FSU
You are very sweet and I completely understand where you are coming from. You are totally wrong but it does show that you have a good heart. I will explain more fully later because I am on my way to work right now. That will be a long one :))
Talk to you later
Steve
Izi
"You all are wound up" - not really, because your posts lack credibility.
Your English is really to good for 'their' comfort, and do keep in mind that we're talking default English people here. I'm not, but I also can see that you're far removed from the typical Russian maiden, even from an untypical one.
Want some kind advice? Write Russian here, but do so without using Cyrillics. Not some short sillyness like da svidanye, I'd recommend a more elaborate dorogaya rather - at least if you're addressing Izi only, otherwise a lengthy privet would do.
Capiche? ;-)
"Capiche? ;-)"
What does it mean? Sorry, I am a bit slow today...
"Want some kind advice? Write Russian here, but do so without using Cyrillics. Not some short sillyness like da svidanye"
Do you guys speak Russian?
"...at least if you're addressing Izi only, otherwise a lengthy privet would do..."
I'm not addressing to Izi only, but he is typical , so I'm sort of using him as a platform for my statements :)))
Sorry, Steve, I dont mean any harm to you!
Ok here we go.
FSUfemale
As I said before I see where you are coming from. However I do not agree with a word of it. Firstly I do believe you are probably from FSU somewhere. Where I have no idea and for the most part your English is quite good. I am a little more tolerant than my friends. Each one of them has his own horror story and that is why they will rag you to death if you keep this up.
Remember this forum is for MEN who are looking for wives from the former soviet union. We talk to one another as men and share things that are really unique to a man's experience. This is one place we can speak without having to blunt our comments so as to placate females. This is our place.
Now to address your comments, all very valid I might add. The problem is this. You are judging the profile by FSU standards. As I stated before that profile was written for American women. Here is why it is so blunt.
On Fiance.com the profiles of women give height and weight. To my mind that is a normal requirement of a dating site. You need to look at the pictures and compare it to the data and make a decision. On an American site it doesn't work that way. We have a little social custom called being 'PC' this means politically correct, not personal computer. In reality it has nothing to do with politics. It is a way of putting something that is as inoffensive as possible. Even if it bends the truth to a point that is ridiculous.
The problem is that this is a one way street.
For example in America we have "National Black Month" in February. The achievements of black people (sorry colored people, sorry negros, sorry African Americans, sorry whatever) is celebrated. This is extremely PC.
Unfortunately we don't have a "National White Month". Or a "National Red Month", or "National Brown Month" or "National yellow Month".
If we did it would be shouted down by those very blacks that appreciate their little celebration every year that we other folks have shoved down our throats.
Ok this profile I have written is in the same vein as the above. You see women write whatever they want but we men are not allowed to. We men are chauvinistic (although how this word ever became connected to what I am talking about I will never know. It's original meaning has nothing to do with men having a traditonal attitude towards women) where as a woman is just allowed to write whatever she pleases.
I prefer the truth. What is good for one is good for the other. You say "About obesity" - ok you are already being PC. They are not obese they are frigging fat pigs ok? Let us speak the truth.
Ok why do I refer to them this way. Let us return to what I was saying about American sites. Instead of getting a woman to put down some hard facts about her height and weight they put in 'slim/petite, athletic, average, ample, some extra padding and large".
Some women tell the truth but most do not. They will call themselves 'average' when in reality they are really "oh jesus christ it's a buffalo run for your life!!!!!".
They call themselves names like "A Queen For U" when they should name themselves "The Crusher" or maybe "Brutus".
Then when a man has the nerve to point this out he is a pig. Cruel. Insensitive.
No, no he is actually just being truthful.
If you look at the women's profiles on Yahoo for example you will see another aspect that is particularly distateful to me.
THEY ACTUALLY ASK HOW MUCH MONEY YOUR PROSPECTIVE LOVED ONE MUST EARN!!!
So you see some woman that you like the look of and punch up her profile and what do you see?
She is 44 and she is looking for a guy that is 38 to 45 and must earn a minimum of $100,000 a year. By the way she doesn't like fat men and is into shopping and loves the South of France.
Your average motor mechanic or store manager loves seeing this on a profile. It makes him feel really good about himself. But he decides to write anyway because you never know, right? She ignores him. However he will be plagued in his inbox with letters from overweight frumps 5 to 10 years older than him that look like Dick Cheney.
