So you are actually saying American women are fat??
You know, you can read this scale telling about idealweight and so on.. If you are this and that tall, you have to weigh this and that to be within the ideal...
What if the weight actually are ideal??
May be american women just are too short??
May be they should have been a meter or two taller??
Maybe they should just get the god damn fork out of their mouths.
I had a client who told me he didn't mind knowing his wife was eating her way into a second family budget because "It's just about the only times I don't get to hear giving me shit."
And for those of you who have only recently made an acquaintance with my obnoxious anti-american female rantings please understand that until last year, I have given these bitches 26 years of my life trying build loyal, productive and loving relationships.
NO more.
I have no guarantees that things will work out with my Lena from Siberia...but even if it doesn't, no american woman will ever get her self serving, manupilating, male castrating, sassy, fat claws on this toad.
Bagira,
How old are you?
And why are you interested in my woman?
Your feelings are appreciated but respectfully ignored.
Neither Lena nor I have any use or need for false sympathy such as yours. I hope you get better.
Go on now....There is a sexless walking wallet somewhere out there in cyberland waiting for you to fleece it.
Don't waste your time with the likes of me, Bag.
I think I like your 5% method Toad. After all--we should be directly honest-even about our desires. Hell,if I thought it would be 2 % successful,I would just pose the willyawillyawouldyafuckme question to all women. I was talking about giving not getting. And I have this strange theory that women who do not put out still like to be given their carnal pleasure( sometimes lightly )....just my own experience with Nebraska/South Carolina/ Arizona/California/Washington/Wyoming girls. Maybe F.S.U. women do not like letting go to this technique of lovemaking--I really do not know--but I think that in general-getting inside a woman`s intimacy means also getting close to her sexually- if you are appealing to her emotionality or if it`s spooning her on the second date while you nap together. I am speaking from my own multi-layered western american experience--but this is why I look to the rest of you for wisdom and witty banter. One thing I have learned from this forum and the "quest" is that being sincerely interested in more than just `her` ie,her family, country,history,and economics, culture---shines of sincerity and interest in her. This is for a woman, feeling she is " being listened to and heard". I know--John Gray mumbo-jumbo.Compadres,I leave with a small question. I should know the answer to this,so I guess I am looking for confirmation. I have been writing to and receiving over 30 correspondences from a woman. It has been about 3 months. At the end of her last letter ( # 33 or so),she wrote to me statistics,and industrial/recreational facts from her city. Do you think I should take this as a subtle invitation to go there? Somehow I got so stuck on the thought of moscow or kiev that I did not consider moldova. This is truly more exciting sounding to me,and I am going to research more before deciding. Thanks
Spirit
3 months and only 33 emails? I have 3.5 months and about 200 letters. Not including regular mail, cards, electronic cards and phone calls. I would get cracking with this one or you are going to die of old age wooing her. :)))
Hello all,
Please let me comment to all you on finding a true love if I may. You may find this story very interesting. I have found my lady and am very happy with her and her with me. We are going to meet one more time in Prague we think and then we wil start to get her visa after our next time together. I can now say from a actual happening that many of the ladies are truly looking for a wonderful family and the love of there life, not for some rich guy to be there sugar daddy. I say this because the lady I have met was not at all interested in money. I can tell you that many of these ladies have a lot of pride and would never ask anyone to send them money for anything and will not take money even if you try to give it to them. As for my lady, when we decided to meet in Kiev, she had to take a bus there to meet me, and she would not let me even send her or pay for her bus trip. She was at the airport some 3 hours before I got there and was waiting for me with a wonderful smile after I came through customs. We had a wonderful time and now feel even closer then in the letters we had written for many months. Even as we went shopping she would not let me buy her anything, just would tell me that she is happy to be with me and that was all she wanted. I know we had already decided we wanted to be together before we met but I must say that many of the ladies have a great deal of pride and will not ask ever for money if they are truly interested in you. Even as I was getting ready to leave I wanted to give her some money for her internet as I know it is very expencive for them. I tryed to give her $200.00 and she would not take it and even got very mad at me that I would even think of wanting to pay her. She would not even let me buy her a ticket back home on the bus.
So men out there my advice to you is this. First do not look for a beautiful face and body, look for a lady that truly meets what you want in a wife and a life long lover. Do not worry about age, looks or anything else, look for a true compatable mate. Read profiles and ask questions, and not questions like how do you look in a swimming suit. Come on guys, ask real questions you would ask if you had to pick a lady and never see her. Make all your choice from what she wants and answers to you.
