I just found a lovely named Snezhana, age 19(Again, hehe, what in the world am I thinking... id 21236). She just wrote me, anybody have any contact with her? (please God-NO!! hehe)
I'm 35, she's 28 - I think that's a pretty good age both ways. Any older and having children becomes a problem more so mid 30s, any younger and immmaturity becomes a problem. My ex-ex will be 24 soon, I was with her since she was 19 and she's changed very little, still needing a few years to 'grow up' and when she does, she'll be a rare cracker but parental catholic religion ruined that relationship.
I got married and immediately had a child at age 19. I was a sophomore in college and in no way ready for such responsibility. But I'm willing to have children again and ceertainly would love to have a complete family. And this time I am more fiancially ready.
Indeed, I don't think any of us 'choose' to fall in love, it's one of those things that just happens inexplicably. Age matters not so long as both are comfortable with that as we were. I guess my point is that you can "love" someone but the differences in day to day living together can tell over time, if not with each other then likely family who may not share the same views as in my case. I personally wouldn't go with anyone younger than 24 in my experience, not because I wouldn't be able to love them, but because the requirement to be on as near a wavelength as possible once you see beyond loving someone can be quite difficult to maintain. You'll also find, more so with local girls, that the age difference we're talking about suddenly labels you a "perve" but that's more an attitude as we know of local than FSU.
Each to their own; you're obviously very happy with your situation right now and no-one can fault that. :)
True, (and well, heck ya, maybe I am a perv!!) but time will tell with this new girl. Essentially more correspondence and then the tell tale thing will be a visit. if she acts like she is 19 (in USA 'like', 'OH MY GOD', 'totally' ) hhehe, good bye extremely young , but hot lady LOL
Tim, thats the address I sent it to. If you still havent received it I will try through another email address.
Jeff, 19? nice man =) I bet shes a little hottie, good luck with her!
Since were talking ages here, mines 25 and you know whats funny about it? My most recent ex that I dated for 3 years is exactly 2 weeks older than her, guess I just can't get away from chicks that age...but I guess its ok because what a nice age it is!
My My, hasn't this thread been manic today !! :o))
Jet:
You will have to be careful that your boys don't steal your wife mate :o)))
Especially if they have your charm :o))
Jeff:
This woman (21236) Cannot be serious !! Asking for a man up to 50 for a 19 year old is stretching the limits just a bit too much !! I have to say, and I'm only 40, I wouldn't even dream of starting anything with this lady, I would have declined her right off !! To me it looks like the road to ruin, either your heart or your wallet !!! What the hell could a woman her age and with her looks want with a 50 year old man other than for cash ???
I have had 3 wives so far !!!
First when I was about 21 (she was 19), second when I was 25 (she was 28), and the third when I was 39 (she was 26, turned 27 7 days after we married), no children of my own yet, but I do want them very very much, which is why a younger wife is vital for me. I have a19 year old step son from number 2, hes been mine since he was 3 and we are still close now, even though his Mum and I divorced in 1997. He gave me a lot and I gave him a lot in return, and thanks to Andrew, I know I can be a good Dad :o))
Natasha is 26 by the way, she will be 27 in early June, guess I just like women of 27 -> 27 the best ;o)) Its a good age for a woman to be, both in her mental age and family desire issues :o))
Del`:
I lived with a girl for 2 years between wives 2 and 3, and although she was 2 years older than me in her head she was a dipstick !!
She thought she was street wise and really on the ball, (still does ) but she is deluded, basically she is a total f*ck up !!
Age doesn't always mean a thing, but Russian women do tend to be more mature for their age than our women for sure !
If I was to approach a typical 25 year old in England she would very likely call me a perv while giggling with her mates about it, so yeah there is a huge difference with perception of age when the man approaches a Russian woman !!!
Crash:
I don't envy you your age my friend !! Many of the best bet Russian girls are 24 up, and almost all of the ladies want a man older than they are, and some by at least 5 years !! That leaves you far less scope than us mate !!
I’m young, but I keep rather old-fashioned views over family life and marriage. I think one needs time to make such an important step and this step is to be done once and forever. I believe a man is the head of the home, and woman’s task is to keep the home comfortable and cozy, that is to create all that we believe to be a home. The difference in age doesn’t matter in this case. What is really important for me is the way we feel each other.
Time will tell. I will keep you posted (quit being such a hard head! lol)
I wasnt talking about your 19 year old that you have been writing to for a while mate, I was talking about the one you heard from today !!!
And Im just trying to inject a little calming common sense into you ;o))
Stop you thinking with the little head and let your Big head see the dangers ;o)))
There are 1000`s of young girls on this site I would give my left nut to spend even one night with !! But Im not silly enough to risk losing my life and my house over them !!!
> There are 1000`s of young girls on this site I would give my left nut to spend even one night with !!
what!? I wouldn't :)
...those little boys are not detaching themselves for NO-ONE!
I'll go to the moon and back - no problem - but you leave my n*ts alone unless... ;)
I am with you Tim, much as I would like a 19 year old(what man of 40 wouldn't, why would she be interested in me.
By the way, how does one enter the ladies forum?