Can we say "SANDRA" !!
Now if he has any sense he will say enough of this I will join Fiance.com.
He will say to himself I will not compromise by settling for some old hag.
It is ok for me to want a beautiful woman that is younger that really wants me.
I will spend a little cash and invest some time and find a real woman and not settle for nasty looking left overs.
Are you starting to understand FSU? All the guys here do because they have been there, they know I am speaking the truth. That is why you are receiveing these sticks and stones. It is not your fault you just don't understand the full situation.
American women need to get the truth. And by the way I have seen several FSU profiles that stipulate white men only, European men only and no muslims thank you.
I ask for truth, no double standards and above all honesty especially personal honesty. Personally I don't want any blacks, Chinese, Thai, women 5' tall or weighing 200 pounds and I am brave enough to say it.
I do not aim any of this at FSU ladies although some of them can be very stuck up, prissy and demanding. Those I deal with on a case by case basis. With American no way. They get it between the eyes. :))
Regarding what I said about FSU women I want to throw this out there.
The agency I am using in Kherson is called Kherson Pearls. They asked me to select some women from their website and they would start contacting them. They have done a good job and sent me a report last night.
There is one particular woman that is drop dead gorgeous that is featured on KP, UkraineTX and Kherson Fiances. So trying for the moon I included her. Here is KP's result. :)) By the way go look her up she is cute.
ELENA (1080),
we contacted her, she is not interested, she came from Germany, her son is German and for her the most important is financial level, she looks for a very rich man.
I love it.
"Clowns to the left of me jokers to the right."
"Here I am stuck in the middle with you."
"This is one place we can speak without having to blunt our comments so as to placate females. This is our place."
Sorry, I didn't know, just bumped into this forum by chance while searching for some info on the net.
I'm retiring into myself :))) Bye. Have a nice day.
Only libs try to be politically correct. I'm still trying to figure out what politically correct is? Was Churchill politically correct? I am far from Politically correct. I say what I mean and do what I say. I've ruffled a few feathers in my life but that doesn't mean I'm not a decent guy. It just means we disagree.
Regarding dating sites in America. What a joke!! When I needed a good laugh I would read what some women would write in their profiles. And Izi is correct I've seen a ton of women looking for the 100 grand man in their profiles. Makes me laugh my ass off. How fucking shallow can you get? But I will also say that many women of the FSU tried to pre qualify me early with the income question. I only had three that I wrote for a very long time that didn't ask me. Two of them at the very end. Larissa had the classic answer, if you're boring and arrogant and I can't stand you I don't care how much money you make I'm not going to live with you. Told me all I needed to know. I didn't even disclose to her what my income was until the last couple of days of our first meeting because it really didn't concern her. She said a clever man can support his family. Now I catch myself using the world clever a lot now. There are a lot of classy ladies here looking for attention and affection, a commodity through my observations I have not seen much in Ukraine from the men, at least publicly. I've done a couple of bright things in my life and this was one of them. All the Nay sayers can talk all they want. The risk is worth the reward is all I have to say.
In line with what I have been saying I just received this email in response to the very profile that is so cruel. She is Rumainina from Bucharest and 39. Not much to look at but a bloody honest women.
"Hello,
I don't want nothing from you. I wont only to say that I read your profile and I liked what you wrote abouth the easten european women. You are right.
I am romanian, I want a family but I want my child.
I hope that you will find the right woman for your life. You are a nice person.
Goodbey"
I love this thread it has proven to be just as much the firecracker that I thought it would be.
Come on ladies step up. FSUfemale has gone and I don't have anyone to play with. :((
"Come on ladies step up. FSUfemale has gone and I don't have anyone to play with. :(( "
I'm glad you're missing me :)))
"I ask for truth, no double standards and above all honesty especially personal honesty. Personally I don't want any blacks, Chinese, Thai, women 5' tall or weighing 200 pounds and I am brave enough to say it."
Would you tell all these things to women face to face, providing you consider yourself a gentelman of course? If the answer is YES, let me doubt you've being brought up well enough.
If NO - this is double standards ,IMHO.
"Are you starting to understand FSU? All the guys here do because they have been there, they know I am speaking the truth. That is why you are receiveing these sticks and stones. It is not your fault you just don't understand the full situation"
I do understand 'cos I AM there (far away from my motherland). I do know all this stuff from the top to the toe-nails.