Danny42:
“atleast on vacation then the guy has the upper hand
...in there city the guy is just a puppet”
“i prefered meeting where i was in charge where i held the card”
Dunt,,,, do you really need to have the “upper hand” with women??? Can’t you deal with them on an even playing field??
When you visit the women in their hometown, you get to know the girl better and see what their life is like.
Will she introduce you to her friends,,,, show you where she works and introduce you to her co-workers?
Will she take you to places that she frequents?
Will she invite you into her home??
How much of that will you learn on vacation???
On vacation, you’re stuck with them for the duration of the trip,,, unless you abandon them??
Some people have a code of conduct,,, and know the difference between right and wrong.
Did you have the upper hand with Irina on the balcony???
hi elliaabdul it seems we have thesame interest regarding the woman named Tatiana Florinkova from rubeznoe , Ukraine we chatted on Skype too with cam I took some of her pictures on cam using only paint, she does not know this but like you said she wants to meet me, I have her mobile number and she can understand and speak english too. do you have pictures of her so we would know she is only one. so far she does not know that i have found her name here...
Danny42,,,, DUNT!
“Look at the strange things you say and do .. look at how you argue with nice people . Your so determined to blame the agency and the girls ect . Be a man and exept that you are the one with issues .”
First of all,,, what nice people am I arguing with??
Second, I place the blame where it is deserved!
2009,,,, 1st girl,,, quits her nurses job to be a prostitute in Moscow! I blame the girl and the economy!
2ndgirl,, agency woman tells me the girl is sick,,, weeks later the girl tells me that she went to the mountains with her lover. I blame the agency woman and the girl.
3rd girl,,,, can’t walk straight after two drinks,,,, is on the floor after 7. I blame the girl mostly,, and myself a little for buying them for her,,,, but she was very insistent.
4th girl,, no show! I blame her.
5th girl,,,, writes to me about living in the country and having an agricultural education. Is now in Kiev,,,, and loves her computer gaming job! I blame her.
2010, 6th girl. Is on over 47 websites,,, the interpreter is a known scammer. I blame them too.
7th girl,,, no show.
2011-2012, 8th girl. Tells a serious, deal breaking lie in the first minutes of our first date,,,, the interpreter translates it,,,, the girl and the interp are or were friends…. I blame them!
I wrote letters to women in hopes of knowing them better “Before” I make the trip. I need a good reason to make the trip,,,,, and that’s why I didn’t go this last winter,,,, and may not ever go back?!
I don’t want to meet someone from a bar or club. Others can if they want,,, but not me.
I don’t want to meet a woman who would go on vacation with a strange guy she has never met before.
Danny42:
“First visit is to meet the vagina... That can be inher city or vacation on in anyquiet street .park bench ect.”
Lonely, if a girl doesn't show blame yourself... if she doesn't show up that means you are not interesting to her, change yourself and stop blaming everyone in your problems.
Moya,,, if a girl wants to meet with me, and has been asking constantly about it for months,,, and says she will meet me at a certain time and in a certain place,, and I find her chatting on Aweb afterwards,, I should blame myself?? Is that what you are saying??? If your answer is YES,,,, then most people in your country must be f-ing trash,, and I am f-ing glad I haven’t married one of them,, and I’m happy to never go again.
DUNT,, no girl has met me for vacation in a foreign country, because I haven’t asked them! I had many ask me about meeting them in a foreign country,,, but most of them are pro daters and pro vacationers, so they are trash to me!
If girls write about meeting family and friends, and then don’t, I should also blame myself? I caught most or all of these women in lies, so I should still blame myself??
Lonely, of course you should blame yourself! It was your choice to chat with those women for months and didn't understand that they're scammers, so it's only your fault for being so naive.
Sounds like you don't have much to offer these women once they get to know you better. Maybe you need to lower your standards if you keep striking out?
“Lonely, of course you should blame yourself! It was your choice to chat with those women for months and didn't understand that they're scammers, so it's only your fault for being so naive. “
Who did I chat with for months???
One time, I burnt through some credits on a website that I had planned to leave,,,, but other than that, I’m not one of those fools that chats on a pay per minute site!
Dunt,, I did delete women who asked for vacations!!
J-U I lowered my standards when I made my first trip to Russia and Ukraine! I have raised them back up again!!! How can anyone hope to have a real relationship with people from a country, that has no idea of what honesty is?? These people have an aversion for truth and honesty!
Why didn’t those 2 women simply say that they didn’t want to see me???
What if those women did want to have a serious relationship but something about you eventually creeped them out. Some people would rather walk away than have that awkward "you're nice guy but..." moment.