hehe.. At least I stopped the love, love, love.. bla.. bla.. bla.. for a short while... LOL
My g*d I was in a bad mood yesterday..
May be it was wrong use of the forum, may be I should have kept these things to my self.
Or is it wrong to be a little emotional, and tell what your inner feelings is? I guess some times it is easier to tell you guys, and have a honest answer, even if some just can't help being rude and not so helpful. I am usually not this open to strangers, but I felt I could tell you guys, some of you I already see as friends.
There are people in my close circle that is against my search for an FSU woman, I believe they think it is a bit scary that I might find someone that doesn't talk the language. They all want me to be happy, it is not like that, but it isn't so common here yet. Should I tell these people what I feel and think about this? Would I get a straigh and objective answer? NO, I would not, so I used the forum..
Bugira,
I really don't understand what is bugging you, I have tried to be nice to you, but you answer like I was some kind of decease or something, it doesn't hurt me, but I just cannot see any point of being like that, what do you gain from it? Better self-asteem? Well, I am kind and openhearted in this post as well, so come on, fire your best shot :)
Would it be ok if the girl throw me away? You see dear Bag-IRA, that is what my ex actually did by her actions, she took that decision, and even if I was the one moving out, she was the one throwing me away by f*cking someone else. But I guess she is innocent in your eyes.. -since I am such a bad guy...
You see, I am here, to get some impulses, advice, and to do my best helping others. I understand you have been through something that made you bitter and angry at men in common, it is not hard to tell actually. I am happy if I can help you feel better about your own situation, and help rebuilding your self-asteem. If that is my way to help you, let be it.
I was trying to show you opposite point of view. I am really sorry that you have decided that you had stopped love that girl.
I failed to support you.
Some things are obvious for you, guys and you even do not imagine that there are opposite points of view.
What do I, woman, want and do not want from this life:
I want equal relationships.
I do not want to feel surrounded by red flags. I want to trust person. I want to have right for mistake – that does not mean cheating – I would not forgive it also.
I do not want to have ideal person and ideal relationships. I want to have right to lack intuition and telepathy sometimes. And that is OK if he sometimes doing something wrong.
I want to have a person who would love me and I feel that he is a relative soul. I want to be the most important person in his life. Important to the same level as his kids for him now and even more important in the future.
I want to be beautiful – that is why I am skinny - I stave all the time and run every day.
I want to have normal future for me and my kid. I want to get a decent job and be able temporally support person if something goes wrong in his carrier.
I know that even enormous love of one person is not enough for two people.
Franfly speaking, it's quite refreshing watching the bitter bag taking cheap shots at someone else for a change..:))
At least she's being an equal opportunity man hater with everyone.
And no matter what she says or claims, there is no way for her to take anything away from you if you are a happy person.
I think everyone here wishes you get better, Bag...you only have this one life to live and choosing to spend it in emotional misery
is one gigantic waste of a perfectly good life.
I didn't say I lost my love for her, I said I was afraid she was a spoiled brat that could not live a normal life. I said she seem to be more obsessed with material stuff than in the person I am presenting for her. I also said I would not give her up at this moment, but give her a chance to show me she is not like that, by meeting her one more time before I make my mind up. I just told you I was frustrated and needed some advice..
I have all the material stuff, and more to it, but I don't want that to be the reason she likes me, so I haven't told her about it except that I am a normal guy with normal values.
And that is actually also the truth, I am just a hard working normal guy.
"After your posts I think I have become allergic to man."
This is not to show me an opposite view of things....
Bagira :) I am what you FSU women call a "woman-killer" :)) LOL
Nor! Girls in Tallinn are beautiful and spoiled. If you will go to less advanced countries than EU country Estonia its always problems they just want to go out, isnt it? And a question..is your girlfriend estonian citizen for excample?
Bagira...I think every woman must read that site, its teach a lot about men!
All young girls go to pubs and nightclubs. Do you live in small town? Why you look for so young girls...if you havent energy for social life? And is she estonian citizen? Is she student? What is her profession?
First of all I don't look for so young women.. She is 29 I am 38..
I don't want to go too much into what she does for a living, it has to do with the fashion business. I can cope with the social life, that is no problem. You asked if she went out, I said that it was a big part of her life. She is estonian yes, father is Russian mother Estonian, and she lived all her life in Estonia. I don't live in a small town..
Nah, seem to me you're stuck in quicksand. Time for a holiday maybe.
Destination Lugansk, might just be an eye-opener?
SanTaod,
I don't understand why you guys are so against this well-educated, charming and polite Bag. She quite clearly hates anything related to testosterone, exposes herself suffering from a serious estrogen deficiency as well as an inherent lack of sensitivity, and on top of that she leans to schizophrenic, is anorexic as wel as hyperactive.
Or shitscared, whatever comes first. Suit yourself Bag, but Butch would suit you a LOT better. Eat dogfood and play with the hound for all I care, but I just thought someone should serve you some derogative comments you dish out ad infinitum. To sophisticated for you? Then get lost is my kind advice, or try Russian Roulette, I hear it's one-time addictive as well as an ideal way to escape from all of your problems.
I haven't said it is strange that she is going out.. you asked me, I gave you an answer it seem to be a big part of her life actually.. I was expecting a follow up from you, but you got it completely wrong. I haven't been complaining at all, I love to sit in a coffeebar, bar, pub or whatever. I like the urban lifestyle. WHen did I say I was looking for a country girl?? I am not looking for a country girl, but when that is said, I don't think it is something wrong in those girls, I am sure they have values that are some times better, some times not.