1) I don't want to bring other people's personal matters into the discussion
2) Therefore I raised the question as a *general* question here.
3) And I still think it is a relevant question.
4) I'm not trying to 'convert' people one way or another - I simply think it is a question people should think about. Before...
Snoring.
The girls' forum has a few remarks about snoring.
Is it good or bad that your bride/bride-to-be knows before the wedding that you snore.?
(only when you fall asleep of course!).
My soon to be ex wife snored like a f****** drain I spent years wearing wax earplugs. It was blessed relief when I took to the couch a year and half ago. Course we totally split in January so it was wonderful to sleep in silent bedroom again. Now, also, the bed isn't full of books, bits of paper, needles (yes needles) assorted cats and everything else but the kitchen sink. It is hard to believe but she was the most scruffy packrat I have ever met in my life. I have great hopes for my future wife from FSU. If we don't need it junk it and definitely don't bring it to bed unless it takes 2 D cells. I just know she will know how to cook, sew, clean and wash clothes properly. I can do and did all these things I don't expect a skivvy just the ability would be nice. 11.5 years together and she never sewed on one button. My mother is spinning in her grave.
Vive le Feminism !!
Toad here is some information or amunition to back your position!
reported today on Cnn headline news In 1960 the average wooman weighed 140.00 ilbs now they weigh 164.something pounds. I think more are wearing mustaches as well just my opinion!
Good point TF
Point, get it?
Anyway the reason there were needles in the bed was because my wife was a very skilled sewer/sticher whatever. She was constantly making these complex robes for kipper dancing. She made them for herself she seemed to have dozens, I think it fell into the same category as Toads Rose list. One for Yule another for hallowe'n, then May Day etc. They were complicated with hoods etc. Trouble is she would make them in the bed with bad eyesight! End result - needles in the bed!! I found one or two. However in all that time, more than a decade, she never sewed a single button on one shirt for me. The word USELESS springs to mind. But I am not bitter (much). Once again Vive Le Feminism. NOT :) :)
Kipper dancing??
My theory - if you get your rocks off dancing around a suspended kipper, naked at midnight best of luck just don't try to get me involved. Unless of course it isn't a kipper but a bag of small frozen cocktail shrimp and I can keep my socks on.
Another thing that nearly made me forget about sex, was the articles about sexually transmitted diseases I found on the Web.
(also mentioned in a posting in "Health").
How does one bring this issue up in a nice and polite way?
Before too much action is taken!
I honestly think that sex on the first meeting doesnt have to do with any the nationality but the girl, the russian gal I dated took me 2 months to get in bed, and for me that almost a life time. I tried a couple of times and she was shocked that I was moving that fast so I backed out,...when the day came though it was without warning, I was caught off gurard for the first time in my life!!!!