I Went there to meet 10 women. 8 Scheduled them 3 days apart. I arranged them in the order I felt a connection. On the 3rd day I called all the other women and wished them the best of luck, but I had found my other half.
We started writing in September, met in April, went to the Dominican Republic in july, I returned in September, returned in february to ask her dad for his permission to marry her. She arrived the following October 7th.
The agency didn't remove her until we were engaged, and then 4 months later I found her on anastasia. I called them and they said ok, but did nothing. One Saturday I called the online bbb. She was off by monday.
Tom Shea
That is quick to have met in just 7 months after first contact. Also good that she can travel to an outside location to meet you. Not that many foreign women can do that.
I was not aware that the online bbb would have the clout to force some kind of action from a dating site. They also cover companies based in foreign countries?
7 months from first contact until meet ... and you call that "quick" dcguy?
Unlike us men the ladies have a "baby making" sell by date and not many are happy to sit on the shelf for ever more on the offchance that the guy, or guys, they are chatting with are seriouys.
The same can be said for Western ladies as well. Maybe that is why their messages seem so urgent and they talk about "love at first sight"? It is a tough situation when the actual number of genuine male and female profiles on the dating sites are small.
7 months is almost too long because in 7 months we exchanged like 800 letters. If you are feeling closer to one of these women I'd say you should meet her in 6 to 8 months, other wise you ate one of the 85% to 95% who will never get on a plane and she will be looking elsewhere
7 months is almost too long because in 7 months we exchanged like 800 letters. If you are feeling closer to one of these women I'd say you should meet her in 6 to 8 months, other wise you ate one of the 85% to 95% who will never get on a plane and she will be looking elsewhere
But I'm still friends with the first girl I ever truly fell in love with 28 years ago, I'm still friends with my ex girlfriend of 2 years who I broke up with last December and I'm still friends with an ex of earlier this year so much so that we're discussing a reconcile as soon as my business commitments permit me to get away for a day or two.
I know that many of the dating sites have US addresses. This site here accepts ladies who are tied to another agency (such as Anastasia). So I guess either she decided to place her profile here or the agency did it for her.
I am probably not close to where you were after seven months. I have been on the dating sites since April of this year, but hundreds of the contacts want money help. Many of them like from this site are just casual conversations. One lady here expressed a strong interest in me, but had her profile removed a few weeks ago. Many others just chatted for a while and then stopped. I get a large number of pay per letter profile messages to my inbox, but you have to wonder about them. The very few (not scammers) who provided me their personal email address do not write back. I have not called anyone directly overseas (no phone numbers given). I have done video chat just a few times. Not many ladies have computers to do that and go to the agency to chat there.
Again, I am surprised that you have not had phone numbers. A number of girls have given me theirs to be able to chat on Viber for instance.
Girls who ask for your email address but never write: in a way they do but indirectly. Have you noticed an increase in spam from dating agencies and messages from 'girls' that say they got in touch with you through 'the agency', shortly after giving your email to them? There you have it.
When you have to go and see the lady after you first get in touch with her is rubbish, don't pay any attention, so long as it does not take you two years to go and see her.
Abaout the ones who write for a while, then stop, the ones who want money and the ones that say they want you then get their profile removed: if it can serve as consolation, it is the same for every man.
Dc, don't believe it. They are scamming you. Most people have Internet in their homes, even faster than in the us. They are filed with crap and are either trying to suck you for the per letter fees. The way it works is every agency is independent. They contract with all of them... anastasia, here, em, all of them. It's the same women so why do you want to pay per letter?
Dude if you don't get and write 5 letters pet week you are wasting your time. If you don't get letters back right away you are wasting your time. Imagine dating a woman you only spoke with once every couple weeks? Your not going anywhere. Maybe an occasional date but it's not serious on your side or theirs.
talking to FSU girls or any girl in Europe is cheap. Most of them have Viber or another similar app besides Skype. Smart phone and tablet are affordable. There are actually playing games and had learned this and move to another website.
I disgree with the assertion that girls who say they do no have a computer at home or Internet access are scammers. I have spoken to a number of ladies who have told me this and never asked for money or 'help' to get connected.
I have not received more spam from those who I got email addresses and hardly write to me. My inbox seems constant in terms of advertising mail from the same websites regardless of how many I write to and have or do not have their personal email addresses.
Tom Shea
I have not been feeding into the pay per letter routine. Some with supposed excellent English have rather "high" credit costs to correspond with them. So even though they can write to you in English, they have to go to use an agency computer (that is the explanation given by the site). I guess the only ones who keep responding every day are those that lead you to the translation fee help scenario. So that also would be a waste of time as well even though you are writing nearly every day. In your wife's situation, what type of attention was she receiving on her profile here? I see that some ladies have been on here for many years and only get a few hundred messages while some who are registered for less than one year have thousands of messages. Was your wife a "popular girl" on here or one of the less noticed ones?
Rates to call Ukraine is about 14 cents a minute here (using landline phone). I have videocam to use Skype as well.
Yes wife seeker. They don't ask for money, they may say they can only talk on the pay per letter site where they get paid. Every single one of them has a cell phone and e mail address. There are plenty of free wifi spots everywhere bigger than a village.
I have never used a pay per everything dating site, only monthly subscription sites. The ladies stand to gain nothing from writing to me.
I know I won't use my mobile phone for email, it is expensive to connect to the web and a bloody nuisance for typing etc. If it is not an expensive iphone or similar, you are stuck.
All girls have admitted to having an email address but it does not mean they have a PC at home.
When I moved out of the matrimonial home, I took everything: my PCs, modem, phone and boadband contract, etc. My ex is useless at even organising these things, let alone setting up, and she was left without Internet at home for 18 months until she moved on. Yep, a woman without Internet in the UK.
On the other hand, I once communicated by Skype with a very poor girl (I saw her flat) who had a laptop and broadband at home, but she was asking for money, so that is how she got the gear.
The scammers and free-loaders do not wait long before they tell you that they need to pay the broadband or laptop instalments. Th girls I believe are telling the truth, do not even mention having to pay bills or needing a laptop to talk to me.
If you are subscribing to fiance.com , and unless things have changed, then the ladies/agencies do stand to gain from writing to you, fiance.com pay, or paid, the agencies per letter!
Plus, someone from the agency could be doing all of the writing,,, and they DO want you to visit their fine city, and meet their 100% honest and loyal girls.
Their biggest incentive for writing to men, is to get men to their city. That is the number one motivation. Apartment rentals, interpreter, taxi/shuttle, gifts, and free meals,,,, they will write to a guy and lure him across an ocean for that.
I’ve never been convinced that the agencies don’t translate the letters by hand,,, I’ve seen typos and mistakes that a computer program just would not make.