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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Legal Help Author Post colin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/28/2008 8:19:54 AM   So a end to the story she comes back on the 15th of January no conditions just a fresh start. Basically she said we are in a river called family we stand of two different banks of this river it shouldnt be so. We should be together we have to be more tolerant of each other. I have said she should go home once a month to begin with living here was a bigger step than she thought. I married her and will not give up just yet but put a good effort in. She told me exactly what she was unhappy about not huge things and not character changes. nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/28/2008 4:49:18 PM   What an absolute idiot. Don't you have a Pitts to go fly. Don't you have a kid to legitimize? ben2006 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/29/2008 6:41:40 AM   good luck colin, it will take time and theres no point giving up so easily Rag'n'Bull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/29/2008 4:16:50 PM   And an APU is not a snow machine, as any pilot should know, an APU is an Auxilliary Power Unit of an aircraft, if it has one, which is normally a smaller aircraft engine located at the back end of an aircraft, below the tail. wiliamsshek Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 12/29/2008 11:27:33 PM   Hi, I have decided to apply for divorce. Considering the recession now, there are many factors that we need to look in now and I really do not want to get bankrupt. I am having a terrible family life and I hope someone would suggest me. Please do not ask me to speak with my wife. I have given up and I feel Divorce alone can save my life. colin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/1/2009 6:01:04 AM   My mistakes I made were alot with my wife I have to understand her more and learn how to handle her. I never expected it all to be so different that living with a Western woman. When she went back home from what I now believe it was for me to go running for her and show my love by bringing her back.Instead I cut her off money wise etc I thought to myself when she was gone thats it its over. In fact this was not how she looked at it. I was to prove myself, but by cutting her off she said I discarded her like a toy I no longer had time for.She said I am a human being with feelings and I am your wife. She said she say things that she dont mean but to me if you say something if you dont mean it dont say it. But she uses the weaker woman excuse not strong like men. I have to be very careful what I say promise wise, for her its the most terrible thing to promise anything at all and then not to go through with it.I looked for legal help yes .one day I rang her and tried to talk to her and she wasnt nice at all she was struggling finically wise ( i should have put something in her account each week even if it was only small when I began to do this just 20 euros per week ir all began to come back together) and was quite hurtful to me and hung up I was furious and smsed Im looking for legal advice she was at the time hoping I would come get her and bring her back but instead she was shocked by this and she cut contact with me altogether for a few weeks. I will go and get her now in a few weeks (one good friend comes with me hes a 26 yr old Irish guy never in eastern europe b4 should be fun.) and I will not mention past but work it as though I have started from scratch shes a very difficult woman and can turn every situation around but she has a good heart my son is crazy about her and she of him none of us are perfect we all have flaws we have to accept these flaws in others and look for the good in people. I love her dreadfully , one person said to me it may be true in the west women fall in love with their heart 1st and then their mind. In the east its opposite they fall in love with the mind first and then the heart it maybe be correct. bowhunter Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/1/2009 6:40:24 AM   I hope it all works out good luck Mini Cooper Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/1/2009 8:39:40 PM   Colin, I'm in agreement with you. You and her put a lot of time and effort into each other so far and It deserves a second (and third) chance. I'm 57, married and divorced three times, read all the books on them (females) and I still can't figure them out. As far as I can tell they (women) live by their emotions and don't care to do much future planning. Their attitude is difficult for me to understand but what the heck. I usually give them several chances before I end it for good... hurts me too much to walk away from something I spent so much effort trying to obtain. You and she are still young and have a lot to learn about each other. The first two years are about learning each others "quarks" and adjusting to them. I wish you and your wife good luck and remember... live life with passion! Mini Cooper Kirkland Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/2/2009 3:42:15 PM   Good advice from MC. If you've invested so much into a relationship it very difficult to walk away. When you reach that decision where you have to walk away it hurts like hell. Clinging to hope often increases suffering when things end. I've seen really strong and determined people ruined by the fantasy of reconciliation when letting go would save their sanity. If you want to take a decision to hang on in there then my humble advvice would be to try discover your common interests. You need to play, doing things that excite you and give you material to discuss and share. Night classes or outdoor challenges can bring more to your relationship than a trip to Crate and Barrel or a visit with the in-laws. If I had my time again with the woman I've just