Now I know what you are all thinking, this guy got some older so so looking lady to fall in love with him. Not true guys!! I am 53 years old and very average looking and I can tell you I would never had even had a chance to talk to a lady here in the US as beautiful as my Sveta is, but I was honest and looked for a lady I truly felt I good be happy with , and i also look at her profile and looked for who I thought would be happy with me and I could make happy. I did write to many ladies that is true. But I found a profile that I felt we truly would be happy together, and so I did not think about age or looks and I wrote her. Yes guys she did happen to be much younger then I am and she was beautiful I will admit that. But I received a letter from My Sveta shortly after i wrote her, and she told me that I was the first person that wrote her about things she really was looking for and interested in, and she felkt I acually looked at her and not her picture. Anyway we got along very well and in a few months she removed her profile and told me she had found the person she had been looking for and I was him and would I come to see her so we could decide we really wer good for each other. Now of course I am sure you all wonder what I now have for a lady. Well guys let me tell you I only would have dreamed someone as young, beautiful and as wonderful would ever want me. Sveta is 32 years old, 5 feet 3 inches 112 pounds, blue eyes that would melt you soul. I mean this lady could get a job as a model or a movie star with no problem. I mean she is a real knock out any man would want to be with. I am a very lucky guy I will tell you. I mean this lady got more looks at the airport before we left, I felt as though I was with some model. Oh I am sure many people would say what is she doing with me, or is that my daughter, but who cares we are very happy. I know that maybe it is rare that our age difference is so much, but it does happen, and you can find a lovely lady if you look for her from inside and not just her outside appearence. Be yourself and always be honest, send her your pictures at your best and at your worst. Then you will find a lasting love.
Well anyway my feelings on how you should look for a wonderful partner. Hope it will help some of you.
Hello all,
Please let me comment to all you on finding a true love if I may. You may find this story very interesting. I have found my lady and am very happy with her and her with me. We are going to meet one more time in Prague we think and then we wil start to get her visa after our next time together. I can now say from a actual happening that many of the ladies are truly looking for a wonderful family and the love of there life, not for some rich guy to be there sugar daddy. I say this because the lady I have met was not at all interested in money. I can tell you that many of these ladies have a lot of pride and would never ask anyone to send them money for anything and will not take money even if you try to give it to them. As for my lady, when we decided to meet in Kiev, she had to take a bus there to meet me, and she would not let me even send her or pay for her bus trip. She was at the airport some 3 hours before I got there and was waiting for me with a wonderful smile after I came through customs. We had a wonderful time and now feel even closer then in the letters we had written for many months. Even as we went shopping she would not let me buy her anything, just would tell me that she is happy to be with me and that was all she wanted. I know we had already decided we wanted to be together before we met but I must say that many of the ladies have a great deal of pride and will not ask ever for money if they are truly interested in you. Even as I was getting ready to leave I wanted to give her some money for her internet as I know it is very expencive for them. I tryed to give her $200.00 and she would not take it and even got very mad at me that I would even think of wanting to pay her. She would not even let me buy her a ticket back home on the bus.
So men out there my advice to you is this. First do not look for a beautiful face and body, look for a lady that truly meets what you want in a wife and a life long lover. Do not worry about age, looks or anything else, look for a true compatable mate. Read profiles and ask questions, and not questions like how do you look in a swimming suit. Come on guys, ask real questions you would ask if you had to pick a lady and never see her. Make all your choice from what she wants and answers to you.
Now I know what you are all thinking, this guy got some older so so looking lady to fall in love with him. Not true guys!! I am 53 years old and very average looking and I can tell you I would never had even had a chance to talk to a lady here in the US as beautiful as my Sveta is, but I was honest and looked for a lady I truly felt I good be happy with , and i also look at her profile and looked for who I thought would be happy with me and I could make happy. I did write to many ladies that is true. But I found a profile that I felt we truly would be happy together, and so I did not think about age or looks and I wrote her. Yes guys she did happen to be much younger then I am and she was beautiful I will admit that. But I received a letter from My Sveta shortly after i wrote her, and she told me that I was the first person that wrote her about things she really was looking for and interested in, and she felkt I acually looked at her and not her picture. Anyway we got along very well and in a few months she removed her profile and told me she had found the person she had been looking for and I was him and would I come to see her so we could decide we really wer good for each other. Now of course I am sure you all wonder what I now have for a lady. Well guys let me tell you I only would have dreamed someone as young, beautiful and as wonderful would ever want me. Sveta is 32 years old, 5 feet 3 inches 112 pounds, blue eyes that would melt you soul. I mean this lady could get a job as a model or a movie star with no problem. I mean she is a real knock out any man would want to be with. I am a very lucky guy I will tell you. I mean this lady got more looks at the airport before we left, I felt as though I was with some model. Oh I am sure many people would say what is she doing with me, or is that my daughter, but who cares we are very happy. I know that maybe it is rare that our age difference is so much, but it does happen, and you can find a lovely lady if you look for her from inside and not just her outside appearence. Be yourself and always be honest, send her your pictures at your best and at your worst. Then you will find a lasting love.
Well anyway my feelings on how you should look for a wonderful partner. Hope it will help some of you.
