"Interlocutor" is very rarely used, at least in America. I learned it from ...
... profiles of Russian-speaking women, on dating websites. I guess it is an artifact (another unusual word :) ) of how the profiles are translated from Russian to English. (Also, I met an English teacher in Kyiv who used this word in conversation.)
I've noticed that many Russian/English dictionaries use an odd (and really outdated) version of English. Probably, this is worse with dictionaries that were first written in Soviet times.
A friend in Ukraine wrote me an email with a verb phrase that I hadn't seen before, and I couldn't guess what it meant. When I wrote back to her that I didn't understand, she explained it in different words, and told me she had gotten it from her Russian/English dictionary.
At that time, a search found LESS THAN TWENTY occurrences of the phrase in the whole internet, one of which was on a site called something like "museum of the English language." I have a pretty big vocabulary, and know a lot of expressions that have fallen out of use. The one my friend used in her letter, probably went out of fashion about 150 years ago. But it was in her Russian/English dictionary!
Look it's pretty hard for a girl to be there and say she is not interested in your face. She will usually just appear less available until you get the point.
Anyways, what you're saying now is different. In your previous posts it was all about the girls, you haven't mentioned agencies at all. Seems like you're just trying to point a finger at anything. There is a fair share of scammers and bad agencies out there but let's nor pretend all of them are bad. Word of mouth and Internet reviews travel fast and if there are no marriages happening, the agency will not survive long term.
Bottom line, think about what is in your locus of control and what can you do. Finding other causes will not do you any good.
Dunt,,, if I had wanted to go to Thailand I would have,,, but I don’t so I won’t!
But why do you go?? Getting a sore throwing arm and need women or ladyboise that are easier to throw?? Or do the feathers on their costumes have you confused??
They can’t fly either Dunt!
Danny42:
“Lonely ... ... No wonders girls find you boaring and uninteresting .... Yep second letter the girls asleep ... Third letter she wants to kill herself ... You don't know your death toll they never write a third letter”
My girls don’t want to kill themselves,,,, you have things confused again DUNT,,,, your girls were the ones who killed themselves!!! Why do you keep forgetting that???
My girls never write a 3rd letter??? Wrong!
Danny’s second brain cell just died,,, expect even more idiotic posts from him everybody.
J-U,,, you need to address your posts if they are meant for one person. Your post arrived late and I almost didn’t see it.
I only had one girl say she didn’t want to continue with the dates,,, and she did it through the interpreter. After my 2009 trip, I didn’t blame the girls too much for behaving strangely,,, I was to see 5 girls in 4 cities! If a girl wrote to me for months,,, then claimed to be making the trip to meet me,,,, then went to see several men before meeting me,,, I may not want to see her either,,,, but you know,,, I would tell her!!! I would tell her to save her money and my time,, that’s where we are very different.
In my previous post where I numbered the women,,, I did so to expedite the process. And,, it’s not that they are lying constantly during meetings,, but that there are “discrepancies” with their stories in person compared to what was wrote in letters. Very often I will go out for dinner or supper for a first meeting,,,, and you know,,, discrepancies pop up before looking at the menu??
They all say that they haven’t met with other men,,,, but then you find out otherwise,, in person or in correspondence.
For second meetings, I’d like to know if they are writing to others?? How can they be seeking marriage with one man,,, while actively seeking others?
I don’t know of a good agency or website,,,, or of a good city. Some are worse than others and have a world famous reputation,, those should be avoided.
Girls that belong to agencies, no longer function like individuals,,, they follow agency rules. Think of them as being like a big sea creature with many tentacles,,, trying to grab as many men as they can.
No Moya,,, one girl offered to and I agreed, but that was on the 2nd trip to meet her. The 2009 trip with the 5 women was only to introduce myself to them,,, to know who they were writing to.
Danny,, that’s right,,, don’t read them,,, and don’t reply to them either!
MS,, have you posted one helpful word yet here on the forum???
Danny,,, it was very thoughtful of you to post a BJ video of your dead ex online. A wonderful way to remember her! Why does what martin did with that photo bother you so much??? You crapped on her memory more than he did! Don’t you ever feel ashamed???
Show that video to all of us DUNT,,, show everyone the 5 dollar BJ whore!! Show us Irina!!!
""""""""""Hi everyone, I am new to this forum, and the reason for joining to this forum is that, it is almost a month that I am in contact with an Ukrainian girl. She said that she is working for a cosmetic company. After exchanging email for almost a month and chatting (video chat) through Skype, now she is asking me to meet in "Real Life". So, I invited her to come to Dubai where we can meet. She said that she agrees but she has to get a passport first which she does not have it. She asked me to help her with the costs of passport, visa and ticket, which are: 150$ for passport, 100$ for visa and 340$ for ticket(Total=590$). Now, I don't know whether she is honest to me or she is a Scammer?
Pleas write me your experiences and help me not to be the victim of these scammers..
Her Name is Tatiana Florinkova from Rubezhoe Ukraine.""""""""""""""""