Now that was mean!! Jet just look at your own avatar and do the math!! Danny once exclaimed his partner cut his hair. Now you can see what happens when you piss off a woman with scissors. Looks like he gets the lawnboy style when he sits in the chair.
the human element!
in order to sustain the status quo of her looking up to you for a remedy, i would agree to lend her a "potential" helping hand only if she comes clean with all the details of the ordeal! worst case scenario, you put your ex on the spot and get to truly cross reference her version of the story!
I would be a little caniving about it and somne how get your lady attorney to record her! a deposition maybe?
but get your attorney to ask lots of questions (and use the element of surprise)
truth is, you dont have enough pieces of the puzzle to make a good decision! so you have to brew a calculated blend of intuition and logic and design a strategy in order to extract from her more pieces of the truth so you can assemble this puzzle.
one thing i know is that the truth is like oxygen! it eventually bubbles up to the surface. its just a matter of time.... and Time either promotes us or exposes us!
I've found that woman that have a "crushing lack of self confidence" overcompensate by displaying their narcissistic facade.
It's an attempt for them to maintain stability by finding their internal equilibrium which usually ends up in failure for both parties since the woman has not figured herself out, and the man fell in love with something he believed was real.
The internal conflict that the woman deals with on a daily basis eventually turns out to be the mans fault for not appreciating her enough or some other convoluted story. Anything to pass the buck off so that her own insecurities are not her own fault.
had court case yesterday for the divorce my lawyer has power of attorney,
My wife arrived with her mother and told the judge she would do anything to save
her marriage and wanted time ,the judge granted her 2 months . I thought it would all be over
yesterday, I still havnt heard from her in 2 months lol she told me I was narsictic mean and not the person she could spend her life with lol.( this was after I refused her a loan.) I replied mean how? I supported you for over year ,I then said the world dosnt center around you I do not think any Ukranian man would put up with what I did and pay your bills.Also when you left me I dont feel and liabity to pay anything for you. Have some self respect and sort yourself out. Your father would be ashamed of you.