Congratulations. It sounds like you have an excellent situation there and I couldn't be happier for you. Some women wat to leave Ukraine. Some don't. Its all an individual situation. I happen to have met two ladies who would love to come to the US to be with me. I can't give all the details of how this worked out, but it wasn't something I anticipated. Just happened. For convenience I will refer to that situation in the sigular form in this and future posts. Until I get it worked out anyway.
If my circumstances permitted I would also love to move to the FSU, but I am not so lucky. I do a variety of things, one of which, of course involves my employment with the US Postal Service. That is particularly nonmobile as unlike UPS, Federal Express, EMS and many others WE, of course, have no foreign offices! Some of what I do can be done entirely on the internet, but given the current economic crisis there is much uncertainty as to whether I could make a go of it exlusively relying on THAT source of income.
I have run all of the particulars past my lady including the uncertainty involved and she responds by thinking it would be best for both of us to live in the US, regardless of the fact that she will miss her family and friends, though that will be quite difficult for her she says.
Each situation is different. Some ladies want to stay in their home countries and some want to leave (despite the declarations in another thread by an opinionated pompous ass).
Quote: "I happen to have met two ladies who would love to come to the US to be with me. I can't give all the details of how this worked out, but it wasn't something I anticipated. Just happened." Meeting women, particularly through your preferred methods, doesn't "Just Happen".
Quote: "For convenience I will refer to that situation in the sigular form". How very convenient. If you learned to spell, you might be able to communicate this “Convenience” to both ladies and I’ve no doubt they would help you “get it worked out”.
YOU began the ragging in general with your blatant attacks on me and several here where you found that we had purchased ANYTHING of value for our ladies in the FSU. You claimed that we were buying our women.
Then you dropped the bomb on us by admitting you were buying YOURS a HOUSE. (Has alchohol maybe cost you your memory?)
You also talk of love and dedication and commitment - and several times you even refered to your lady as your "WIFE". But yet you refuse to marry - a sure indication that if the whim hits you, you can just get up and leave at a moments notice - leaving the house of course as payment for the relationship.
To DungRimming: You are an idiot.
Quote: "You are an idiot."
Quote: "Quote: "You are an idiot.""
Quote: "Quote: "Quote: "You are an idiot."""
Quote: "Quote: "Quote: "Quote: "You are an idiot.""""
Quote: "Quote: "Quote: "Quote: "Quote: "You are an idiot."""""
my last gf was 22 years old, super attractive, I am 41 years old, 25 kg too heavy. It not works. This girl had a good live in Zaporozhye. Last months probably worser :-) These girls are not serious.They not know what they want in live. Yes to know that they want clothes, cosmetics and holidays. It not works. You will get crazy when you really love her. like in my case. Believe me these girls will have a lot of fun with boys from their own age when you are back home and waiting for her. I know a lot of people in the ukriane, european and ukrainian. It is the truth. It is nice to meet such a young girl, to sleep with her. You feel yourself Richard Gere but finally it will give you a lot of problems; finincial or emotional.
JANNE66,
i have not read all the post in this thread but i would like to say that 20 yo girls will never be interested in having a family with a 50 y o man. Right guys she may not ask for gifts and money (she may get it all from other men for instance), but her real intentions are citizenship. simple! all she would need is to live with that man for 5-6 years and gone after it! 2 -3 years of perfect relationship is not a proof! if someone has good examples of the couple with such a big age difference and living happily after she has become the citizen of the us or uk, would be cool to hear abt such:)
It can work many have proved it but 20 years 50 years really pushing the boundaries 27 / 28 / 29 with man 50 / 51 NO PROBLEMS I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS ONCE YOU GET OVER THE 24 / 26 YEARS DIFFERENCE ITS GETTING A BIT HARD .
CITIZENSHIP nooo ! bollicks ! maybe 15 years back that was the case i mean who would to live in a dump like aussie expence USA pommy land --no your digging up old hat stuff 10/ 15 years old - i know many that would never leave FSU.
I MARRIED AGE 43 TO A BIRD 27/ 1/2 in russia !! lived in russia !
30 MONTHS OF BLISS BUT SHE DIED or id still be married now
tell you what
talk about the perfect life we certainly had that you know.
my mate in ukraine 49 his mrs 31
mate lives -in moscow 49 his love married 7 years now she is 31 ( SHE WAS 24 WHEN MARRIED HIM AND HE WAS 39 nobody gave a sh-----t
mate in novgarod norwegian they live russia his wife 29 he is 53 i think .
i could go on all day --------
age difference it aint even a topic of concern unless your like 25/ 26 years difference he will always be older ( unless the weoman wants a moron !) so where you get the difference is she is not of Developed brain you know --not him he's lived he is superiour and he will provide a life 100 times better in all ways that some idiot 23 or 25 years .
god sake who'd want to stroll in street age 50 in FSU WITH SOME OLD BOILER 52 HANGING OFF THE ARM -( AS YOU WALK PAST THE 28 YEAR OLDS ALL SMILING AT YOU !
HUH GREAT WAY TO MAKE A FOOL OF YOURSELF
NO MAN STAYS YOUNG LAYING NEXT TO GRANNY --HELLO GUYS ITS 2008 ITS THE ERA OF ANYTHING GOES
mike00
Friend of mine worked on a deal down in Uzbek. Took several trips there for the term of his contract. 42 years old the guy, ex-para, security consultant…made a lot of money.
Turns out he’d been banging away at a 19 year old the whole time…local government rep he was dealing with fixed him up with her (and a couple of others….he took his pick)…got her pregnant. Instead of running for the hills he brought her back here. …must have been love…dumped his wife and 2 kids….12 years of marriage down the tube.
This girl turns heads everywhere she goes…be a long long time before her looks start to fade….you can just tell.
He’s an idiot…when I see them together all I think about is a clock ticking.
Guy’s round about her like flies round shit…give it a few times too many and she’ll take one of them up on the offer.
Mmm..be interested to see evidence of that.
Pretty sure a girl of 20 with a man of 50 has an ulterior motive.
Its a big deal in UK and USA alright....why do you think that is?
Yes certainly 20 year old students are Not sincere in wanting a 50 year old man.They just want a sugar daddy to pay their student fees.
Army of brides and anastasia is about the worst for these type of profiles
Yes you are right. 98% of these girls from 18 till 22 only wants a sugar daddy. They even give their body for it. So not fall in love with them, give them what you want in the bedroom and disappear.
And not do what I did last summer. Believe that this girl who looks like a model really likes you.
You can forget it. When you are in the airplane on your way back she is probably already calling one of het ukrainian friends to get laid.
But she will always all deny because they are super good liars.
Btw; I am 41, the ladies always think 35. Anna was 21 years old. But it works when you are near here not when you again are in your own country.
UA Girl its possible but only as an exception from the rule. but not everywhere, and not with every woman:) not many women all over the world are ready or willing to marry a guy 30 years older. and there are plenty of reasons why not:)
dont be up in the clouds lady:) or cunning:)
and as i have told above it would be great to hear stories of happy families (25y.o. lady and 50-55 y.o. man) being married for more than the time it takes to get a residence,or for a lady to settle down in the country.
sorry if my posts may offend someone. i dont mean to be rude, od say that its completely impossble, but -mainly its an exception from the rule.
Indeed at 43 my lower limit is really 28 although I'm talking to one girl who is 26 ... Well on one (non pay per letter) site I have this 20 year old after me who sounds really serious but no I it just isn't going to work is it. And there is another who is 25 ...
Have definitely noticed this time around (compared to 6-9 months ago) I'm getting a lot more younger/hotter girls interested, must be the credit crunch reducing the competition.