The comment in my last post was to shit stir and was nothing more than a speculative theory to stir controversy and spice up the forum ( and a bit of nonsense )...a relationship based on sex and the size of a guys cock will never be stable or long term for anyone unless all you want is a one night stand and you would never travel thousands of km to the Ukraine for that ( most men would not )..don't get so worked up guys!
I have not had a bad run, I got of lightly with internet FSU women, made a few mistakes of minor nature and did not proceed to make a much bigger mistake with my poor choices of agency girls, Nasfan, Maxirat and others, you have just been plain lucky to find a Ukraine/FSU lady that will stick by you, you found the proverbial needle in the haystack, love your women,appreciate them and don't take them for granted!
I found my girl locally, very happy, 100% positive I have made the right choice ( and so is she ) as we are very compatable and getting married 100% all systems go!
I think I made some poor choices in my past but I look to the future now, I had a foreign girl as my first wife of 12 years and this time round, another foreign girl was not to be in an experiment with agencies that did not work and I really had no faith in it because of all the scammers and my heart was not really in it!...cest la vie..such as life!
Its time for me to quit posting as I quit writing to internet FSU and other girls last year 2007 so I have nothing fresh to add, time to exit the stage and the curtain to come down I think, times have changed!..alleluhiah some forum people will say....good luck!
My woman said let men make the mistakes and learn and don't blog anymore as its all ancient history for me, why the hell do any man want to import a women, send the bitches back home to there country!~...she said I should not have married my ex and sent her home!
It could all be about sour grapes. If things do not work with the ladies in the Western world, say the women are not good. If things do not work in the eastern countries with the ladies, perhaps they too have already gone bad. Is there ever a point at which time we decide the problem may not be the ladies but Us!!!!!! Maybe all of the women in the world are looking for qualities that some of us do not possess. And as Maxirat said it is not a big wallet or appendage.
Aussieman, what in the last 1000 posts have you made that was anything fresh? Something fresh would have been you making an actual trip to Ukraine then commenting about it instead of all your second hand information. Letter writing does not constitute any practical experience with women from the FSU. You're diatribe is the same ol' same ol'.
As for luck, I really don't believe in either good or bad luck. Nor do I believe in such things as a normal life, there's just life. So saying Myself and others were lucky is absolutely incorrect. I made a calculated decision to attempt this. Meaning from my first letter I ever wrote I was comitted to making the trip. One reason I wasn't going to waste some womans time that was serious. Be that as it may, I was also committed to one trip only. No back up plans or games. So if the first trip was bust so be it, there wasn't a second. That was my discipline and I didn't variate from it. So where's the luck???? Which meant the woman I was going to go see, would be one that thought in the same vein as I do. Which had certain aspirations that I had. Had a certain moral character and wasn't ready to jump on the first plane to the states and she didn't want me to jump on the first plane to Ukraine. This weeded out many women quickly. The come now's send me somethings pretty much bit the dust in the first few letters. Anyone that tried to use agency services got round filed.
To me agencys were there for one thing, to extract money from me, end of story. I never used dating services in the states why in hell would I use one in Ukraine? Besides letter writing and translations there is no other need from an agency. None!!
First of all the last post meant to stir up nothing, but you weren't smart enough to see it. All we've heard is you bitch and whine that you can't do it on 60k a year. That's bullshit. If it was worth it, get a second job and finance it that way. I got involved on side jobs to bolster the income for trips to Ukraine to visit my wife. Hell when I went back home, I had time on my hands, I was serious about her so why not work for it. That's thing you lack, a willingness to go earn something. You think it should have just happened without any sweat equity on your part. Life doesn't work that way. Or send darts or money and she should have fallen at your feet.
All you ever talk about is the cost, their poverty or how now it's getting better. Really have you been there? It may be okay in Kiev and Odessa, but the goose hasn't laid the golden egg anywhere else.
This is also about the 40th time that you said you weren't posting anymore. Give the new guys a break and quit. So they can make an educated decision on whether to go or not from guys who have actually been there.
??? yeah, I've quit..signing off,last time..god speed and god luck to the people who attempt this foreign bride/agency business..over and out..I am happy with my fiance and my life, hope others find a partner they can be happy with!
ps: I will come back after I have been to the FSU which will be never!
Maybe, hopefully we have one less keyboard and second hand information expert. If you have the desire and use common sense this is not as difficult as it seems. There is always risk with anything that has a great reward.
And it has been two of the nicest weeks on this forum. Very little in the way of ridiculous comments and mostly helpful comments and useful advice.
By the way, I'm not sure what you mean by "LOTS OFF [sic] bad words." by Nasfan. I'm not seeing it. Just my opinion.
Sorry, I have no idea by what you mean by "THEIR [sic]IS TO BE FIVE GIRLS HERE AS TO HAVE WRITED." This is not meant as a slam as your English is far better than my Russian/Ukrainian. I just don't understand what you mean.
Look for mail Salon1? There is no mail to look for here. Or are you insinuating I am writing 5 bimbos from the Salon? Please reply in Russian I can read and understand it.
Welcome back Danny!