Skycaptain, I think it is ok probably; I have seen references to particular sites in posts before. There are mods which approve posts before they are made visible I believe, so if you crossed some boundary it would be caught I guess. Such info will go well with the initial spirit of the thread I think.
Skycaptain and oustabout, we have a Danny here who believes if you give anything to a woman, and she takes it, or she is beautiful, that makes her a scammer or a prostitute. He believes he knows more than you in finding your mate. If you don't believe him, he will hound you and slander your woman until you leave the forum or fight back.
"Skycaptain and oustabout, we have a Danny here who believes if you give anything to a woman, and she takes it, or she is beautiful, that makes her a scammer or a prostitute. He believes he knows more than you in finding your mate. If you don't believe him, he will hound you and slander your woman until you leave the forum or fight back."
Thanks ragingbull (and others)for the input. I can't get the "real" thing to work on mamba.ru (never sends the code, one guy said once he paid them it worked) but I'm using freepersonals.ru, fdating.com and russian-dating.com. These are just my experiences so I may be average, better or worse.
The sites seem to have mostly all real girls (only one or possibly 2 scammers hit me up that I know of) and the girls range from top ten models to ugly and all in between. I have engaged a few there and a lot depends on their English language skills as well as what they are looking for. The very pretty may respond but they are popular and you have to make good conversation fast or she'll stop responding fast (and some are just time wasters). for me, the Russian language barrier has killed a couple of very promising connections with nice women. It took only one offense and they blew me off- no second chance.
The serious will only talk for a little while and then if you have not gotten to the point and they have not heard what they want, they will ask when are you coming here (whether Ukraine, Estonia, Russia, China or wherever) and if you don't say soon, goodbye. I don't think I can afford to get there this year but I thought I could get some good rapport and skype and have a good relationship going before I go there next year. I'd like to know them very well before I go all that way to see them.
You don't leave someone who is on medication for anxiety by themselves, especially if there is a balcony they could jump off of. Danny is too stupid to understand that.
Talk about being bi-polar. Is this a new relation? You left her with a tri-polar transverstite? Danny, your nose is growing.
Skycaptain, I also believe most of these ladies are genuine. I am on vk and yes, there are real women in there who need husbands. Even the married ones are trying to fix me up with cousins.
With Danny around, it is difficult to really talk about FSU women. I once saw a TV show about an American prostitute. She does it to put food on the table for her and her daughter. If that happens in America, what more in the FSU where the income is 10-25% of that in the US?
You can be compassionate or stingy. (In Danny's case if you show the least bit of compassion, you are an idiot and the woman a scammer or a prostitute). I believe it is up to you. It is your money, your budget, your way of finding your own mate.
I am not saying there are no scammers or prostitutes there. But, I believe many of them, although they may appear as such, through their actions, are not.
200 thousand, that's a lot of money. What I spent, total on the FSU compared to what Danny spent is like comparing a blade of grass to a whole lawn. Still, Danny focuses on how much I supposedly spent and got scammed of. Then, he calls me stupid. Now, that's complete arrogance.
My budget was $3,000 cash for each of my 3 trips. I might have charged some insignificant things, but I did not stray far from that. That includes hotel, meals, and the black dress, but not airfare. I went low season on November and February. I never spent more than $770 USD for airfare from Southern California to Kiev. That's three stops.
You think name calling will improve your argument, Danny? No, it only shows your stupidity. Add $3,000 plus air fare and you get $3,770. You spent $7,000. Who is the idiot?
Where did you get that $7,000 out on one trip out of that $200,000? Do a little math. That would mean you have been in the FSU 29 times. How many women did you come up with?
Where did lonelyranger and I get that 200,000 figure if not you? On this very thread, you admitted it, just above. You make up so many things you don't know what lies you have said. You and I did the same thing and you spent $7,000 to one trip to my $3,770 and I am the idiot?
The only difference is I am not as desperate as you or your supposed wife. You litter the forum with your nonsense about everyone else being idiots and you are the one who does not know what he is doing. Your supposed wife must be really desperate if you gave her a choice of going to Russia for two months. She is afraid of losing an idiot. That's desperate.
Danny, if you are going to criticize me or anyone, at least you should tell the truth. Don't you want to be right rather than wrong all the time? Is that a concept you have never tried?
I am not looking. I've got better things to do. One trip, many trips, 200.000. It does not matter. That's a lot of money. You have no cause to be after anyone spending THEIR money to do what they think will better their lives. That is what you do to me, that is what you do to people in this forum. You have done worse. Much worse. What is despicable is your making things up when you don't have evidence.