One of the contributors at the girls' site mentions that if a man marries a woman who is much younger he will (perhaps) have a nurse to take care of him when he gets old.
Very practical.
But not necessarily very romantic.
Thuis tread was about age difference so I have had an interesting conversation that may interest you. Some one here said that the Russian girl dating an older man was purely for money and a myth otherwise. I have a female friend on ICQ. Just a friend. We had this conversation and she in the past dated a man 15 years her seniour. She has never loved any man so much and she still has a broken heart 5 years after. If you are wondering why they are not together anymore, its because he died in an accident. She also said that in her opionion such things are between these 2 poeple and many Russian girls, her frinds do as they please, not according to what otheres think. I do not say it is 100% but it dose exist.
I say it all the time, when people say that Russian women are looking for older men and 12-18 years is very acceeptable I am told I am generalizing, I think if you are healthy, athletic, and fairly handsome then it is a plus. I'm like fifty and 32 year old women in my area are still attracted to me and I do not think a 27 or 28 year old russian women is out of reach. The one in Moldova is 29, some of these woman are really looking for a decent guy and a loving relationship. There is a big difference between a nice Russian girl a gold digger and a whore?
Now if you are 32 a russian girl 18 years younger than you might be illegal because 14 might be considered a child bride in your country as well so check it out before you go to jail.
Dude get this. 2 weeks ago I got a message from an 18 year old. Then a little over a week later I got a message from a 19 year old. The two looked very similar. Not exact but like they could be related. I looked at the names and they had the same last name. I had to ask so I sent a message to the 18 year old asking and she confirmed it. She swore up and down that she and her sister do not tell each other about who they write to. I found it very funny. The 19 year old was one of the first women to write me when I joined up. She mentioned how it was in style to have foreign men to write to and I kinda dropped it. The age was another HUGE factor. Either she forgot she already wrote me or she was hoping my criteria for a woman has changed. Being with an 18 or 19 year old I'd feel more like I was baby sitting. What could we possibly have in common to build a relationship that is more than just physical? I still don't get what they are thinking. Oh, forgot to mention I'm 32.
Yes, you are normal years old guy 32, but men over 45 have often middle age crisis and thats why they are so excited of meeting 20 years younger girls abroad!
Well the world is not fair!
Women get menopause, and men get to buy big motorbikes and date young chicks!
(well some of them anyway).
-And if a middle-aged man buys and rides the 'right' motorbike it can last the rest of his life!
(however short that might be).
Annika why do you fret your feelings so over older men still attracting young women, If it is the desire of a 48 year old man to start another family with a 28 year old women what do you care. Just because you have some hang up with the age thing you are not typical of the region. For me this started here in the states with a twenty four year old Russian woman faling for me. Some women just like older guys and that is just not in your region of the world but in America as well.
Annika
It is a scientifically proven fact that the middle age crisis you refer to affects only or mostly MARRIED men with wives who are no longer interested in keeping a healthy sex relationship with them and do not keep themselves fit or attractive for the man in their lives that pays the bills for almost everything these women consume.
Leave it to the feminist spin media machine to label menaupause and the galloping, destructive mood swings it brings for women in their 40-50s as nothing more than a harmless "change of life".
But if a healthy, financially stable man in his 40-50s wants to get laid the same spin media has determined that he is having a crisis.
I think I must give you email of my boyfiend who will excplain you in queens english why such relation is self-delusion. And please dont "region" me, Im not slavonic and live in EU country. Im absolutely ordinary and girls date here people in their own age TYPICALLY!
It takes the patience and slowed down sex drive of a man in his mid/upper 60s to be attracted to the raveged rantings of a resentful, frustrated, spiteful, angry and overlooked woman in her 40s.
Annika,
The goal for many, even most of us here is to find a good woman to establish a lifetime family lifestyle living arrangements...er....also known as MARRIAGE.
You are a woman in your 40s living alone or living with children.
You also have a british boyfriend who flies in occasionally for a visit or roll in the sack (sex)
You have never mentioned future marriage proposals or plans for these limey you're so infatuated with.
What in the world makes you think you are TYPICAL among us.
You are not.
Women live longer than men.
And, in the west, men are actually a minority.
So, why are we not a 'protected species' - or something like that - instead of being under attack all the time?