internet have spoiled you. Too much possibilities. Too easy to find a new person.
She is saying reasonable things as person who trust you. The new girl is just talking like strange to you. Are you sure that she will not change her attitude to you if you will pay real attention to her?
Yes, Age is a problem. Anyway even that 24 girls will attitude to you as to the youngest son. lol
Thanks man :) You made me smile again!
I think you are right, I guess i already had made up my mind when I wrote the stuff above.
I just didn't see it clearly untill I read it myself afterwards, and when I read your comment I think it made it even clearer to me. But, I will give this girl one more chance in case I got her completely wrong, I will meet her one more time to see if I could be wrong. I really hope so, because if you take away those things written above she is just adorable...
I think you have a wrong impression of me dear, I am not the kind of man that will find a new girl every week of the year. That is one of the main reasons I look for a girl in FSU, I want something real and solid, something that will last. I am an old-fashioned guy when it comes to love and relationships.
I shall tell you a story about my life... I lived with a woman for 12 years, we had wonderful children together. She wanted us to be married. When we met our economic situation was not too good, we did ok, but didn't have too much extra, so we decided to wait. After 12 years together we should finally marrie. So we did, we had a fairy marriage... It is common to buy the bride a morning present, so I bought her some jewelry and I gave her a giftcertificate at a drivingschool so she could have her license to drive a motorbike. 2 months after the wedding she started on her license.. after the third session she didn't come home untill the next day.. She had spent the night at a hotel with her driving-teacher... I was stucked in every way, I was home with the kids, I could not go to work because I had to take care of them since she didn't show up.. She lied and told that since she had a late session that night, and a morning session the next day that she slept at a girlfriends house since she was very tired, and the drivingschool was an hour to drive from where we lived.. 2 days later she was just going to the grocery store, she did not come home before after 2 days... The police was brought into the situation because me and her family thought something had happened to her since her car was still outside the store.. (at this moment I still believed her story about her sleeping at her friends house) The story goes on... It was really hard for me, I never knew if she would come home or not, what to do with the children? What to do with the work? I never knew if I was able to go to work or not untill some few minutes before I had to leave home.. "will she come home this morning, or not?"
Dear Bagira, I was divorced after 3 months of marriage...
We had 12 happy years that ended after 3 months of marriage..
But, I can promise you this woman has a difficult situation now, she found out the hard way that the grass was not greener on the other side of the fence... She found herself someone that abused her, broke 3 of her ribbs and destroyed her selfconfidence.. She is crying every week and regrets what she did, but she is crying to someone that doesn't care anymore.. She cries out her wish to make it good, and for me to come home to her again..
She is crying to someone that will never ever take her back into his arms!
I loved this woman by all my heart, but I don't want this to happen to me again, so Yes, I am selective, and yes I am careful, but no, I am not spoiled in any means... I have worked hard for everything I have, also my relations!
You are not the only person in this world with bad experience...
Your attitude will never bring you close to a western man!
If I were you I would take ex back without any hesitation.
If I were the man whom I love I would take ex back home without any hesitation. I do not understand how can someone through away person whom he loved? I only know how to block this feeling completely.
You can not overcome through your pain? Or it is public opinion? I am not you so I can not get into your skin.
You have burned by the milk and now you are blowing to water.
First of all my pain is over by far. And I cannot think of a single reason why I should take her back. My feelings for that woman died the moment I found out.. It is just dead, I don't feel at all when it comes to her. I care about her in some ways, but not at all when it comes to romance and love.
If it was only sex, and I wanted sex I would never spend thousands on airplane and hotel, I would just go out at a nightclub here in the city and find me someone like you...