I have informed you, already, twice, in understandable English, that I want nothing to do with you, i.e. I'll go my way and you go your way, and this is the third time I am informing you similarly.
If you continue with your harassment/stalking of me then I may find it necessary to report you, accordingly, to the Californian Police, you will be easy enough to locate because you are, or were, employed by East Valley Community Health Center.
Now, PLEASE, do not make such action necessary and please refrain from harassing/stalking me.
I am in the same forum you are in. If I am stalking you, you are also stalking me. I do not look for you anywhere else. Do you need my address or phone number? I'll PM it to you.
I am sure people in this forum are tired of people replying to your every post with malice. I am only trying to get to the bottom of this.
Of all the things happening in this forum, Martin is threatening to call the police on me. Go ahead, Martin. I could use a little more excitement until I go to Ukraine again. But, there is no such thing as the California Police. I live in a city called Pomona. There is a Pomona Police.
Muzzy, a psychologist once told me talking to yourself is the best therapy. You think to yourself to come to conclusions. Talking to yourself gives you better conclusions.
I doubt if you'll get anywhere with the Pomona Police Department, Martin. They are more involved with robbery, gangs, murder, drunk driving, domestic violence. But you can try. I made it easy for you. Look them up in the web and give them a call.
I don't know they'll go into the computer unless I threatened you in some way. There is another site for that. Here is the website for internet complaints: http://www.ic3.gov/complaint/default.aspx
Again, I believe you are out of luck. They only ask about crimes of sex, threats, money, computer hacking, copyright and identity theft.
I don't believe web stalking or harrassment as you allege is a crime in America. Perhaps, it is in other places. It is too easy to avoid being stalked by just not responding or not opening the website. Again, you can try.
Thanks for that, Gemini. I already have a gf in Ukraine. I will look into that if this one falls through. I doubt if that will happen, but you never know.
Do you really want to see the forum run with people like Martin again? A guy about to go to FSU comes to the forum to tell his story, and being told his question was dumbass was just the beginning. He was ganged up on. Heaven help you if you were scammed and told your story here. Many times, the scammed person was just here to tell his story and was aware of his mistakes. Until it was found out that he was the victim of the biggest scam, Martin had no mercy with the scammed person. His excuse was he was just trying to help.
Thanks for all the support I'm receiving via PM's guys, whilt it is much appreciated it isn't really necessary, I realised that he was merely posting to be contraversial, his financial situation is in dire straits, probably not in a position to sponsor a K1 visa, he wanted a target to vent his frustrations on, and he tried it on someone, me, who has been around the blocks a few more times than he and could detect what he was up to from 100 metres away.
I'm cracking up reading his most recent post, made at 0759 in the morning (California time), i.e. he wakes up, posts on the forum, and then has his breakfast, i.e. he has nothing else to live for than this forum, this forum comes before breakfast!
I, and my friends, some of them amongst you, continue to ridicule him now, as some of you advise, and I have already told him myself, I'm not going to respond to him any further, as they say ..... men with a small penis try to make up with that deficiency by means of a big mouth ..... never a truer word spoken, and I'd expect the forum monkey to be along anytime now to adopt a new (Filipino) organ grinder.
Talking behind people's backs, Martin? You can't win face to face, so you threaten to call the police. That doesn't work, so you make up stories and imaginary friends.
17 minutes since my post, he's out of work and on this forum during the Californian daytime every day:
http://guestbook.army-of-brides.com/?p=494
Ben (ragingbull77@yahoo.com)
Elena, my situation with my gf is the same. My work and financial situation has gotten worse. She has indicated her willingness to wait for me. Javier if you find someone who you notice delays to get paid, move on. Most women will give you their phone numbers, immediately. From then on, you might not need the website or agency, unless for translating services. Those automated ones from Google or Yahoo is not exact. Also, why spend a lot of time writing. Go visit.
OK. That part WAS true. How old was that post, Martin? It is not true that I am out of work. I work with the computer in front of me.
You are great at changing subjects. What does my financial situation have to do with calling people with genuine problems dumbass? Are you going to continue to piss people off? Who are these people who support you? They are either cowards or do not exist. What is your obsession with penises? Either what I said is true or you did your own study.
I'm sure you can all see it, as he admitted in that post to an 'Elena', he's not in a position to sponsor a K1 visa for for time being, he says his lady has indicated, not said, that she will wait for him, is she's anything more than ugly then she's likely, if she's got any sense, to be writing, dating and/or shagging guys with better prospects than some Filipino medical employee, a womans job if ever there were one, he's mega pissed about this and trying to take his frustrations out on me!
Jealous Martin? She's still waiting for me. I still talk to her almost everyday. I am not a medical employee and I am in a financial position to sponsor a K1. There are other issues, but I am not going to discuss them here. I will let you make them up.
What does my financial situation have to do with calling people with genuine problems dumbass? Are you going to continue to piss people off? Who are these people who support you? They are either cowards or do not exist. What is your obsession with penises? Either what I said is true or you did your own study.
I am continuing this because I know there is at least one person (Martin) who doesn't get it. I have been on this road before with Martin and other also have. We all should be aware of what he is capable of. Martin can do many things. But, it wasn't his fault that the economy turned sour. For him to suggest that I am taking it out on him is ridiculous. It must be a difficult task to be never wrong. Martin will change the subject, call you names, threaten to call the police (that's a new one), then finally dig up some "dirt" on you for the sake of not being wrong.
I have nothing to hide. For the record, I am by education and experience, a senior accountant. I was once in charge of 20 bookkeepers as I consolidated the monthly financials for 20 subsidiaries for Mercury Air Centers, now owned by Allied Capital (Go ahead, Martin. Look them up). 9/11 ended that job for me. I made more money than I ever did in my field in 2007 for East Valley Community Health Center, as Martin dug up. I first visited Ukraine in November of that year. I again went to Ukraine in February of 2008. I got laid off shortly after that. They decided to give my work as extra duties to two people, and the bulk went to a newly hired junior accountant. I have friends that still work there and I hear they are on their third junior accountant.
Accountants have been one of the victims of this economic downturn. Lawyers, are another. It used to be that being a lawyer made you financially secure the rest of your life. I heard many times that being an accountant, I will always have a job. Not so. I have called on some lawyers who are in the process of closing down their practice. Everytime there is a senior accountant opening, there are about 100 other candidates fighting for that position. I think it is a combination of companies now not complying with regulation or there is just not enough money to count.
Even if I fought and got such a position, I would be making less than half of what I used to make. I then would not make enough to get an FSU wife. With the knowledge and support of my gf, I have decided on starting my own business. It has been a struggle. My biggest challenge has been sales. I have seen people in dire need for my services, but unable financially or I have not been persuasive enough to get the deal. It has been a long struggle, but giving up on this would have meant giving up on my FSU gf. Last week, I made more deals than I have made since I started.
My gf has been very supportive. I first told her I would go back to Ukraine in September of 2008. Her words to me has been, "Do not worry, Benochka. I will wait for you." "Do not worry, Benochka. Only you." I am doing my best. This is my third visit and my third FSU prospect. If it doesn't work out, there are other avenues.