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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Guy's Don't Spend Much Money On Your Girl At First.... Author Post apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/11/2012 4:10:21 PM   Aussie - agree 100%, that is EXACTLY what I am running into (A lot) with my own fiance. She has never had a real relationship before. Never fallen in love before, never even kissed a boy before, never dated a boy before. Can you imagine??? It is also very difficult relations at times due to this. I have had to be patient and guiding. Of course being around such a young beautiful girl with the playboy playmate figure and Vogue fashion model face on a blonde-hair-blue-eyed stunning young beauty demands will-power and control to say the least! ;) So yes, I understand all that you are saying. You are giving me some needed advice too now. ;) Imagine that! ;) I sometimes forget that my girl doesn't know about relationship building, about putting someone else's needs first above her own. That won't happen until marriage. Personal recent story: My girl is extremely family-oriented. And the gifts I sent for family-relationship building impacted throughout all her relatives too. This past Christmas after meeting my fiance's mother, I sent her an extra $700 for her mother to buy the grandmother (mother's mother) a big-screen TV. A few days after such celebrations and receiving such a gift, the grandmother passed away. But everyone remembered the true joy of seeing her grandmother so happy to get the TV. Such an event is not easily forgotten that the moment of real happiness was one that was echoed in their thoughts during the funeral too. Family is serious matter to Ukraine people. It is all they can truly count on for real support. Relations with a foreign man is just a dream to many of those girls who suffer through cheating boyfriends, lack of real support, no real hope for the future. Not all people are poor in Ukraine, but the 95% who are not owners and from wealthy families do struggle just to pay bills and to put food on the table. My fiance comes from one of those very poor families. She is extremely beautiful and humble natured, but also has the desires for better things, nice clothes, smartphone, laptop, car and nice apartment and one day her own business that the entire family can profit from. But she will not be married to an old, ugly rich man who treats her like an animal, to be caged and brought out only for show. Nor will she marry the young, cheating handsome boy who cares nothing for her but a romp in the hay. I have heard this many times from my fiance that family and marriage is everything to her. So that is how she won my heart. Because I could see this rare beauty with the real serious intentions. So yes, I sometimes do worry that I spend a lot of money on her. I make really good money and it was so easy to just ask her what she wants and even needs. She needed so much and wanted even more because she had so little! If I had been a miser and not spent anything on her? Would she have treated me differently than now? When even we have our worst quarrels she tells me how much she loves me and how much I had helped her? And that if its my choice to end relations than that is my decision, not hers? That is priceless... If you worry about spending too much on your girl? I would worry about other things like if you can even afford the notion of the cost it will take to get her back home to marry and support for all life... lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/11/2012 10:33:28 PM   Ves,, thanks, if you had not pointed it out, I would not have seen your post on the bottom of the previous page! I hate it when that happens. Afraid of danny the Dunt??? Perhaps in a way I am,,, we should all be!!!!! Have you seen a 2006 movie called “Idiocracy” with Luke Wilson???? Anybody who has,,,,, will understand what I mean!! Dunt, and all the little dunts he could create, threatens all of Humanity!!!! lol “3 In the end, you are looking for a Russian wife” ???? Ves,,,,,, you must not have got the memo?!?!?! I stopped looking almost two months ago!! I removed my profile from this site and another, and then turned one profile off! A couple of weeks ago it turned itself back on, but I only look, I don’t reply to anyone. I might reconsider starting up again a year from now, if the environment improves, but after reading so many of the posts on the forum this week, I can’t ever see that happening!! So,,, Russian lessons are not required!! I hope you are not too disappointed my dear??? “1-sometimes I am too lazy. 2-you need to work your head)) 3-in the end-you are looking for a Russian wife. You have to get used to the fact that sometimes understand each other it will be very difficult. (A) in General-where Giss? without the boring (I hope he is alive, rather than a test of Pomer regular feed supplement that he created” Vesnovka Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/11/2012 11:42:29 PM   À âîîáùå- ãäå Giss ? áåç íåãî ñêó÷íî(. Íàäåþñü îí æèâ, à íå ïîìåð îò èñïûòàíèÿ íà ñåáå î÷åðåäíîé ïèùåâîé äîáàâêè, ÷òî îí ñîçäàë. (A) in General-where Giss? without the boring (I hope he is alive, rather than a test of Pomer regular feed supplement that he created” I wonder- where is Giss. It's boring without him. I hope that he is alive, not dead from the tests of the next food additive, that he created. Ves,,,,,, you must not have got the memo?!?!?! I stopped looking almost two months ago!! I removed my profile from this site and another, and then turned one profile off! A couple of weeks ago it turned itself back on, but I only look, I don’t reply to anyone. Æàëü(((( Áåäíûå äåâóøêè íå èìåþò øàíñà ñàìîñòîÿòåëüíî íàéòè òàêîãî õîðîøåãî ìóæà((!! Do you think that I read ALL the post here?))) apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/12/2012 11:38:26 AM   lonely - that's one way, but you forget, that there's a lot more expenses than just the basics. Unless you want to live like a caveman and treat her a little better than an inflatable doll. ;) lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/12/2012 12:12:42 PM   Apal,,, that's one way for what??? I've stopped looking!! Go read it again!! "Ves,,,,,, you must not have got the memo?!?!?! I stopped looking almost two months ago!! I removed my profile from this site and another, and then turned one profile off! A couple of weeks ago it turned itself back on, but I only look, I don’t reply to anyone. I might reconsider starting up again a year from now, if the environment improves, but after reading so many of the posts on the forum this week, I can’t ever see that happening!! So,,, Russian lessons are not required!! " apal1 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 5/13/2012 12:43:03 PM   LR - I mean't its one way only. There is more to consider than that the only expense is paperwork and a flight... really? I mean I guess romance and real support aren't in there at all. Her continued education, business dreams, car, insurance, health, care, travel, clothes, entertainment, support isn't in there at all? I am not like the sort of man who is only thinking of themselves and always jealous of other men's accomplishments. I don't fear finding someone to give them a better life. If I had settled and went for a wife from the West and she was beautiful, kind and sincere? No problem. But I make more money than most in the USA and if I had the option to have a young, beautiful, kind, sincere and vibrant young virgin for a fiance? Than that is my choice. But I knew it would be more expensive than a flight and the cost of filing for a simple Visa petition. ;) LR - My advice to you with that mentality? Is to find someone who doesn't need a life or are you capable to really want to learn what it takes to have a real life with a beautiful FSU woman? With the mentality you are writing about, I'd suggest finding a Fillipino or Malaysian wife who comes from the poor villages and has no need for education, manners, or finer things in this world. I know some men are highly incapable of thinking of someone other than themselves. But they pretend (write) they are. 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