This Nadja girl replied to me last week after a very long time so I have no idea what to think now. I'm not that worried because it is through Fiance.com and it isn't pay per letter but still I'm not sure what to do. She said she is still very interested in me and I would like to think she is genuine but sometimes it's really hard to tell... especially reading how she ditched some of the other guys on here who wrote to her for awhile.
As for the fact she gets a lot of letters and is on other sites that doesn't necessarily mean she writes to every man who sends a letter to her or to a lot of men. I can't see these women having the time to be able to talk to lots of men anyways. In my experience if a girl doesn't want to write to you she sure as hell won't write to you. :-)
The point is: WHY is she writing to you? WHY is she interested in you? Hard to tell before you meet her in person, I agree with you. Her age parameters would puzzle me, at the very least.
Globus,
I have been writing to Nadja for many months now, unfortunately not on this site. I know now her first few letters were the same to all guys. Her 'cost' on other site has gone up quite a bit because of letters sent to her, like Ms Wow on this site. Don't you think she writes back to most men since she continues to get letters. I know if she did not write back to me I would not send her more letters. Her letters are around once a week which is fine to me. But I will send her a letter from this site and see what happens, since it is 'free' here. I am curious what she will do.
Jet, I volunteer to go since I have inside info...that will be $900..from each of you jet, Globus and even you King!
And anyone else that wants the scoop!
Actually, I am considering asking her about meeting....wonder if she will blow me off like 'bored' but if I was her I would have blown him off too after calling me a 'boris'!!!! :))) LOL LOL
personally i think we can do without all of this stupid name calling and insults like we get from the previous poster. i think we should remember that this forum is here to offer constructive advice and comments like i always adhere to do.
King Arthur: Usually I have to buy lots of gifts and pay for everything before someone will say they love me so I am touched! Your money is coming by Western Union and if one of the numbers is wrong on it and you can't get the money, well it's not my fault! :-))
Beemer: Sometimes I think when a women gets lots of letters it may be just new men who have joined the site sending out intro letters to her but you are also right that it can mean that she is talking to lots of other men. It's just not always so easy to know I think. Maybe you are right and I should just forget the whole thing. After hearing about all of this I definetly do not have much reason to trust her. Lately I'm starting to wonder why I even bother with any of this. Oh well... If you ask her for a personal meeting I would love to hear what her answer would be to you about it.
Seriously - I would be interested in finding out if she blows you off if you propose a meeting.
Any hook-and-line fisherman will tell you that the more lines you have in the water, the better the chance for a bite. She may very well be fishing with all of those letters she receives, and send replies to.
Numbers ARE important IF your game plan happens to be to get a few schmucks to send you money. If these girls can get even say 3 misinformed guys to send her $100 per month, thats a decent income in a lot of these places. It might be very well that she is a "professional letter writer" who may or may-not really look like those pictures. To do that, you have to write a lot of letters to a lot of guys, but hey, it beats getting a real job.
Some of those "girls" will shun the possibility of a meeting, because they're NOT REALLY GIRLS, or at least they don't look like the picture. OTHERS (who actually look like the picture) might welcome a personal meeting, so long as it is timed correctly - as you become one of her paying "sponsors" (it hapens in the FSU all the time).
You are all too wise! I am suspecting also she is an 'other', that very well just likes attention from letters and is not interested in meeting unless it is a 'primo guy'. Not so much scamming. Never talk of money. She doesn't write a whole lot and in specifics. Here is a (tid bit) from last letter:
Albert hello.
Thank you for the nice letter.
What is new??
Here nothing- just boring studies and work.. But it is spring outside, I wish to have free time, to walk, to enjoy the sun and good weather, but.. And such is life..-))....
Thank you for congratulations with women’s day......
Oh, my congratulations with your Mum’s house..
Wish you nice weekends..
Nadya
If she looks like her pics, she is awesome. She reminds me of Catherine Zeta/Jones doesn't she. I told her that in a letter. I write to anothe rin Riga, also, same kind of tone, a student,down, not a lot of life. Maybe she is wanting her knight to come rescue her!!!! What I wouldn't give to be able to read a women's mind........as long as it doesn't drive me to insanity!!!!
I don't think she is a scammer. I say that age parameters like that are suspicious because they suggest that she is NOT loking for ONE man. They suggests she is a professional dater or a gold digger or something like that, and she wants to date as MANY men as possible, no matter their age. That's why numbers are important, in my opinion.
Do you guys REALLY think that a stunner like that can be interested in spending her life with a 58 y.o. man??? Well, if he is VERY wealthy, maybe... We all know about playmates marrying 80+ y.o. men, don't we? It's about LOVE, isn't it?
If you read this thread from the beginning, you will find this girl WAS married to a wealthy man, she was not happy
with that, she is looking for something more, what that is, is the question. Maybe she is just a dater but someone could be lucky and be at the right place at the right time!!
kingarthur:
What you suggest should be made evident by the fact that she is listed with numerous agencies. The age parameter makes little difference. Are you even more aghast when a lady indicates that age is no issue at all? After all - she might then be dating teenagers to octogenarians.
Beemer,
I read this thread from te beginning, but did not remember the first post, I admit. Now I have read it again. Even more doubts, now. Is she real???
jetmba,
no, a lady that does not indicate age limits does not scare me. I interpret this as her being uncomfortable with fixing age parameters, not as her willingness to date teenagers to octogenarians. It makes a difference.
jetmba,
answering a question with another question is a very old rethorical trick not to answer the question. Do you think that a stunner like that can be interested in spending her life with a 58 y.o. man, if it's not about money? Yes or no?
kingarthur:
Sounds to me like a persoanl hang-up you've got on wide parameters for age. If that's the case let this one go - and any lady who's age parameters don't please you. Don't worry about it. There are other fish in the sea.
Some women like tall guys. Some women like short guys. Some women like father figures and there are some decent 58 year olds out there. Its her business if that attracts her - not my business and not YOUR business.
If she was just into money, then agaim why not be willing to be with a filthy rich 60 year old?? Its HER BUSINESS. Suspect anything you want. Ponder it for a while and then MOVE ON!
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