yes they are bad apples and the ualadies.com hotels are very expensive and even more so if you use their Odessa package.
They try to create credibility to their organization by having a video recording of some of the ladies- the ladies are real But as aussieman says the ladies have NO idea who is writing to them .It is all set up to entice men into paying up for one of their expensive visi/tour pakages.
I have been to ua ladies office in Poltava about 6 months ago. I had beeen corresponding with three ladies there and decided to make the leap and meet them, one in particular of course , all 4 confirmed to meet me but when I get there only 2 have the time, and the one that I actually had the most interest and corresponded with the most only had time for a quick dinner. Now I know life can get busy but after all our emails and planning what to do that week i find it interesting that a person whole week would become booked.
Any way we met for dinner. I recognized her right away, and tried to give her a hug. I have been in Artic winds much warmer and receptive than she was. I think, ok watch yourself this is a culture thing. well to make this short, our meeting was a first meeting. She did not know anything about me. She asked where I lived, if I had children, and all the ohter questions that a person should know about someone they had been emailing intensly for 3 months.
So, the date sucked totally and the ua lady confidential connections chap said that she was just nervous and under the weather, and I am like yeah right. So per someones advice here I had searched through some scammer sites and searched this womans name. Turns out she was on another agency in town. The next morning I went there and met with the manager there, and told them I would like to meet this same lady. They made a phone call and wouldnt you know she was free for lunch. She was quite surprised to see me, but she did seem happy to see me. I got right to the point, and asked the reason for the artic blast the night before, and she did not understand. I explained to her the progression of our emails for the last months, and she got quite serious and quiet. She wouldnt answer but agreed to meet that evening.
We had a nice dinner and after the second glass of wine, she made me promise not to say anything to anyone. Turns out she is under contract with CC, as are all the women and if they meet anyone outside CC or discuss CC they will be kicked from the site and face legal action. What action I could not get out of her. She went on to say that she had no idea who I was, and had never received a email from me, or sent me one. So to say the least I am pissed at myself for getting sucked in by cc.
It also turns out that one of the other ladies was also listed on this second agency. The manager called her, and since she spoke enlish i was able to quickly verify that she had a date with me that evening, but was nervous because we had not corresponded. ok, double pissed now:)
fast forward to last week. So this is my third trip now and I havwe met a wonderful woman there. We are spending the entire week together and having a blast. Ok, maybe I need to do trip report,-Anyway I get a call from the agency asking if i would be willing to speak to this guy. I said sure. turns out he went the same roughly the same road as I did. I do not know all his details, but he was there to meet a woman he had been corresponding with for a year. It was his first time to the Ukaine, and boy was he stressed. Turns out his dream girl was happily married for a couple years now and had a child. She knew nothing of him and was surprised about the situation. He had no backup plan and didnt know what to do. I told him he found a good place and to go through the ladies there, meet a few and go home and write to them and get to know them. This guy did not take my advice, and was on the plane home the next day. I understand how he felt. He had fallen for a real woman, but was led down a false email road. He effectively had feelings and emotions for nothing. That is tough.
So, I am a forgiving person, and give the benefit of the doubt, but in this case I must be firm in my opinion:
ua ladies -Confidential Connections is a very good scam, no doubt in my mind. I have no doubt that all the ladies on thier site are real, but they do not receive your letters. They manufacture a very good story to you. So the only thing they may be good for is if you just go there and meet the ladies without emailing them, but then you must not use the site to communicate in the future. You will just waste money. By the way, it will cost you $50 to meet a woman from CC plus translation cost.
Oh, and while I am at it this is not a plug for the other agency, I will do that in another message, but guys always have a BACKUP PLAN.
U a lady or confidential conmen as they should be called , is another organization that carries on regardless in the same corrupt mould as anastasia international.
Yes i used UA ladys to correspond with some "ladies" but after a few checks it became clear that they were in the same scamming league as anastasia agency.
I was in Chernigov from January 18th, 2009 to January 26th, 2009 on a trip by this UAladys agency. The whole experience has been BAD. My original plan was to stay there for two weeks. I have to end up cutting my trip to one week because I cannot stay there any longer!
The whole experience had taught me:
1. Paid correspondences are questionable. Because the agency has the incentive to have the clients keep sending their correspondence, they will fake the letters either on their own discretion or convince the lady to fake the letters. I don¡¯t know who faked the letters they sent me, but sometimes when I mentioned the things in her reply letters, my girl seemed not to remember!
2. We the guys in North America or the Western Countries are not fighting a downhill battle here. The girls here are not in a hurry to marry you! They have plenty of male supplies in their own country. I¡¯ve seen the girls and guys in the clubs in Chernigov. They just want to have another backup! Even the agency is a marriage agency, the girl I correspond to was NOT in a mood to marry!
3. If you do decide to come to meet the lad(ies) despite the letters may be fake, come with a friend who can speak Russian because if you are trapped, you can still safely return to your own country. I was lucky to meet a young driver around my age and knew a little bit of English. He showed me around the city and helped me to leave the country.
You may say I should have corresponded with multiple girls so as to diversify my risk. If I correspond with multiple girls, what I will get is more phony emails sent by I don¡¯t know who. Yes, maybe I will get the chance to meet all of them. But how many of them will act according to what they write in the letters?
Trust the things on this website and do not trust anything on the UAladys website! I was so stupid to believe in the *ought to be genuine* stuff on their website and go there. I can show you the pictures and correspondences with the ladies if you want to know if I really did go there. My email address is liangyq2001@hotmail.com My member ID on their website was 96146.
Calboy......should have read this thread before your escapades in Russia. I personally don't know ualadys.....had not very many problems with anastasia meeting girls. Sometimes you have to weed through many to find a good one. I do the 'multiple girls thing' but do much homework during a short(2-3 month) correspondence, letters are nothing compared to a meeting!!!!!
Remember...this FSU thing is a crap shoot, nothing is guaranteed, if you look at it with negative attitude it will show. Sounds like you put all your eggs in one basket and when things didn't go as you had hoped/expected.....blame the agency/girl. Just consider it a learning experience and leave it at that. If you do try this again( I think it is worth it), have a lot more knowledge so that you can manuver through any situation which arises. Have a great day!!!
Hello Haw, very interesting what you say, but it tell me, already you married with a woman of ualadys? , if your answer is no, I would like to know why no? , I see that you defend much to it, is good if it is certain, for that reason I dare to ask, I thank for much to you
atlasgua, it is stupid to post a comment to a thread that is three years old. this happens somewhat frequently and the stupid person (that be you) never is heard from again.