women dont need good speller . just a challenge, a spark... a Sassy , cheeky , mouthy ,
ballsy , witty and charming unpredictable, funny
guy like myself . who needs good spelling ... who? a guy writing from the otherside of the world who cant get sex in there own country. well i head home to chelny tomorrow , good luck improving the only thing you have to offer .. spelling ... dont spell the name wrong when sending your cash . westernunion doesnt have a spelling checker
I take issue with people who affirm that a relationship where the man is 10+ older than the woman is doomed to fail. And my issue is the same with American, Latin, or FSU women.
All people are different. If you are 40+ and your girl is in her 20s, that does not mean that you must forget about it because she will leave you for a younger one as soon as she gets her legal documents.
I have an example. Do you all remember Natasha Galkina? She was runner up in America's Next Top Model. She married her American husband when she was 18 and he was 40 (five years ago), and last time I checked, they are still together (despite her popularity). Therefore, what worst odds than that?
It is my belief that if you are just looking for a "19-year old readhead with big tits" like our Shaggy guy, then you are doomed to fail 100%. But if you dedicate time (and money) to really get to know the girl/woman/lady and your personalities really match, you have a great chance to succeed, even if you are 20 years apart. Men need to think with the head over their shoulders. That will guarantee more successful relationships of this kind.
I cannot tell you about my own story because it is still beginning, but according to your logic I should start preparing the divorce, because we are 15+ years apart ... and she is only in her early 20s ... :-) Fortunately for me, I believe that I found a real winner, reason why I am the least worried.
I did not meet her at an agency. I got tired of agencies when I understood what happens backstage. Some agencies or dating sites are very good, but nothing beats real time together, face-to-face, without hundreds of guys coveting the same "prized possession."
Baron, this topic seems to have been around forever. I have no problem with your dividing the age groups but I have found a big difference between girl in their early 20's as opposed to later 20's. Late 20's is very close to early 30's where women either have small children or starting their own lives(ready for family), actually this is the group I have concentrated on.
Also, take into effect not the age of man but his whole appearance and outlook. Is he fat and out of shape( like many I have seen)? Is his interests matching those of a girl he is interested in( dancing till wee hours of the morning). There are many more issues other than age. It probably is about 3rd or 4th in my list.
I think failure rate is so high in this search because men have unrealistic expectations on what they will look for........and as always throw some money around and in the end call girls scammers.
You are correct beems. The grouping can be changed, maybe better 18-25, 25-37, 38+
And yes this was not meant to be the definitive list of all criteria. The man is also a major factor; one of the big reasons most likely why so many seem to take trip after trip and have romance after romance. After a while, if you read between the lines, it most likely is him that is the problem and not the ladies being scammers.
And I agree with sams, most ladies are not that quick to leave their country. They may have problems finding good men in their circle but it will take a real serious relationship for them to just up and leave.