Hello all,
Please let me comment to all you on finding a true love if I may. You may find this story very interesting. I have found my lady and am very happy with her and her with me. We are going to meet one more time in Prague we think and then we wil start to get her visa after our next time together. I can now say from a actual happening that many of the ladies are truly looking for a wonderful family and the love of there life, not for some rich guy to be there sugar daddy. I say this because the lady I have met was not at all interested in money. I can tell you that many of these ladies have a lot of pride and would never ask anyone to send them money for anything and will not take money even if you try to give it to them. As for my lady, when we decided to meet in Kiev, she had to take a bus there to meet me, and she would not let me even send her or pay for her bus trip. She was at the airport some 3 hours before I got there and was waiting for me with a wonderful smile after I came through customs. We had a wonderful time and now feel even closer then in the letters we had written for many months. Even as we went shopping she would not let me buy her anything, just would tell me that she is happy to be with me and that was all she wanted. I know we had already decided we wanted to be together before we met but I must say that many of the ladies have a great deal of pride and will not ask ever for money if they are truly interested in you. Even as I was getting ready to leave I wanted to give her some money for her internet as I know it is very expencive for them. I tryed to give her $200.00 and she would not take it and even got very mad at me that I would even think of wanting to pay her. She would not even let me buy her a ticket back home on the bus.
So men out there my advice to you is this. First do not look for a beautiful face and body, look for a lady that truly meets what you want in a wife and a life long lover. Do not worry about age, looks or anything else, look for a true compatable mate. Read profiles and ask questions, and not questions like how do you look in a swimming suit. Come on guys, ask real questions you would ask if you had to pick a lady and never see her. Make all your choice from what she wants and answers to you.
Now I know what you are all thinking, this guy got some older so so looking lady to fall in love with him. Not true guys!! I am 53 years old and very average looking and I can tell you I would never had even had a chance to talk to a lady here in the US as beautiful as my Sveta is, but I was honest and looked for a lady I truly felt I good be happy with , and i also look at her profile and looked for who I thought would be happy with me and I could make happy. I did write to many ladies that is true. But I found a profile that I felt we truly would be happy together, and so I did not think about age or looks and I wrote her. Yes guys she did happen to be much younger then I am and she was beautiful I will admit that. But I received a letter from My Sveta shortly after i wrote her, and she told me that I was the first person that wrote her about things she really was looking for and interested in, and she felkt I acually looked at her and not her picture. Anyway we got along very well and in a few months she removed her profile and told me she had found the person she had been looking for and I was him and would I come to see her so we could decide we really wer good for each other. Now of course I am sure you all wonder what I now have for a lady. Well guys let me tell you I only would have dreamed someone as young, beautiful and as wonderful would ever want me. Sveta is 32 years old, 5 feet 3 inches 112 pounds, blue eyes that would melt you soul. I mean this lady could get a job as a model or a movie star with no problem. I mean she is a real knock out any man would want to be with. I am a very lucky guy I will tell you. I mean this lady got more looks at the airport before we left, I felt as though I was with some model. Oh I am sure many people would say what is she doing with me, or is that my daughter, but who cares we are very happy. I know that maybe it is rare that our age difference is so much, but it does happen, and you can find a lovely lady if you look for her from inside and not just her outside appearence. Be yourself and always be honest, send her your pictures at your best and at your worst. Then you will find a lasting love.
Well anyway my feelings on how you should look for a wonderful partner. Hope it will help some of you.
I will try to explain you what it means love for many Russian woman. I will try to explain you slowly and with very simple language but I am stilt afraid that it is overcomplicated for you.
I repeat: You never love in your life and lack the capability to love person or to be loved by someone.
To love means always want that this person will be in your life not matter of his small inconformity to your “prince ideal”. At the same time it is very demanded feeling. You feel that you can always rely on this person in difficult situation.
(I think I need to repeat it for Toad more slowly and in more simple language – that does not mean money).
Your attitude to woman is only: “If something will go wrong (even a little bit) I will through her away”. It is always surprise for you that then woman love she naïve expect and demand something from you. You never tried to understand women.
WTF????
A bit slower, Bagira, please.
That's just too fast and complicated for me...:))
I seriously doubt you have even the lowest level of qualifications to anaylze what my attitude towards women are...specially the type of women with whom I have had serious relationship[s with in my country, which are the ones I usually rant about, anyway.
I have thrown relationships out the window and I have been dumped like a bad habit, as well...but without exception all my exs give me credit for having tried to resolve our problems even harder than they did.
And, Bag...if you're serious about building a serious relationship with a man from this country, accept once and for all that sex and money are two of the most important reasons why couples succeed or fail.
Find someone compatible to your own chosen set of values instead of fighting with men like me who do not agree with your sexless materialistic demands.
what you're doing here is counter-productive, no man worth his salt is ever going to follow your lead, specially if it leads to sexual repression, disatisfaction and unfullfilment.