I agree!! Car, stairway, nature, beach, teasing in the backseat of the taxi - have fun in the entrance.. lol Now we are talking instincts, spontaneous fun sex!
I agree, and then she stops you because she wants to get married first, and repeats this after you two get home fully entangled, and advises you to have a cold shower.
Yeah, and Snowwhite also live happily ever after - but alone.
This just keeps getting better.
Bagira
It is not that I do or do not support you. I understand your point of view it is just that if you really want to find a man from the west this approach of brutal honesty is going to undermine your chances. Perhaps you are morally right to be so frank but you are cutting down the chance of meeting a nice guy considerably. The same thing applies to the no sex before marriage thing.
Do you go to church twice every Sunday? I hope you do because the only guy who is going to buy this condition is a priest - catholic!
Then you will have competition with him altaring boys. Another big problem. I wish you well.
Being catholic that remark could infuriate someone, it doesn't bother me. One thing I will say about the whole issue of priests and the molestation issue. Follow the money trail. I was an Altar boy for
many years in my youth and my friends that were have discussed this.
Not once were anyone of us approached in a way by any priest that was indecent in any nature or form. But that was also in a day when things were tolerated much less than today. I just wish all child molesters got the same media attention that a priest does. Now they
can live in communities in almost anonymity. A priest is labeled for life. I do not defend the actions of priests that do this, I say rid them all if this is the case. For the many thousands of priests that work in a decent ethical manner, they are now living with the stigma
of what a few have created. I say we should make child molestation a capital offense. It has been proven over and over that a pedaphile cannot be rehabilitated. Our youth and children are our most precious
resource, so to execute a child molester does not cause me any problems with my sleep.
PPLLLEEEAAASSSEEEEE...!!!
This thread is going so strong and entertaining with Bagira's expectations of marriage to a sexless human wallet that I think it would be a sin of biblical proportions (pun intended) to derail it only because someone used a current event affecting someone's church to make a sarcastic analogy.
For the most part, we do a great job here of keeping the religious topics out of other topics.
How about it guys?
Norgie,
Among american women, what you called an 'interesting theory' is a fact of common daily living conditions when you share the same roof with them or plan to.
Simply put, women with low or no sex drive will clutch at anything that helps them rationalize their lack of desire.
Some use religion, so-called morality, fictitious wrongdoings on their partners' part, work related stress...even the weather.
It would be so much easier if they were able to recognize and accept their sexuality level so we could match them to create harmony or leave them alone.
A simply and honest: "Sorry, hombre...I do not like sex that much" would make things so much easier for everyone.
On the other hand, you have the natural urge for physical chemistry needed to create the sexual spark that ignites our latent sexual drive and desires...but if the individual sex drive ain't there to begin with, you can torch the house down trying and nothing is gonna happen anyway.
I play close attention to the signs of potential physical chemistry. The past has taught me important lessons about chemistry....if you combine the wrong human chemicals, you may end up with something very STINKY or even something that can blow up in your face.
I think you are right about the sexual drive of women, and I really agree to the fact that it would be som much easier if they could tell right away how it is... may be present them with some scale like the one underneat, and tell them to set a mark at the right spot.. lol
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BUT... It is also so that you as a man, can make them feel special, and that way make them feel a stronger sexual drive then they might did in the beginning... It takes two to tango..
Sex is important in a relationship, no doubt about it.. The lack of good sex will before or later make one of the parts seek elsewhere I think...
And it is not Norgie.. hehe.. It is Norge! close enough I guess..
"Orge" is too close to 'Orgasm' for comfort, but just how 'close' is at discussion here. But then again you've got Winter now, you simply must be cold :)
And Toad, surely you realize that religion and sex often are combined? 'Leaving the Church before one Sings' is the oldest contraception available to mankind however not very kind to man. On this point, neither to women because they say it hardly is effective, but of course for atheists.
Now I will leave you to clutch Bagira, coz I'm wondering what her response will be ;-)
Take out the head,and the bod follows. I don`t care what woman it is --unless she is a nun. They all have errogenous spots--some have mental buttons that need to be pushed--but if touched the right way-they all melt like butter. Even women who have strict no sex policies like to have their mind caressed,and their tummy rubbed. ( Or just a good old fashioned back rub ) And oral sex is often an alternative option for these ladies who pretend they have no orgasmic desires. Many women who have a no sex policy have low self esteem,or are hiding their sensuality behind a stretch marked butt,or denial of their inner need. Sexual satisfaction is a drug that most healthy people will not deny themselves,and if they do,the body will naturally unleash its flood in the form of nocturnal emission,or an accidental result of the Spice channel. Many sexless women are really dreaming of the spontaneous phuque. Some are married,some are too shy to actively seek out their own urges,and some just put on the puritanical face because of societal pressure which still exists ( not so much in America) in many countries. The sexual revolution is only over because of the AIDS scare that exists today. Still like this forum! Good threads,and lotsa toadlike humor ( I just coined that phrase!) Be well,and enjoy yourselves!!
