Yes, chipscher, I intend not to settle. But I am surprised when I read these forums that these men have all this time and money to travel like that that. I do not. And yes, I settled once before and ended up with a failed marriage. But I think taking a Russian language class would be a very positive step if things progress with my lady interest.
Regarding the language issue - I live in Wisconsin, and though we have excellent colleges and universities that offer many opportunities (I have 3 Bachelors and a Masters Degree in various subjects all through Wisconsin colleges) Russian language courses are only taught at the two largest universities, neither of which I live near. I have developed some level of understanding the Russian language by using Pimsleur Russian Language Tapes and home study. While I was not quite Conversationally proficient while visiting Ukraine - I was usually able to understand what was being said around me.
Amazon.com has a very good selection of Russian language tapes, from the simple beginner to a whole course. You have to know what works for you though, weather you learn better by reading, or learn better by hearing, there is a course that should be able to help you.
Mr. JG, you point the finger with sarcasm to "... these men [who] have all this time and money to travel like that ...]. May I remind you that plenty of money and plenty of time off in this country are privileges enjoyed by successful people (entrepreneurs, highly skilled labor) and yes and unfortunately the unions. Why are you so surprised? or is this a lame demonstration of plain vanilla envy. And, what a hypocrisy, you would like a young girl because you would like to impregnate her with a higher chance of success ... what a bunch of baloney man, why don't you admit you drool over pictures of teenies on the Russian gallery? Women can have kids even in their thirties and forties.
Well to answer wtrav02. I am not here to debate you on who is successful and why. And for being so successful yourself, your command of English isn't very good. Your punctuation is terrible. Your spelling leaves a lot to be desired as well. Too much passive tense as well.
But anyway, are far as who is drooling over what please don't go there. You speak only of your opinion and you don't know me. I would hate to compare you physically with me, because you would lose. Trust me on that one. You are hardly the type women fall over because of who you are. You are looking to "buy" love and you will make some lady very unhappy. You write with a marked mean streak. Do any ladies trust you? You have a very undesirable tone to your sentences which reveal a lot of your personality. So I take what you say with a grain of salt to say the least. So would anyone with half a brain.
You speak of success as simply the gathering of wealth. I do not want to know what you did to obtain it. I can figure that out. Success can also be measured by how one treats others. And please don't think you know the first thing about me. You show you don't.
JG, I enjoyed your posting, I will make sure to use the spell checker and remove too much passive tense as well. Sorry to hurt your feelings. I wasn't saying you're not looking good, your're evidently very handsome with the drooling or without.
Well, well do women trust me, are they happy, do I make a woman love me? Maybe I will write my autobiography twenty years from now and I will send you a free copy and you'll find all the answers.
I sure don't know you and don't want to guess. Have fun in the forum. You'd be surprised to know what seems to be true may be not and what is said may be the opposite. Good luck in finding the girl of your dreams.
You didn't hurt my feelings. That is certain. I am going to respond once to this and be done with it. Its immaturity is not worth my efforts.
Sometimes these forums often have intelligent and open-minded views. Some are here to toot their own horns and "think" they have something on others. And by expressing themselves that way you show they don't for sure. And there are those who give out "life lessons" and how their lives are full of the the answers we all seek.
Instead of talking about writing a book, please just do it. I advise you to maintain good grammar and sentence structure if you want a publishing house to have an editor read it. They do not like to correct a lot of mistakes in manuscripts. Also, try varying your sentence length and cut down on unecessary words (example: make sure = ensure). Please remember the first word of a question within a sentence is capitalized, too. Little things like that can drive book editors nuts.
I know more than you realize about life and whatever. The day you have survived what I have I will listen. I leave it at that when I say survive.
Also remember too that some people know about writing analysis and what it means. It's a difficult thing to mask when people know what to look for. I have seen enough of them try! Some are better than others in that regard. Like those who write they "make" someone love them. Interesting thought.
Good luck to you as well. I mean that with sincerity. I have always offered my hand in friendship to people. If you have seen what I have seen you'd feel the same. Again, trust me on that one.
"Its immaturity is not worth my efforts."
"And by expressing themselves that way you show they don't for sure."
"And there are those who give out "life lessons" and how their lives are full of the the answers we all seek."
JG: Do you read what you have written? These are just a few sentences from your last post. Read them carefully from beginning to end. Not one is grammatically correct or even close. And I have listed only a few examples. Where in the world have you published a book or dealt with an editor?
JG , I was like your post very much. one , that I wasn’t understand in it – how can be mix love and politic ? I think , it is possible only when your beloved working with it.
But it is very hard to meet such woman at marry agency.
What men want ? beauty , full of love, young, better good-educated woman without children, and better without marry’s experience.
at the same moment man afraid lose together with his heart and all his money. that is absolutely normal. Especially last time.
With this all woman can be agree. She can be in love, she can understand.
And – here they meet. Very good start.
How man can spoil this good attitudes ?
1. talk all the time about his money. it is bring feel to woman , that he buy her.
2. fin din her 1-2 defects and try to rectify ( it is the biggest mistake , what a woman or a man can do. If you love human – love he ( she , as he is ).
3. look at yourself , as at benefactor. It is she was lose all her life to go to you. and you was ask her about it. Ask.
4. give a promises, and forget about it. even in a little things. If you will do it few times, will be very hard to trust you. and trust – it is the most important.
5. think , that woman is already your, so , you don’t need pay court to her.
Woman can forgive a lot of things, but she don’t forgive inattention.
And, even if your bride want to lose you as soon , as she will have green card, if you are really good husband, she will not make it. simply it is hard to find really good husband. and wife, if true , too ;)
K: You make some excellent points and its especially good to hear these thing from a woman's point of view. It is obvious that you are not an American woman - but where are you from? Would you mind telling me?
Yes, at that my post are so many mistakes, that even I see it myself ;)))
Very shame.
Of course, I am Russian. I don’t think , that American of English girls will come at this site ;))) or , then more , explain to men, how marry at woman from another country. ;)
Your English is not bad. It is certainly better than most of us will ever likely speak (or write) Russian. It seemed most evident to me that you were not an American woman because what you say makes so much sense. (American women often are not like that. They tout the same old tired arguments).
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