Looney" When I said that in about 3/4 of my trips I spend all my time 24/7 with a girl - she meets me at the airport and sees me off at the end - did you think it was a DIFFERENT GIRL EACH TIME? Is that what your dirty little mind thought?
From 2003 to 2007 (except for trip to Latvia) it was the SAME GIRL. A woman finer than any YOU will ever meet and that ANY man would be honored to know as even a friend.
From 2007 to 2009 (except for one trip with the other girl) it was the SAME GIRL. Again another very fine woman 99% of the men in the world would be honored to know or marry.
THIS has been my tendency. But YOU let your wild and stupid imagination run off with you. And somehow I was OBLIGATED to correct you? I don't think so!
And regarding your CONSTANTLY BEING FOOLED by FSU women... have you ever heard the expression "Fool me ONCE, shame on you. Fool me TWICE, shame on ME!" Its means you are supposed to LEARN from your mistakes and you don't seem to be able to.
"He gauges his success by how much sex he is getting,,,,, and then ridicules others for not getting it too!! But what he can’t seem to understand,,, is that the “others” just don’t talk about it!! This is a public forum,,,, how low is it,,, to “kiss and tell” or for him, fuxk and tell????
Then,,, when public opinion turns on him,,,, he backpedals,,, almost denying it??? BS!!!"
Show me where I backpedaled. I'm waiting.
I LED YOU ON with my story about the tall 21 year old blonde in Lugansk - I wanted to see if you were dumb enough to make wild assumptions based on what I DIDN'T SAY, but you IMAGINED. And you were certainly dumb enough to jump all over it - making CRAZY accusations (both you and your hubby "Dumb a") about me sleeping with BOTH women. When I never said I did. (Nor DID I actually do.)
So who is the fool judging success by how much sex? YOU are! I simple said I dated two women in a week. Nothing wrong with that. But you went NUTS with it - like I knew you would.
Lastly: Why did I mention three times that I bought a month of VIP membership on fiance.com? Because frankly Looney you haven't shown me you get things easily.
I mentioned using fiance.com and in another post that I have never paid to open a letter and YOU wrote TWO posts, howling like a chimpanzee, about how that was not possible, accusing me of lying and calling me names. Of course, what I said was VERY possible - even without a "special deal with fiance.com".
You don't seem to be able to figure out simple things - so I must repeat information often.
Pardon me: One last post for now (because Looney isn't very bright).
Its regarding this paragraph again.
""He gauges his success by how much sex he is getting,,,,, and then ridicules others for not getting it too!! But what he can’t seem to understand,,, is that the “others” just don’t talk about it!! This is a public forum,,,, how low is it,,, to “kiss and tell” or for him, fuxk and tell????
Then,,, when public opinion turns on him,,,, he backpedals,,, almost denying it??? BS!!!"
I defy you to find for me anywhere that I wrote I was sleeping anywhere near the number of women one would have to sleep with to make a person a "sex tourist". Go ahead. I will wait.
I NEVER said I slept with hige numbers of women - somewhere long the line YOU just decided that. You have hounded me in post after post - nonstop for WEEKS accusing me of being a sex tourist until I FINALLY had to come out and tell you HEY - I've only been with four women in TEN YEARS!
So much for your assertion that "This is a public forum,,,, how low is it,,, to “kiss and tell” or for him, fuxk and tell???? "
I NEVER said I slept with TONS of women - but to stop YOU continual harrassment (for NOW anyway) I HAD to come out in a public forum and tell you exactly how many women I have been with!!! "How low is it to kiss and tell?"!?!?!!? You tell me how low it is to FORCE someone to correct stupid and insane assumptions from the likes of YOU and your hubby "Dumb a" to finally get you to SHUT UP!
But I don't expect you are bright enough to get this either.
Thanks Moy, kick the boots put my old adidas on and I'm good to go!!! And with that I'll be going, looks to be a getting a little crazy on this forum,...more so than usual.
blu_craze, well if you want a one_nigth_thing like Jet, you should wear a suit, but if you want a real girl with relationships and all the stuff - wear what you wear and don't play reach jerk :)
Rick4Girl: I had never HEARD of an ironing room on each floor of a hotel intil I went to Ukraine. Every hotel has them. Before we could go to dinner one night my Mariupol girl insisted that my shirts be ironed, and when I seemed inept at it (I wasn't acting) she took over and promptly burned a hole though a brand new shirt.
And my Mariupol girl refused to go out with me if I was wearing even NICE athletic shoes. At first she insisted on polished black and had a fit with even brown leather. But in later years brown leather was okay.
I had two suits in my closet when my current girl visited my room. She inspected them thoroughly - they weren't Italian but apparently they met her approval.
I always laugh when American men refuse to wear a suit to a Romance Social - inevitably THOSE are the men who strike out. And if they HAVE suits along - during the second Social they have almost always changed.
The most common excuse I hear is "Hey, I'm a bank executive (or something). I wear suits every day. I refuse to wear one here when I don't have to." As if that makes any sense at all.
