Aussie...you missed my point...any women that will jump into bed with right away probably just jumped out of
another bed. You are right, we have no idea what a girl is doing when she lives half way across the world. You can
only hope she IS the person you think she is, eventually it will come out and you will see for yourself. It doesn't matter what kind of testing or detective work you do, best way to judge a girl is to be with her. If you are concerned with not spending money to visit because you do not want to get burned, you are in wrong place. I'm glad you are happy, getting laid and all that...my saying is: easy come...easy go....it is the things you work to get that are the more meaningful.
Nasfan...I don't think Aussie wants to know what the background is for his girl!!
Aussieman, come clean, you never had any intention of seeking a woman from the FSU. Many successful men that has emailed me on the side and asked question previous to their travels, never once posted on this forum. I know four guys who have done this. 3 have brought their ladies back and married them. Thats a bit higher than the 3 percent. Hey a loser is a loser and they will have zero percent chance of success anywhere.
What gets me, is you never had a real intention of going in the first place. Basically you've been nothing but a keyboard romeo, stroking girls and wasting their time. Your more worried about spending a buck, then gaining any experience. Education is not free my friend.
I don't really want to marry again, 12 years of it was enough. I think it suits my lifestyle to have girl friend or defacto relationship only with no more kids, the 3 I had from the last marriage is enough, don't want to go through the having the family thing again.
The FSU girls I once picked based on there profile info either had no kids, did not want or were undecided including Miss K.R anyway..I did not make contact with FSU women who stated up front in there agency profiles that they had kids or wanted kids as I knew long ago, I did not want anymore!
As, I said earlier, I really only meet one girl on internet who was real from Ukraine in last 2 years and we did not go ahead as she did not want to live faraway in Australia and we parted but she got some nice gifts from me.
I am not a key board romeo, only wrote to one at a time, picked them based on there profiles, I got no time or need to write to multiple women and play games.
Miss K.R, my last was politely terminated last week, she did gain something of use from it, so did I in knowledge to make affirmative decision to quit.
FSU women internet introduction/meeting was an experiment that did not work and I am not suited and immigration rules make me ineligible as a visa sponsor to second half of 2008 for any foreign girl.
I will make no more comment..its dead and buried and some of you guys can blow it out your asses!
Adios, amigos and may your God go with you...over and out of this business!
Good luck to those that go in quest of an FSU woman.
My time here is up!
Nasfanny, give your Ukraine Mrs. a good root tonight!
ROFL...
@aussieman41: are you for real? This is the most insane thing I ever heard.
I don't post here much, but this one, I had to react. Why are you so paranoid? When you meet a girl at the local bar, do you ask the same questions? Geez, get a life man...and a grip...how do want to meet a girl if you threat them all as criminals from the start and they have to prove you're wrong? Man, ever heard about normal conversations ? Building something up, through communication...
I ask myself, what in fact are you doing on this forum ? You give everybody advice to run away from FSU girls, but you yourself stick around, although they are all scammers to you. Best thing, you never even were in the FSU, you know nothing about these girls and their lifes.
This forum was once informative, but now you can only read about some CIA techniques on how to expose scammers...call her, talk to her...not once, 100 times if it takes...but don't ask her stupid questions like you mentioned here. Worst part of this is, that new members get as paranoid as you and maybe WILL ask this rediculous question. You know what I would do if a girl would ask me this? Nothing. Because I from the start will know that she doesn't trust me and is putting some tests through me.
Stop making people paranoid about FSU girls. The fact that YOU are paranoid, is your problem...don't spoil it for others. I'll ask my girlfriend tonight if she would like to google a bit for the answer...LMAO!!!
Just to get back to the original poster's point, I'd like to say that the idea of posting "test" questions to your lady is at best a little insulting, and at worst inaccurate.
I don't know if Russians play Monopoly or not, but I know if someone I was corresponding with asked me this question I'd just shake my head and wonder what they were smoking. You then would have to go on to explain that you just wanted to see if they were a scammer or not. I'm not a dating expert or anything, but having to admit you were testing them might put a slight damper on things.
Also, many FSU women have very limited or no access to the internet. Many don't even know how to use a computer, let alone know how to Google some random (to them) phrase. She'd probably be embarrassed that she doesn't know what the hell you're talking about, and just ignore the question. You would then think she's ignoring the question because she's a scammer.
The best way to tell if the lady is a scammer or not is just to correspond with her. The scammers have no patience. If she hasn't asked you for money after a couple months (or a couple emails in most cases), and if she's engaging in the flow of the discussion, then she's probably real.
