I directory sponsor about 110 kids in various ways but our charity supports aprox 200.
we have also 30 in 3 foster homes. Its alot of work and ive learned to buy in bulk!
I've mentioned it before that all my older girls know about the marriage agencies and its
common knowledge that "dating" and letter writing at the PPL Sites is a really good job for a pretty girl. Some of what they have told me was quite a wake up call even to me because these agency girls have gotten really savvy lately
Its not uncommon these days for a girl to sign up to an agency and also have Facebook and VK accounts (they know that you are going to look for them there) and they dont mind going offsite to talk to you because they know you will trust them more. Many of these younger girls now are actually hoping you will visit, will go along with your wishes to use your translator and go by your rules, and wont ask for the shopping sprees or expensive gifts. In fact, this newest internet educated generation of girls knows all your red flags, what you are told to avoid and can play the weaknesses in thier favor.
they know that they can play the "long game" especially because they are young and have plenty of time. The girls told me of some girls they know who have had over a dozen men visit them. They never ask for any significant amounts during the time together but lay the groundwork for a scam that will likely be long term and so gradual that you dont realize or care that you have been scammed.
They will date you and after some time, profess their love for you and want you to return again soon but cant go "all they way" yet until they "know you are serious". Since you "respect" them, you get slowly sucked into falling for thier stories and when they do start asking for money you give it because its only 30-40 bucks every couple weeks or so for seemingly legitimate reasons, need food, phone broke and they use freind's phone for skype until they have new one. They got lots of reasons and if a dozen different guys are all falling for the same tricks, they can quite easily have a few hundred dollars of income a month. I was rather intrigued by this because it makes sense and the "angle of attack " is very much different from the older pro daters wanting to score big with just a couple guys. They play a different game that is just at the level you think is reasonable and since you have hope that your next visit might be your big break with her, you pay. The taxi scams and dinner daters are being replaced by an internet savvy girl who knows how to play on man's nature to get what they want in a fashion that doesnt set off the red flags!
I am healthy, but I like to eat. I just did three sets of pull ups totaling 30 in ten minutes. I run, but not as much as I used to because of bone spurs. I do fine with the ladies in the US. I don't have to go to Ukraine or the Philippines for that.
I also have your picture, Martin. You look like you escaped from an old folks home. Your mouth is closed, but one could wonder if you have teeth. You look like you have 20 years on me. This was at least five years ago. Should I post the link? It is ready on Flickr.
While that question is pending. If anyone wants it, I will send it to you. PM me.
Rick,,, I’ve been saying the same thing for years! People might remember me saying:,,, It doesn’t prove anything, if she does all of the right things. She can meet with you, say all of the right things, not ask for money, doesn’t demand to go shopping, spills the beans on the agencies, leaves the agency for free communications, even sleeping with you doesn’t prove that she is genuine! It’s all a good start, but it does not prove anything! Only TIME will tell!
I know some interpreters that have left the business, because they can not handle the dishonesty.
You know Rick, for the desperate men savvy is not needed. They will pay what/whenever asked, no need to play games. In spite of what you say the new techniques are with young girls, anytime a girl 'asks' for something, that in itself is red flag. No reason to NOT have an enjoyable time with a lady by having dinners, strolls, drinks...... if things don't go as you want there are other girls until you find one that seems more sincere/serious.
The new(old now) is speaking through viber/whatsapp and some on Skype....it all depends on girl, they all have different preferences.
"They will date you and after some time, profess their love for you and want you to return again soon but cant go "all they way" yet until they "know you are serious". Since you "respect" them, you get slowly sucked into falling for their stories and when they do start asking for money you give it because its only 30-40 bucks every couple weeks or so for seemingly legitimate reasons, need food, phone broke and they use friend's phone for skype until they have new one."
This is just another version of the "sugar daddy" scam scenario.
As I said before, I am not here to buy anyone's affection and I am not a tax exempt charity organization. I have more than enough relatives in my own family tree who are looking for handouts.
They told me they have seen a few"repeat offenders". Seeing the same girl with several different
guys and some who have visited her 3 different times over past year. They dont think she is having sex with most of them except 1 and they never stay very long. We looked her up on vk and she has several foriegn men friends of which 3 they recognized from seeing them with her. She never posts anything that could give her up but when she does there is always 10 likes immediately by the same ones. We figured out she has probably had a dozen different visitors with at least 3 being repeat. She dresses rather conservative for 19 but its probably part of her persona and her posts suggest she may be using a religious angle to avoid sex. We haven't yet seen her with any locals so she probably doesn't have a boyfriend (right now anyway) but she is obviously making good money off the poor saps. She probably has learned how to create a fantasy and use it to her advantage.
Just the other day, former President Harding's "mistress" had his love child confirmed according to DNA analysis. So a 50+ year old man gets a 22 year old young woman to spend time with in the Congressional office and later the White House. She was said by her descendants to have always loved him.
BTW, how old are these guys??? The older, the more idiot!! Some people don't see with open eyes...."
30+. I guess you get what you deserve. Let's be honest here, a seemingly desperate 19 year old girl is the dream of many western men. She probably knows this and uses it to her advantage
The troll spray is for you, Martin. When others get cussed at, get their pictures posted by you, and their personal information revealed, they will understand.
The picture, I don't mind. But don't take that as permission to do more. I also have your picture. Boy, the caption I could put.
You only succeeded in revealing your personal information. I thought that was amusing. I only said you were wrong because you were. But go back and look.....you ended up explaining your own personal information.