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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Anna Davydova Scammer From Ukraine Author Post jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 1:42:33 PM   This move that you are considering (reporting her to the INS for fraud) is VERY SERIOUS and likely cannot be undone. It sounds to me as though you are quite sure that something really wrong happned bewtee her and the guy at the gym and there was no chance of misunderstanding (?) We only know that you are upset. (Very upset.) The particulars - only YOU know. But if she knew your intentions, KNEW that you werr serious and only used her K1 as an entry ticket into the US (and as a way to hook up with someone else) then REPORT HER. She doesn't need a chance to break anyone else's heart, and having done so already, she might very well intend to do it again. I THINK a fraudulent application would likely net her a three or ten year bar (not absolutely sure) preventing her from entering the US under ANY circumstances for THREE or TEN years! THAT might give her a chance, as mentioned above. to grow up a little. nobodyknows Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 1:57:13 PM   sorry guys, looks like a plot. i m not on the womans side, but i m not that cruel to say u r doing a right thing. yes she is not a good person, yes she is a liar. but guys to report her to immigration...to put her name on a black list... Dont u think u r using personal contacts in authorities to destroy that woman. why wont u just do it without any people u know there and see if the immigration service will find a reason to put her on a black list? it would be at least fair on yr part , or u r not better than her? i would not do it if i were u. but i m not u and u may act as yr moral standards tell u... OM Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 2:10:23 PM   I did not report the lady who did something like that to me,I should but I did not I felt that I will be putting her only dream out of the game, but I think that the opinion of the other people will be important for me to think about it, jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 2:42:03 PM   We only know what he is telling us. And it seems pretty blatant that she used him took a pretty big toll of his heart - for easy access to a foreign country. I don't give a damn how much MOENY he spent on her (you can always replace the money) what really matters is her USING him, if indded his story is true. That shouldn't be easily forgivable. I DID bring a Moldovan lady to the US and she chose to return to Moldova. But I would NEVER file a complaint about as I know that her intentions were honest and legitimate. She felt compelled to return to her widowed mother. Never once during the entire three months I had her in the US did I even catch her LOOKING at another guy - and beleive me I was watching pretty closely. She was (is) beautiful and we spent some time in Florida together. She got her share of attention in a little bikini - but she absolutely ditched any guy who approached her whether or not I was around. And sometimes I watched when she didn't know I was watching. ben2006 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 5:00:57 PM   Somehow i don't think she returned because of the mother. In moldova they say a women NEVER leaves a good man. Kirkland Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 5:30:47 PM   I'd leave her to her own future, move on and forget about any thoughts of revenge. It's nice to have the notion of doing something serious to make her feel bad about the way she made you feel. You won't always feel they way feel now, do but what you intend to do may have a permanent affect on her. Is that really what you want? Bravehartq Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 5:54:02 PM   Thank you Jetmba for the understanding of the situation. I don't do this lightly. This woman used me for everything she possibly could for as long as she could and then was shacking up with another gy within two weeks. She can't be allowed to ruin another man's heart. And Nobodyknows...if this had been done to you then you wouldn't be defending her. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:02:24 PM   Which only confirms why YOURS went back to Moldova (you mentioned "she USED to live with you"). You can still show up every month (certainly no more often)or so as long as you bring your paycheck with you. Otherwise she's have you take a hike. Oh yeah...and blow it out your *ss, New Zealand Loser MrBean2006. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:12:20 PM   "Yes moldova is nice. Now my wife is there. She lived with me for a while but as I travel a lot we found it better for her to live there...." Translated it means - "Wife couldn't stand me or my living arrangements, so she went back home. We agreed to stay married in return for my right to show up every month or so and her right to benefit from my paycheck....." jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:16:02 PM   Sorry Kirkland and Bravehartq - my comments were not directed at either of you - but due to delays in posting it might appear that way. Of course my comments were actually directed to the fool who's post is right above your two. OM Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:17:08 PM   What Jtb ? She lives in Moldova and you in US and travel to see her, can you keep love and care for me it is difficult to not hold her hand or see her eyes and smile every week. how many years diff you think one can carry with out feeling walking with her daughters friend jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:31:00 PM   OM: Not entirely sure but I think your above comment was in response to my post? jetmba = jtb? She was great - but as the only child of a widow, she was very close to her mother and could not leave her mother's alone in Moldova. It takes forever to bring a woamn's mother over and the mother is not in very good health. I made the decision that I did not want a part time relationship where I only saw her every few months or so. I wanted something full time in MY country. I traveled to Moldova again after her departure, and we considered marrying in Moldova (that is detailed in another thread) but we decided not to do it. So I went to Ukraine - met