Danny has made some racist statements within the past week or two. I thought they were posted in anger and he probably didn't mean it. Now he is calm, and I get a PM from him. I was wrong.
"rb was thinking about black and white babies and for some reason i thought of chess
take a look at this its proof that whites are smarter then blacks ...
they couldnt evern find black players smart enough to play chess ...
Danny, take a look at the site below. Do you see the 1989 and the 1990 Nevada State Champion? That's my half brother. Do you see him taking second, third, fourth or any other place in the other years? That's because he did not compete. There is no money in being a chess champion at that level. With all the time he invested in it, he got $500 and a trophy.
rb, I get the feeling he's actually just found the buttons to push with you. If I'm right (and I'm often not), you just keep on giving him satisfaction and entertainment.
Muzzy is right, DD jerks off to fighting with others on this forum, nasfan6, unknowingly, provided DD with most of his orgasms and you and I, and others, have provided his orgasms to a lesser degree.
These days I just wind him up laughing that it get's his right hand sticky in the process, what's your excuse? :)
What difference does it make if he is just pushing buttons? I don't believe he is. I think he's serious, but it doesn't matter. He will go after anyone. He now says he is happy at reading Muzzy or Mr. Durak's girl news. I have pointed this out in the past, that he does not hold those posts sacred either.
If you mean he is just trying to get me angry, it didn't work. It is he who has been getting angry. There is anger in my posts, but I am not out of control. This was his PM yesterday:
"you bull shit lied to me back when i asked you about craig sutton when i ased you about dunny42, lo and behold, he contacts me the next day . i used to jump in and take the abuse attention away from you when the likes of martin is posting benny the rat ... no rb you are a rat ...but ok fair is fair you can say your jokes about a girl you know full well was nice ..you show me your no better then martin ... i will leave you be and have a nice day"
When the balcony jokes started from me, I thought I would do one or two and Danny would stop. He did not. It is like he liked it. Now that I stopped it, he complains that I do it.
Danny, I do not know full well that she was nice or not. It is just like you not knowing any girl is nice or not but abuse and slander because it is what you do.
To be honest, Danny, I've given up posting updates on my progress on here. There's so many people on here who have no purpose but to insult others or argue over silly things, that I think the forum has actually lost most of its usefulness. If you look, the vast majority of threads on the first page have descended into name calling and arguing over the same one or two issues.
Look at the "taking time" thread. A genuine, heartfelt story told by Durak for the assistance and consideration of others. It doesn't even make one page before lonelyranger (a frequent perpetrator) turns it into a continuation of his personal fight with you.
Seriously, look through all the threads on just the first page, and count how many made it past one page before the bickering consumed it.
I promise if I have something significant to report, I'll PM you. I hope you'll understand why I'll keep anything personal off these silly pages.
Danny started by second guessing Mr. Durak. Mr. Durak's experience is what he wants to experience to see if perhaps, it will work. As with all posters, Danny will compare it to what he would do and all others are scammers and whores. When others do not follow Danny's lead of getting a girl who is plain looking, and not spending money, which I don't believe, his abuse begins. Although Mr. Durak did not elaborate on whether or not she is good looking and his expenditures, Danny was beginning to dig into more information on this. He already began his lecture on why it was a mistake because he did not follow Danny's rules, although he did not even know these yet.
Muzzy...since you mentioned it, I looked back at page one.....can you tell me which post continued/rekindled the feud??? You mentioned lonlyranger?
Can you tell me who the frequent perpetrators/bickerers are. In fairness, why stop at only one???? Let's get shared billing!!! Just curious!!
You are right about one thing Muzzy..I wouldn't share another personal story here..it is not a forum anymore....more like an institution for lowering learning.....3rd grade level.
beemer, I've seriously no idea which thread started things. To be honest, it seems to be a constantly evolving argument that's gone on in one form or another for years, which cuts across any and every thread, and which different people come in and out of. Regarding who the most frequent are, well, you've been here long enough to know who the regular fighters are. It never really changes, does it? Lonelyranger just seems to be the latest combatant, albeit a very willing one.
It's such a pity, as this really could be a great resource for so many people. I'm sure your stories would be of help to others, as would those of the many who won't even post here. I do wonder if the arguing idiots realise how much they're destroying this whole forum to satisfy their childishness, or wether they just don't care.
Not that my 'wondering' will change anything. One can't shame shameless men.
It t'was around 6 or 7 years ago that I came to this forum, it was a battleground before I arrived, a battleground during the years I've been here, and it shall be a battleground long after I depart.
Yet ... there are two other forums, nothing to do with FSU dating, that I watch/post on etc. and those forums operate under 'peacetime' conditions and do you know why? ... Because those that post know that if they overstep the mark the administration behind the forum will stamp on them so hard probably prohibiting them for X amount of days if not totally.
Alas, here, we have Eleview Intl. administering this forum and Eleview Intl. simply couldn't give a shit.
Muzzy..I was speaking about THIS thread....since that one you specifically mentioned.
I can name the bickering fighters on one hand.....and YOU speak privately with the only person I know to get kicked off this forum!!!(That took some doing) Too bad you don't know the whole story!!!
If the moderators that let this continue, they must be happy with the results.........and for the idiots to show their age.
Ivor...yes there was always a battleground here between someone BUT it was man v man before...now the sissies hide behind fake names...always changing to try hide themselves and make a mockery.
Some people seek to be a big fish in little pond and others seek to be a little fish in a big pond. The usual suspects here are little fish in a little pond. Just ignore them, unless you all too, subscribed to the thinking, the loudest one is right. Maybe you could all meet at a McDonald's restaurant of your choice for fine dining and enlightened conversation.