Some years ago, I was dining in Moscow with a Ukrainian couple. Referring to people we both knew, I explained that I had only recently come to understand that A was just as crazy as B. [They both looked alright at first; it took me more than a year to see how crazy B was, and longer than that for A.]
The man replied, "They're not crazy, they're mad." I was quite impressed -- though his English wasn't fluent, his distinction of nuance between these words was spot on.
Thing is Jet, they don't know you, you don't know them. I can comfortably say they are just egging you on for a reaction and can care less if they are right or wrong. Its childish, but its human and as I have said for many many many years most of us are sheep. I myself included though I am doing my damnedest to break away from that mold. Meditation helps a great deal if you are serious about and research has shown nothing but good benefits of using it even though they do not knowing the reasons behind it. Maybe a placebo effect maybe something more, but it does work, as does prayer no matter what religion you are or none at all. The question is do you believe in scientific evidence as a physically reality or accept scientific evidence as a accumulation of shared experiences of a global nature, without any of the parties having knowledge of each other yet all experiencing the same thing?
blue_craze: In all honesty I think Looney is more confused than vindictive. Somehow he latched onto the idea that if I was going to Ukraine 20 or 25 times - I must be hooking up with dozens or hundreds of women - and that I was "wrecking them" by using them sexually. I have dated a lot and I have had great times - and somehow that got into his head and translated to "sex tourism" for him. Everytime I told him about an experience it simply reenforced this idea that I must have SCREWED the girl I met (WITHOUT me ever saying that) until I (hopefully) brought him back to some semblance of reality, by giving him a COUNT.
I PROVED this theory (about his confusion) by telling him about the Lugansk woman I dated, then cancelled a date with - so that I could dates somebody else. He jumped all over it as if to assume that I was talking about having sex with both these women, when I said nothing of the kind. He just ASSUMED.
"Dumb a" is something else again. Of course his game is an attempt to egg me on. Thats obvious. A guy who thinks he is clever - he just rants and raves - while making little sense. He's not confused. He is just incredibly vindictive and jealous of anyone who has ever had more success than he has (which would include just about everybody). He's the nut who would have a temper tantrum at HIS house, ranting and raving, if YOU bought a new car - because HE doesn't have one. He is simply canned jealousy which is why I seldom even read his posts.
blue_craze: I am having absolutely no trouble at all finding inner peace. My religious beliefs are well established (To me and BY me) and are not in need of guidance by you in any regard.
Reality exists BECAUSE of consciousness - the Heisenberg Uncertainty Prinicipal of Quantum Mechanics supports that - prayer IS a form of meditation and both are important.
Don't let the fact that I had an internet forum battle against two Yahoo's suggest I am having a theological crisis.
At the risk of sounding VERY Politically Incorrect - its been said that: "Winning an argument on the internet is a little like winning at Special Olympics. While you might have won - you are still retarded." I always apply that little idea whenever I consider taking an internet argument too seriously. And while I may have written a lot of posts - I assure you that in the grand scheme of things - I have not taken this very seriously.
Einstein said "Reality is an illusion, albeit a very persistant one."
Guys - I have been writing here in this forum for a long time. Of course NOBODY here exists in my day to day life, or in general, until I meet them in person. Until then everybody is simply digital letters on a computer screen. The girls that someone else might have dated, to me, exist only is vague description. The girls that I have dated, are known but to me and the descriptions shouldn't matter to anyone else.
I am fully aware of all of that.
But HAVING written here for nearly ten years - I have a digital legacy. As legacies go it is almost laughably unimportant - but nevertheless it is a ten year old legacy, that I have added to in varying amounts for the ten years since I have started. I have known many of YOU (ONLY digitally) for varying lengths of time. While I hope to meet a few of you in person some days (for ragingbull's benefit I will stipulate that I by NO means, mean ALL the people here), we may never meet. Who knows? Our communication may never be more than this.
And for reasons important only to ME it bothers me when that legacy, however unimportant in the grand scheme of things, is trashed. THATS why I defended it.
jetmba wrote: " For the next 21 years I met my obligations, knowing full well that this person, my spouse, was not the one for me."
yup, did that for 18 years myself. Although my ex is remarried 2 years now, she is still insanely jealous of anything I do and has probably
had several aneurysms and cows when my kids have mentioned the young 20 somethings that have stayed with me over the past few years.
I could care less, my kids have everything their hearts desire and want for nothing. They dont care who I end up with as long as Im happy and she gets
along with them. They dont need a mother, they already have one so if "step-mom" is only a few years older then no big deal.
Most guys looking abroad for a girl have been married once already. Hopefully they have learned from their mistakes and will apply those lessons next time.
If I marry a 22 year old girl its because, despite the age difference, we connect and have harmony and its our decision. Very few can even get to where I am
now. 90% fail even with only a 10 year gap. I still say the biggest reason for most guy's failure is they dont learn the language, the customs, traditions and lifestyle. Secondly, they simply dont put in the time. I still say if you cant spend a significant amount of time in her country living life as she does and truly working to develop a real relationship then its not going to work most of the time. are there exceptions? yes, but they are rare.