Please,TD,never have sex on the toilet. As a plumber,I have to repair these toilets,and I cringe to think of these rocking chairs,and what might happen if you slip on some guz and cut your femoral artery because of a porcelain shard. Also be very careful of snapping your braunshweiger between the loose seat and top of toilet bowl--unless it is at McDonalds,and your attorney is Johnny Cockran
Sex.... I think we all have experience in this area.... But to me its all about chemistry.
I have never ever hooked up with a woman that was bad in bed... to me at least... Now I have had some but of course they never lasted, Passion and chemistry is what drives me and maybe most men, Sex does matter to me, if she doesnt want me sexually I dont want her period.. I can allways find one that does... then enters chemistry, something so far I have not learned how it works.. sure there are a ton of theories but who really knows? I have been with some beautiful women that I wouldnt look twice at after having known them biblically, then some plain looking girls I couldnt keep my hands off of ( it was mutal of course or it wouldnt be chemistry ). So maybe one mans trash ( dont take that literally!) is another mans teasure... at least thats what I believe. A girl thats boring to one guy might be completely different with another guy and vice versa.
I think you guys are being a tad hard on bariga... I dont see how she is only looking for a wallet... if you for one moment think that your better financial status is not part of the appeal you posses for allmost all of these ladies then I think you are fooling yourself. Im not saying that they will hook up with ANYONE that has cash... but they may just make that a hidden requirement that the man be able to take care of his family... and why the hell not? Just like you dont want a girl that has been A prostitute... A girl doesnt want A man thats on wellfare. I did not see her say that was her sole requirement.... I think its refreshing to see some honesty, you are basically telling her to lie to succeed! What the hell is that?
Bariga maybe most men would think you were out of line.. Me personally as long as its in the right context ( IE "I want a man that can provide for his family" ) then its A fair requirement..... Asking to be rescued is not a fair requirement... you must have things to give in order to expect to recieve.
considering the big yellow M is also here a quickie there would give new meaning to a Big Mach, Supersized of course. High in caloric burnoff, and cracking porcelain when reaching the high C should facilitate in a wealthy ending because Johnnie Cock was involved.
"Just like you dont want a girl that has been A prostitute"
Says who? She hardly lacks drive, she's capable of genereating her own income, experience comes part & parcel, she combines entrepeneurial business-sense with knowledge of the tricks in the trade, and for sure she gives for what she receives.
Hmm, come to think of it, we all want one .... :)))
A little friedly advice to anyone considering having sex on the toilet in Eastern Europe.
Figure out some way to do it without sitting on top of the closed toilet seat.
Those tops are made out of a ceramic plasticy kind of material - not like the good solid toilet seat tops with the wood core that we have in the U S of A.
Those things crak into pieces when you sit on them with even a 195 lb. butt (mine!).
What was I doing sitting there you ask.... I was....having a naked conversation.
"...some have mental buttons that need to be pushed..."
Spirit,
Granted that women, particularly in the US, come with a wide variety of button and switch boards...heck, some even have Fort Knox class alarm systems built in.
But when it comes to recognizing whether they enjoy sex or not, nothing beats the good old ASK HER method....Now that doesn't mean we should expect to get laid very often if we go out there and throw "Wanna fuck?" questions left and right, should we?
And I flat out disagree that many women with no orgasmic desires would be in the mood to service you with a bj that often.
If they do not enjoy, need, want or feel sexual urges cursing through their bodies why in the world can we expect them to give a flying coitus about ours?
A tad overly pragmatic for some of you, I know...(what's new, uh?)
But I do not get much inspiration for romancing any woman who does not share with me the slightest signs of sexual enjoyment.
easy - on wellfare a man fares well and has oodles of free time. He can do the household chores, put out the rubbish, maintain the garden, cook and look after the small uns whilst she spends the money by shopping and in general entertains herself with her friends. Basically every woman wants one.
But hey, is this not the reason why most of you look East now? Been there done that. Oh yeah, you had a job then also, small diff.
No Spirit,
someone suffering from dyslexia is anorexic, and this is something entirely different from having anorexia and being dyslexic. I'm the former, I can't recognize food I suppose ;-)