The thing is, today - I just received the most personalized, sincere (sounding) introduction letter I have ever received. Short but to the point (300 words).
Unfortunately it was on AW and not here... I don't mind, because the young lady looks like Barbara Bach did @ 18. (Atouk!) Priceless! ;0
Does Boris look like Barbara Bach at 18, huh.
Introduction letters from a pay per letter site is like the wolf leading the chickens to the poultry farm.
2 sites I have just joined has inundated me with letters...all introductionary letters!!
Gee, Apal.....should I open them and see what this beautiful girl has to say to me...maybe a very personalized (canned) letter...all for the price of $7 per letter....that's a tough choice...hmmmmm....my brain tells me to stay away.....
I am on one pay-per-letter site and don't like it at all but have written to one girl for 6 months and we send 3
letters per month, so I hope it is real but if I got 2-3 letters per week I would be suspicious. Got to look at each situation individually.
Listen - how can you think I don't know the difference between canned-spam intro letters and a real, indepth review of my profile in a first letter? ;0
Come on! I blast those candy-spammed letters into the deleted folder fast. Especially if its from a dream girl, who never spent the time to ask me a single question and all she did was tell me how wonderful she is... ;0 Yeah - I'm full of wonder too, and wondering wtf r u doing - writing me?! ;0
Ok, Ok, I have received some pretty nice letters on Fiance - I will admit, but I was just trying to get someone to say Zug Zug somewhere. ;p
Today? I received the most rude letter ever - and it was on this site from an independent girl named Nataliya #83548. After getting on Yahoo IM with her, she proceeded to interrogate me with rude remarks and insulting questions like she was in the KGB or Gestappo.
Well she isn't an agency girl, so I guess she feels she is free to conduct her search any way she wants. And to think, I agreed with some of you that a girl with a child would be nice, sweet and very sincere - like everyone says on here. So I tried one of the new ones out... omfg! ;0
I guess I find the psycho's real quick... damn psycho magnet I am...
I have had the most amazing day. I have just recieved a reply from the most incredible 25 year old hotty from Nikolaev. She is really into me. The best thing about it is she spent time thinking about me before she replied. So now I know its real.
I wrote to her 13 months ago. Now shes all mine :)
Well Nataliya apologized today. Said she had run across way too many of you guys who want to talk sex chat only or who lie to her.
I said she cant run a KGB interrogation routine on every single guy or they will be disgusted like me and she will be in the same position this same time next year without a single sincere guy in sight.
Intelligent, but jumps to wrong "worst-case" assumption... not my cup of tea for a future wife..
Yet, once she gets away from her completely offensive defense, she might make a man a good wife. Intelligent and speaks fluent English, yet already has unfortunately met a lot of flakes off the Internet. I told her to learn in the future and consider each letter and sentence a man writes off the Internet to seem more like a polite dinner conversation -- and not some KGB interrogation room.
I think she learned, maybe that's why I had to talk to her to set her mind right, for a sincere guy she might meet one day (besides me). ;0
That really hot lady from Kiev ID 83774 is gone from Fiance.com I wonder what happened? Mabye she's travelling the world with her rich dream man already? :-)
Who knows....they come and go sometimes with no real explanation. Only an e-mail to admin will you get explanation. It is frustrating sometimes....here today gone tomorrow...guess she did something wrong!!!!!!! I only vaguely remember her....way out of my league......fact is all three together on profiles from Kiev!!!
Just got a strange series of letters from a new girl in Moldova on this site.
On first letter, she requests my personal email - ok, I give her one of my lesser spam-filter accounts and request more photos...
On second letter, she emails, (no photos), yet immediately asks me for my cellphone # and for me to contact her on the cellphone # she provides the next day...
I ask her if she is sincere...
Another email and she doesn't answer any of my questions, yet sends me 6 half-naked photos of herself...
She's an independent, but kind of wierd way of introducing yourself to a potential suitor. Anyone seen this?
Ya Apal Thunderdome is absolutely correct, I just can't offer a good opinion on the topic until I see this girls pictures for myself. So send them my way and then I will be able to make a real valid comment about this to you. :-)