Just spoke to my lady from Mariupol and she asked me for my advice concerning a friend of hers. (And before we make assumptions, let me tell you that this "friend" is really a "friend", and not a euphemism for herself).
Seems that this friend has been corresponding with a guy from (of all places) Australia who would like to meet her. But he doesn't want to meet her in Ukraine. Instead he proposes to send her money for a plane ticket to Bangkok, Thailand.
She counterproposed Egypt, but he wasn't interested. He was quite insistant on Bangkok. Never having met before, all she has seen is a photo of him. He claims he will meet her there. My lady asked me what I thought of the possible meeting and I told her that it sounded very fishy to me and that I certainly recommend against it.
Its a subject that rarely if ever comes up in this forum, but there are scammers of the male gender as well, and certainly human trafikers. (Pretty high stakes scamming.) And that sound exactly like what is being proposed here. The girl has the appearance of being a "party girl", which makes the conclusion even more likely.
A lady being lured out into a foreign country to meet someone she's never met is just begging for trouble of the absolute worst kind. Your friend should drop him completely. If he's not interested in meeting her on her home turf, she should find that highly suspicious. You're right to tell her it's fishy, I hope she takes your advice.
Bangkok is close to Australia so it maybe that flights work out cheaper. Has the "friend" asked the guy why is has to be Bangkok? and expressed her concerns?
It would mean an extra twos days of travel for the guy to go to Egypt or the Ukraine so maybe he only got a week off work. It would be unlikely that hes trying to traffic her. But we all know that you should never sent money to a girl you have never meet and this appears to be what hes going to do. It would be better for him to go to her country if he is really serious.
its cheap as nuts, Bangkok.
hes got all corners covered, what ever doesnt happen with her he can make it happen in Bangkok with someone else with no major loss of bucks and still maybe part party with her.
she should stay home.
it amazes me how these women with trust us westerners, even traveling mileage from there home city's or town to meet, so what if its their own country, still could be potential danger for them.
had this discussion with a lady in Crimea, lady thought if was safe because it was still her country, travels about 2000km to visit me, she did say was little afaid, no wonder they get into trouble at times, they are a little to trusting at times i feel.
Bangkok she would be stupid if she did.
I had the same discussion with my lady - who went with me to Crimea. She had already advised her friend, she told me, not to see this guy in Bangkok, when the friend reminded her that she had just spent three weeks with me, having barely known me.
My friend resonded that at least we HAD met on a previous visit, and that we were vactioning in her country - which seemed to carry less peril. I agree that it actually does - but still things can happen.
I only know here friend from pictures she showed me, but something about this trip to Bangkok seems quite dangerous and inadvisable.
(Worst possible case scenario - she could run into izifadag over there! Horrors! (Just kidding izi.))
sounds like she will have to rely on this guy totally.
Bangkok is reasonably safe, but its not Mariupol, its not home.
she has no quick way out of this, probably no money, not a good seen.
best traps are set in such ways by predators, not saying he is one, "the Aussies are predators to anything good of ours but".
Bangkok is Assisi fella's second home.
if shes a seasoned traveler i would still feel bad idea.
i think there should always be that point where distance, place, arrangements made one has to draw the line.
bringing a lady to New Zealand for visit from Russia, i would set up safe guards, phone numbers of other Russians with communication and so on just to give her assurance there's always someone to care for her, if we haven't met previously.
no way in hell would i let my sis take such adventure like that.
Jet your question is a little bit interesting to me because I have done just that. Flown a woman to Thailand that I had never met.
There are definite advantages for the guy to meet in Thailand. It is only a 7 or 8 hour Flight, not 25. The weather is wammer, though it is still the monsoon season. There is more English spoken so you dont feel like such the idiot when taking her out and ordering stuff for diner.
I dont think she is going to be dragged off as a sex slave in Thailand. That is far more likely in Eastern Europe. And I think probably safer than Egypt. So if she is happy to meet him in Egypt, she may as well meet him in Thailand.
I do not think Bangkok is a romantic place to visit and Pattaya is sleasy. My girl thinks worse than Amsterdam. But Phuket or better Koh Samui are fine.
The question is, should is meet a guy in a foreign country she hasnt met?
By counter offering Egypt, I dont think she can now get around it. There is now no reason not to meet him in Thailand.
Of course meeting a guy at a resort, there are going to be expectations.
I think they should build there long distance relationship a little more, there comes a natural time, when the next stage is to meet, by then she should know if her feelings are strong enough to go and meet him, she can always say, yes i will meet you, in a few months time, as i have work comittments!!
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