left I would have made a greater effort to do the above. Whenever I go into self-pity mode, I ask myself what I'm doing tomorrow. The past will never change, but right now you can change the future. Best wishes to you in the new year colin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/20/2009 12:18:42 PM   okay arrived with my friends at hotel she said her back is still sore she will stay at home but i could come and stay in her house with her during the week. She said next i have credits u know i gave her 240 euros her visa for hungary was paid out of this too. So we had a good week she didnt go out I did great time dancing with lovely girls no problem to pull but I had my wedding ring on and told them so. My 39 year old friend just divorced .pulled 22 year old economic student. Later in the week she sat with me and her mother and said she didnt want to go back with me maybe in the future she would I said so? I came here for what?So you lied to me....my mother told me I had to get you here! Give me time she said I was like hmm I go thurs u come or stay then the marriage is over. She fumed out of the room...So my friends what does she want? she wants to stay here in the little cafes with new phones and long nails.I come every now and then and keep her in a lifestyle Lets be honest Im here with a Canadain volunteer in her town he told me shed respect me more if I punched her in the face. Their view of life is linear but of course not all are like this but alot. So I would say to anyone meet a girl go on holidays , nice time sleep with them but wait along long time and learn the person. A real Ukranian shouldnt ask for money they survived before they will survive again.\\\\ I meet the lawyer in the morning. Her mother has now told her she must leave the house for what she has done to me that she dosnt respect me. I assume the lack of respect was because I didnt treat her as a Ukranian man or Russian man would. Mini Cooper Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/21/2009 2:10:11 AM   Colin... it's unfortunate but I think it's time to move on, I'm confident that you will find many more girls waiting for the chance to meet you and one of them will treat you nice. I have been through three divorces and it hurts for a while but in the end... I think to myself... what the hell did I ever see in her??? I'm so happy now that I have the chance to meet more women... It's great! For me I love the "hunt" but not the long time of marriage afterward. Mini Cooper Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/21/2009 2:11:09 AM   oop's I forgot! Nastyman... shut up Martian... shut up nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/21/2009 8:35:22 AM   Mini pooper, your intellectual prowess isn't any higher than there are days on the calender. I'm impressed with you rapier wit retorts. Must have taken weeks of thought to come up with your two line nonsensical diatribe. Maybe you should take some of your own idiotic advice. bowhunter Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/21/2009 9:42:19 AM   married 3 times...... man it took me forever to find 1 and it didnt work out. nasfan6 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/21/2009 9:39:13 PM   Nor am I going down the road as you danny. Lying about my existence here, proclaiming to raise a child in illegitimacy. Nothing honorable in you at all. So what's the Tamara Story danny this ought to be interesting to hear. Mini Cooper Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/21/2009 11:05:33 PM   Bowhunter... yup I'm just quick on the draw <smile>. I love women but the thrill for me is in the chase. Think about it... when your dating and you find someone your attracted to and they react positive towards you, don't you get a good feeling that makes you wonderful, excited and happy? The long relationships tend to bore me... I embrace change in everything I do... from my work, where I live and also the women I partner with. NastyMan... shut up Martian... shut up beemer18 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/22/2009 12:31:58 AM   Cooper,,,so tell me why did you even bother getting married??? According to you nothing is positive and just get hurt in the end. Would it be correct to say you are just a skirt chaser? Maybe you will met your match, since the thrill for you is in the chase...you will meet the girl whose thrill is to chase the pocketbook!!!! ;-0 colin Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/22/2009 3:06:26 AM   I belive now the only way is to go there and live meet someone and over time discover if she is the right one. These emails letters and phone calls mean nothing. Their mentality is so different than ours different values as well. For me I wont go down this road again im happy to be single for a while and and in time meet someone from my own part of the world who thinks the same as me and has the same values Adman Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/22/2009 6:02:12 PM   Colin I would tend to agree not to marry or divorce in haste. It is normally better to take time out to calm down and clear the head, so that you make te right decision. All the best. Mini Cooper Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/22/2009 10:46:53 PM   Beemer... you got me wrong, I'm just a normal gut that has reconciled with myself what I desire in life (for me the chase). We are all different and each of us puts more value on things that others don't quite understand. Please, tell me what you desire in life and in a relationship... what do you secretly desire, do you like kinky s ex or straight, do you still want to be with one woman for the rest of your life when you have lost the buzz for her? You have already beeen divorced... would you like her back? NastyMan... shut up Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Legal Help
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