Beemer, while you're at it, list the good guys. There will be a third list of who is not on either list. You will need to decide where they go. You can only have two lists.
Muzzy, I have a question. You seem to think that the problem is the bickering and not Danny's slandering and abusing. He will probably not slander and abuse you. My question is can you tolerate what Danny has done to be done on other forum members, including newbies?
Don't say he will stop. Perhaps temporarily, but he will continue. I have said I thought he and I were friends. He came crying to me when others were after him. I still have the PM's. Then, he went in the forum and said he will quit being nasty. He was nice for a time. He even left Martin alone. This was around the time he met his now fiance.
Beemer, while you're at it, list the good guys. There will be a third list of who is not on either list. You will need to decide where they go. You can only have two lists.
Muzzy, I have a question. You seem to think that the problem is the bickering and not Danny's slandering and abusing. He will probably not slander and abuse you. My question is can you tolerate what Danny has done to be done on other forum members, including newbies?
Don't say he will stop. Perhaps temporarily, but he will continue. I have said I thought he and I were friends. He came crying to me when others were after him. I still have the PM's. Then, he went in the forum and said he will quit being nasty. He was nice for a time. He even left Martin alone. This was around the time he met his now fiance.
@Beemer, I can't believe I'm about to do something so moribund as this, but since you asked:
The way I read the thread is that
Durak posted
Danny replied with sympathy and then put his own opinionated point of view forward.
Others replied both to Durak and to Danny
Danny, rb, ralph and lonelyranger started to question others' motives and methods. Some strong words and disparaging of attitudes (Danny: "looks are not everything . there are thousands of plain looking girls that are honest and loyal and just wonderful people", Ralph: "you want something so bad that you allow yourself to be taken for a ride. and I don't mean that you are being scammed.", lonelyranger: "danny,,, you make choosing a wife sound more like a job interview", rb: "You call their women, "scammer" time and time again"). Not the way I'd speak to people, but on-topic and to be expected in a forum where people air their views and disagree (fulfilling the purpose of the forum). We should all be grown up enough to take this kind of sometimes-harsh banter.
On 10.08.2011 at 17:46:56, Dannys reference to masturbating to fsu model's pictures may have been tasteless, but it was him making a point in his usually ham-fisted way. It was still on-topic (just), and was furthering his original argument of not chasing "pretty" women. His right to say it, others' right to disagree.
On 11:08:2011 at 2:36:09, lonelyranger took things from an escalating disagreement to insults... "Danny,,,, not only do you have a problem with dyslexia, but you also have a problem with memory and comprehension!!!!" "Danny,, you are a real dumb, dumb,,,,, now don‘t start whining to me about name calling".
Dannys next post was to wish Durak good luck.
rb then posted twice to further his argument that Danny only wants to accuse people of scamming - which then made this thread a continuation of the same argument that's infested most threads on here for quite a while. This is why I said that this one stupid fight didn't start on this thread. I'm not claiming any one person to be the worst culprit, or any other person to be innocent. You seem to disagree with me, and that's your right.
For your information, I talk privately with several people from here. Am I not allowed to do that? I know things about some of them that would perhaps change the minds of most right-thinking people (not that there are many of those here). I also know more of the history of the fighting than you might think - not that I want to. As I repeatedly say, I don't take sides. I hear the words "but they started it" from the little children I work with, all the time. I don't accept it from them, so I don't accept it from adults, either.
@ Ivor, I completely agree that lack of moderation is partly to blame here. But should we really need moderating? Are we not grown-ups? Personally, I don't need someone to follow me around in life telling me what not to say to people. And if someone else is causing trouble, do we always need to respond? Does everyone here really need to have the last word?
You are correct, we are all grown-ups ... Can you imagine how society would be without any type of law enforcement?
I can assure you that when forum ground rules are set down and ENFORCED people, pretty much, follow the ground rules, of course there shall always been the occasional newbie to a forum that tries it on but all it takes is for a moderator to give him a slap, ban him for an unspecified period, or delete his acciount and he'll learn that if he wishes to post then he needs to behave himself.
Alas Eleview Intl. don't have the systems, nor staffing levels, in place to enforce moderation, they can block an IP address, it takes 30 seconds for us to change our IP address and come back again, they might even be able to block us by cookies, again it takes 30 seconds to clear cookies, or they can delete an account ... but they don't stop that individual immediately registering a new account and carrying on!
And they believe this forum to be an attraction for new customers? :)
To think that I was one post away from leaving the forum, at least to have a low profile. I even posted that my plans are not open for discussion. Then, Danny posted that the girl I dated was pregnant and the baby was not my race. Muzzy, you said Danny was pushing my buttons. He pushed many buttons. That's the one that set me off. He said many things and I let everything go until that one. From then on, I let nothing go. I did nothing to provoke that.
They are just words. I can file it away and not recall it. I chose not to. What does that do to a forum if forum members gets an unprovoked attack like that? I know Danny's thinking. He posted them many times. If the girl is either beautiful, young or if you spent money on her, she is a scammer. It gets worse if he is succeeding or even just having fun.
Mr. Durak did not even tell of the details yet, and immediately, he gets a lecture on why Mr. Durak should get a girl that he got: a plain looking girl, not young and didn't require any spending at all. Mr. Durak was smart enough not to give him the information that would have triggered it. Danny did dig for that information. This is no different than the Giss thread where Danny immediately attacked him for being mental. The only difference is Giss gave the information that triggered it: she was young. Look at the recently resurrected threads. He has been at it for a long time.