Bigted> You nailed a lot about what cooks this forum and probably actually have one of the best way to approach this entire scene. Everyone has their favorite theme and EVERYONE on here is a bit defensive. Yet, you have to agree, it's a sensitive topic - finding your wife. And your ABSOLUTELY right about there being ALL SORTS. I have met the sweetest girls you could ever imagine meeting anywhere in the world in the FSU. There are also to world-class innocent-looking girls with hot bods and ice cold psychopathic fire in their veins.
Modus Operandi – (your method of meeting your girl) depends on you actually. The good part about this forum is it does have some brilliant minds that have paid “or wasted” a lot of money and time. So its valuable for that. You’ll get a lot of ideas. Some of these ideas are pathetic, to down right insightful and invaluable. Forums from the old BBS days (pre-Internet) were like this and Alt.Groups of the old-school days of the Internet were even worse...