a wonderful woman who is about the same age about year ago. We are very much in love and we are doing everything possible to bring her over as soon as possible. She wants to be in America with me and I want a FULL TIME relationship. Regarding your last sentence - I have no daughters - therefore the idea of walking with my daughters friend dows not apply. OM Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:35:26 PM   I see Jetmba I am thankfull for the answer I had a daughter is 21 and met a lady 23 and a lady 32 the 32 look so young she looks almost 25 and the 23 acts and looks 25 I was a one point feeling uncomfortable, they did not but I felt like I was walking with my daughters friend, is just a comment I am happy for you and well done, good job, you have done what many of us tried and only few get. OM jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:51:20 PM   OM Thanks for the kind words. But I hope my answer while correct, didn't mislead. What I mean is that while I have NO daughter.... I do have a surviving son, who is actually 31 years old. My fiance is 27. Its a little awkward but I never feel like she is anything like a daughter - nor does she fortunately. My son also has a fiance who is 21 - so she is definitely younger than MY fiance. At least THAT'S the way it should be. Bravehartq Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 6:55:46 PM   Kirkland, I do this not out of revenge but she WILL use another American man again to get our lifestyle. I worry about the next man as much as I worry about myself right now. beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 9:42:49 PM   Brave..I do not take lightly what girl did to you, she is not worth any words to describe her. I feel you aided her in what happened. You were too kind and many girls can sense this and use you for their own agenda. I don't know, nor anybody, what her true intentions were but she chose to stab you in the back whether it was planned or not. She doesn't sound like a scammer...more like a user....playing western men to her own benifit. You even mentioned yourself that you ignored the signs. I think many western men find a beautiful young girl( half their age)that gives them attention and the brain goes into limbo, I am probably in that line, but never been abused as you were. I hope many guys read your story and learn from it. Good luck if you continue your search. Hope all learn from each others mistakes. Bravehartq Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/24/2008 10:10:34 PM   Thank you Beemer. It's true that many women, if you are very nice, take that as a sign of weakness and will exploit it. Yes, I ignored the signs, because perhaps I am a hopeless romantic and thought that maybe after all this time I had found the woman of my dreams...someone who would love me and care for me for the good person I am. ben2006 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2008 8:10:16 AM   Jabba I'm flying back HOME to moldova tonight..so I'll be to busy to reply to your rants for a while. Unlike in your case my girl (wife infact) didn't leave me, sorry I'm sure you would love to believe that. You say "I wanted something full time in MY country" This girl is a person not a thing. If you really loved her you would have done EVERYTHING you could, but your selfish. Your thinking about what you want and if you don't get it your back to the market looking for another thing. It was never the plan for my wife to stay in the UK but it did improve her ability to travel in the future and she got a taste of the west. and actually she enjoyed it as we had a big house and here in the city centre, but I don't want to rent forever. The UK is not my home its not where my family is so we aren't going to settle down here. I'm lucky as I'm married to a girl who loves me and I have the chance to live with her in her country while doing a job I love. Maybe I'm away a lot with work, its a scafice we make as in a few years we can decide to live pretty much anywhere in the world (even the states if we wanted) and buy a house outright. jetmba. Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2008 9:07:46 AM   MrBean2006: I'm "Jabba" now huh? Do you think you've finally found a nickname for me that you can actually spell consistantly? Given your limited intellect I'm pretty sure that anything beyond "J" (a single letter) is beyond you. She certainly DID leave you. You said it yourself when you said "She lived with me for a while but as I travel a lot we found it better for her to live there...." You had her live with you and then she moved out. But she gave you the option to come visit her when flush with cash. Guess what? I could show up any time at my exfiance's house and I would be welcome back with open arms as well. And she would LOVE it if I brought some cash! And as far as the marriage is concerned she is VERY WILLING to get married any time.... provided she gets to live for now in Moldova. So where is the big difference? Just remember it was YOU who began the accusation regarding having unsuccessful relationships. I think you are simply hyper sensitive to your own shortcomings. I thought we mututallu agreed to drop the subject (in another thread) but you keep chasing me around and bringing it up again. She is with you as long as you give her money and let her alone for long periods of time. I have news for you. A LOT of FSU women love to have sponsors - guys who send them money and then come visit a few time during the year. Sounds quite similar to what you have, You have your dreams. No doubt she has a few of her own. If she gets to stay where she wants and you provide cash (and your own extended absence for long periods) maybe you will be compatible. Now, why don't you END your continued "rants" on this subject. Because you are quite boring. nobodyknows Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 4/25/2008 11:46:44 AM   dont u think yr arguments look like the ones we had in the forum not long ago? come on guys, live yr lives, who cares how Ben lives or how Jetmba does? Jetbma,let Ben alone, its none of us business where his wife lives and what the reason of such a decision of hers to live in moldova is. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Anna Davydova Scammer From Ukraine
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