thanks for the answers!!! but I think that love it's the feeling which you can't explain!!! you know that many men 50-55 y.o. like girls about 20!!! and now I think that guys about the samr age are stupid!!! they don't care about family!!! young girls try to find care and love!!! the want to be save!!!! we live in a new age with new rules and laws!!!! I think that love can be!!!!!
Hey UA Girl....what about guys their 70's....are they stupid too??? ;-)))
Bassuk...Did you consider changing your what u are looking for? Other than the age thing. I don't worry about age so much, it is more of feeling you get in communications. When I first started,
I was not looking for girl with child, now last couple girls I am interested in have small kids.
One very nice girl I met on last trip was only 22 but in every other sense was in her 30's. I decided to focus on one area( actually 2) made many friends in those areas, so my trips ened up seeing women I write to and hanging out with friends, which in turn, meeting local girls which
don't look at me as foriegner or older man, just as friends...nothing better than to be personally
introduced. This happened many times on my trip in Chisinau.
The number of ukranian couples married in July-September of the current year exceeds twice the number of couples married in April-June.
According to the Ministry of Justice of Ukraine, referring to the data of registry offices, more than 106 thousand couples got married in Ukraine during July-September, while only 48 thousand couples got married during April-June of 2008.
On the whole, the ratio of divorces to marriages made up 36% in the third quarter of the year 2008.
It turns out that older men chasing younger women contributes to human longevity and the survival of the species, according to new findings by researchers at Stanford and the University of California-Santa Barbara.
Evolutionary theory says that individuals should die of old age when their reproductive lives are complete, generally by age 55 in humans, according to demographer Cedric Puleston, a doctoral candidate in biological sciences at Stanford. But the fatherhood of a small number of older men is enough to postpone the date with death because natural selection fights life-shortening mutations until the species is finished reproducing.
Well... I have to say that age does not matter!!! Is 15 years difference ok? 20 is not? Why not? I can't believe that some guys actually have the magic number for success in a relationship. It is completely stupid to think that a certain number of years will decide how a relationship develops. It is all about a connection between two people, period! Did you guys hear of Picasso? He was dating a girl in her 20's when he was 70!? He always dated younger women because he liked to paint them nude. What did the girls see in him??? He was bald and ugly but he had passion!!!
true 'gib'. the 13 year age difference between me and olya never came up, except for inside my head at the start! i do have a friend here in her early 20's though who's husband is over 20 years older, and it is causing some issues. she wants to go out and party when he wants to stay in and drink! so i guess it's not really the actual age difference, but much more about common interests, etc. /pete
UA girl....well my health is excellent, so maybe I am just wise.......but I can get pretty
crazy!! Especially with a pretty girl nearby.... ;-))))))) Age is merely a number to remind you what year you began life........certainly NOT when you will end it.......
The spelling is "спасибо" You would think it would be "spa-see-bo" But I mostly hear is pronounced like Beemer
"spa-see-bah" My teacher says it is a matter of what region you come from as there are many words where "o" is pronounced "ah"
Either way is supposed to be O.K. but you guys have spent time there, you have heard it used more than me so let me know if I'm off on this.
texasdude... "spa-see-bah" is how i always here it, and how olya has taught me to say it! lol. but the "spa" is something inbetween "spar" and "spy" /pete
From what I have learned of russian vowels is the 'backward N' in russian is similar to the sound of long 'i' in english and the 'O' in russian most times sounds like 'ah' in the word F(a)ther. The 'O' also has the sound as long 'o' in english but that is another set of rules based on where it is in word and where accent on word is....don't want to bore you anymore........
Another word is 'pazhalsta'...kind of goes with 'spaciba'!!!!!
ah... yep... it's polite to say 'pazhalsta' (or however it is spelt!) whenever anyone says thanks to you!
the backward 'N' sounds right inbetween 'i' in 'fish' and 'ee' in 'been'. olya can't really tell the different between those two sounds. ukrainian does have a kind of 'i', but i'm not sure how that sounds... the same as the backwards 'N'?
...a few minutes passes...
ok... i've just asked olya and... in ukrainian the backwards 'N' is more like 'oy' (but i really can't pronounce it properly, it sounds very strange to me!) and the kind of 'i' is more like 'yee'!
as for the 'o', all i know is that in her name, olya, it sounds like 'or'. 'olya' sounds like or-lyar, where the 'l' and 'y' are kind of soft (like her! lol).
i am 44 and I have been with two russians who were 21 and 24. With one the sex was great and with the other, not so great, but she tried. I also have a Ukrainian friend who lives in the US and she says to me, as a friend, that the age difference doesnt matter, especially if you are in shape and a nice person. Money also helps. But it helps in America too...
Well as I tired of repeating ... yes they may say its no big deal when they are 24 and your 44, but the equation changes somewhat when they are still a very presentable 40 and you're a well past it 60 and it can only get worse from there on in. As I said in another post I've got gorls in thier early 20's interested in me on various sites and they all swear blind it doesnt matter to them, thing is I believe them, I just dont believe they will feel the same way in 10,15,20 years or whatever. To be honest these young FSU girls have zero ability to seriously comtemplate the long term future, I just dont think thier minds work that way.
The point is that the chances are about 50% that whoever you marry you will be divorced in 10 - 15 years. May as well get a nice young girl vs an old boiler. I did! I cant gaurantee success or failure, I am going to enjoy it as much as I can as long as Im able.
There is a saying "you are only as old as the woman you feel".
We older guys can find younger ladies in FSU when we have bugger all chance in our home countries. Thats why we go. Duh!