"Oh yeah? point me to the web page where the UN has published papers on maturity age to get married."
Me? It was you that said it exists. Like I said, you are making things up. You forget what you wrote.
"You just keep changing your story as it suits you and, even worse, putting words in my mouth. I gave you the statistics of age for the highest divorce numbers in the UK, to prove, once and for all, that your speculation that the age of maturity for marriage of 25 or so is proved by the fact that the highest divorce rate is among people in their mid twenties. Then you come and tell me that I said that the maturity age is 45."
You proved nothing. It was one year of a hundred years of data.
"The UK and Wales are a region, yeah right."
Define "region". Look in the dictionary.
You guys just cannot let it go when you see that you are being shown that you are not as smart as you think you are.
"You guys just cannot let it go when you see that you are being shown that you are not as smart as you think you are."
If you want to marry a young one, then fine. Assume the risks. Don't lead anyone else astray.
OK, Wifeseeker. I will admit I am wrong about you and the UN. I read your post wrong.
Just because they didn't do a study doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Do they study everything?
Have you asked yourself why your data of 100 years was only true for the last year on that data, 2012. That was around the peak of the recession.
There is no way 45 years would be the norm for any country for divorce and you have not proved it once and for all. By 30's most should know what they want in life and certainly by 40's. You are gambling with younger ones. Gambling is up to you, but you should know the risks.
"Just because they didn't do a study doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Do they study everything?"
Eh?
"If you want to marry a young one, then fine. Assume the risks. Don't lead anyone else astray."
Read my previous postings, I said I do not go for girls under 26 because of the age difference, not because I think they are immature.
OK, I will not lead anyone astray: "You are not to marry a girl under 25 even if you are 25 yourself" Raginbull said it.
"Read my previous postings, I said I do not go for girls under 26 because of the age difference, not because I think they are immature."
So there are no girls under 26 who are immature? Why have the word, "mature" at all?
"OK, I will not lead anyone astray: "You are not to marry a girl under 25 even if you are 25 yourself" Raginbull said it."
Now, you are putting words in my mouth. The age 26 is the average age in which the divorce rate goes down dramatically. That is when most mature. What I said is if you must marry under the age of 26, assume the risks. Everyone must find their place in life. Before that age, they are testing this and testing that and are not sure yet. Yes, those are the steps to maturity.
I have said that the age when the average divorce rate goes dramatically at age 26. I even referenced a US study. I found no world study, but I didn't look too hard. From experience, I cannot get into looking hard for anything that might not exist.
I believe the age of 26 applies to everyone worldwide or somewhere close. Wifeseeker claims there is no such threshhold.
25 marrying 25 have less risk than 24 marrying 24 but more risk than 26 marrying 26.
However, if there is no treshhold as Wifeseeker claims, 18 marrying 18 is alright or for that matter, 16 marrying 16 or even less.
You really can’t compare locals marrying locals in whatever age group, in whatever country to FSU women marrying men from foreign countries.
Some might say that the FSU women would be more serious in their marriage with a foreign man,,, and others that she is only looking for a green card or citizenship.
My brother married a 15 year old with permission from parents from Philippines when he was in his early 30's. They were both serious. Philippines is a country where women are as loyal as they come. Their marriage was great until she was approaching the age of 25. I don't believe she cheated on him, but she went out a lot - just to experience the growing up that she missed. It almost broke them up.
One thing I wondered about when I first started this FSU thing is why would all of these young girls write to me. I wondered if it would work. Now, I know better. To all of the newbies who are wondering the same thing and hear what you have to say, I will not let it go.
OMG, I wonder how many men I have led astray and have fallen in the hands of an immature 24 year old beautiful girl and how these poor men must be suffering in bed with her.
Hah hah!
It's good if what you advocate are just 24 year olds, which are still risk. You stated there was no treshhold to maturity. Therefore, if I hadn't challenged you, you would still be at it with not just 24 year olds, but younger.
Have you read the letters of those 25 or younger? They are in a fantasy land. It's like Disneyland. They are writing fairy tales. Many will have fallen for it, and you would have helped.
By the way, why are you down to age 24 anyway? I said the average age when there was low risk of divorce is 26. You said there was no magic age. If there is no magic age, why do you state one?
Look, I'm 55 now. My astounding wife is 35. There are no rules it's who you are. Neither one of us could be happier. I would suggest one thing to those just starting out. You can either listen to those who are unsuccessful at finding wives after decades our listen to those who are successful after a year or two. It depends if you are doing this to spend money or find the perfect wife.