You guys who only come once or twice per year with your lists of ladies will fail 99% of the time.
If you come to Ukraine seeking to westernize a girl will fail 99% of the time.
Jetmba, you are an out of control lunatic!!!!! You talk about a legacy,,,, it’s the legacy of a lunatic,,,,, today, yesterday, last year and many years before!!! A LUNATIC!!!!
Durak has been trying to help you!! How do I know this?? Because he tried to help me too, in the battle with danny years ago. I too, was bothered that they were only asking Rb and I ,,, and not danny to stop. Danny ridiculed me constantly,,, said the most awful things about me AND Ukrainian women,,, and they are/were asking me to stop?????
The worst thing that has happened to me on this forum,,, is that I have come down to his (danny‘s) level and I am now considered to be on the same level as danny?!! That IS the worst insult anyone could get!! And you defend danny, and have become ten times worse than danny!!!!
Have you looked at your posts lately???? How many posts did you make today?? 10,15,20 ?? And how many names and insults in each,,,, and you don’t know why people are saying things about you???
Durak is trying to keep you out of a padded room, a hospital room, or a jail cell!!
Jetmba, I’m not confused about anything. I was NOT fooled by your misleading story. I think everybody knows that the girl needs to be in your room, or nearby for sex!!
You said that you measure your success by the meaningful relationships you have?? You find a girl “willing” to jump into bed on a first date,,,, then make plans for Friday,,,, but you can’t wait until Friday,,, so you need to find another?? What the hell is meaningful about that??? That is why I call you a sex tourist!!! You keep shopping for another!!!
I know you are not sleeping with a new girl on every trip,,,, even though you wanted everyone to think so! Out of the 4 girls you “had” I believe you have met with only 2 several times?? Out of your 20 to 25 trips,,, you only have/had 4 meaningful relationships,,, and you call that successful???
I read somewhere,,, (I couldn’t find it today,,, some A-hole keeps spamming the forum) that you start each trip with the intent of looking for a wife,,, but usually end up calling an old/young ex?? I thought you were such a great people person?? You say I’m everything bad,,, but you are so good?? YOU ARE A LUNATIC!!!
Found it,, durak posted it!
“When in October, I read your words, “"In each of my recent trips - I have started with a single goal in mind of finding the one to marry,"“ and then read how things had actually played out for you, I thought of my personal experience.”
So,, you are NOT just looking for meaningful relationships without marriage??? But you are still single after 20 to 25 trips??? And you are calling me a loser????
That 6 to 8 hour conversation with the woman next to me was not meant to be a success story, but to show that I get along just fine with women.
Constantly getting scammed??? No, Juntmba! Other than making the trip each year, I haven’t been scammed very much. That one girl who received the ear rings, also got a lot more the next year,, everyone here knows that. Other than her,,, one necklace, a bag full of personal products, and another girl got two bags of groceries!! That’s it. I haven’t had a problem with any of it. Oh,,, and Yes,,, the necklace did cost more than 5 to 9 USD!!!!
About my marriage,,,, do you think I was taken to the cleaners??? Do you know how much she got out of me???? Zero!!! I had a pre-nup!! She got zero!
I don’t like the agency letter system. I haven’t written a letter on a PPL site for over two,,, maybe 3 years, I haven’t written a letter to a new girl in over two years! I wrote a couple of letters on free sites,,, and only found pro daters or pro vacationers! That link you sent to me for fotolove or whatever,,, was a real joke!!!! If you think that you are finding honest, sincere women on that site,,,, then you are 100% delusional!!!!!
Smart a is 100% right about you!! And because I agree with him,,, somebody is backing up his claims about you,,, is the REAL reason you have launched this attack on me!!!
You called both of us every fuxking name you can think of,,, said every insult you can think of,,,,,,,, and we are trashing your image???
You trashed your own image and dug yourself the biggest hole imaginable,,,,, so why don’t you just crawl into it??!!!!!
" Guys - I have been writing here in this forum for a long time. "
Yep!...And you have pissed off a large number of people with your ' up your arse ' attitude.
" But HAVING written here for nearly ten years. "
Yep again!...And you will be here in the next ten years...
A digital legacy?
No!..But you should, after 10 years chasing young slurries in Russia/Ukraine and others, you should be fluent in their langauge.
You should know like the back of your hand ( after 10 years roadrunnin', howling at the full Moon ) the Hotels, Motels, Apartments, Cafe's, Restaurants, Taxi's ( including the names of the Taxi Drivers ), Karaoke Bars, sleezy Red Light Districts full of drug up/ fucked up, young slurries, etc, etc...
Some Say................
That jetmba. coyote was contacted by an Online Hardware Business, that, had to politely informed jetmba, that ' ScrewFix ' was not an online Dating Agency.