fiance.com is By far the cheapest site I have found, other than the ones like Elena`s models who sell info only and don't have the webmail facility, but of course once you have bought the address you are on your own, and there is Every probability that within a few days/weeks you will be dealing with the agency who put the lady on Elena`s or who is translating for her, and you wont have Olga watching over the agency or the girls shoulder for naughty behaviour :o))
Stick with this site if you wanna play as safe as I have found any way of playing in the last 2.5 years. And want to have as much choice as possible :o))
( I must point out at this juncture, that my last remarks have no bearing on my friend Alina`s agency in Lugansk, I'm just looking farther afield than friends of friends, and not restricting my choices to just Lugansk ! Having been scalped by one scammer there 2 years ago and learning a Lot from it (and I was helped to reveal this lowlife and to catch her out by my good friend Alina and her staff I will add) I am rather unsettled about restricting my choices to that one city :o))
Anastasia announcement:
All ladies on this site are fictitious and bear no resemblance to anyone living or dead :o))
Hey Tim, I got a letter from a girl in Lugansk recently. I'm wondering if shes for real. I'm taken now but I can't put all my eggs in one basket if you know what I mean. If things don't work out for me, this girl is pretty nice. Very sweet letter she sent.
Yeah, I am starting to agree with you on Anastasia, but the one girl I am really interested emailed me and told me she was going to drop her membership with agency and gave me her postal so as she put it 'this wont be the last letter she ever gets from me'. So, you got to figure, there are some live ones on that site, too!
Thanks Tim 'you da-man'. A question. WHat the hell do I do when I cant decide? I have about 10 or so that I really like. When do you know when to go visit the 'one'? Also, is it just me, or do you check your freakin emails every ten seconds hoping she will write you right back!!?!?
Its f*****g hard Jeff, took me since last summer and I'm still having a little bit of a hard time. Chose my one, but dam those other girls are like a temptation.
I know theres NO WAY I can wait that long! I gotta figure out what to do...I have read many times from Elena's book that you should really only visit one girl when you visit and the arguments she makes all sound really sound. (Elena Petrova)
Jeff, just keep writing to the 10, slowly but surely they will drop by the wayside for one reason or another, and you will get down to two or three, and eventually to just one, then its time to bite the bullet, rob the bank and go see her :o))
In answer to your other bit, I dont check my email very often as I know roughly when I will get a letter from my lady, but my PC checks my email every 30 minutes so when there is any to collect its collected and waiting for me in Kmail (Im Windows free at home, all on Linux, and soon the world :o)) )
Crash, your right mate, its not easy, but its a waiting and writing game and eventually there will be one, or possibly two if you dont want to "put all your eggs in one basket" who will shine through over the others, these are the ones to go for, not the ones you see now that you know "zip" about ;o)))
Jeff, have much respect for Elena myself, a wise lady and worth listening to :o)
I'm a year behind you Jeff! And yes its been a long time..too long. But I have to say in that time I have educated myself so much about this stuff when I look back I'm glad I didn't go right away.. It would have been a mistake I think. I'm so ready now I can build a huge ramp and do an Evil Knieval jump all the way across the atlantic, thats how I feel!!
Your right about that Tim, and I have already found one as everyone knows, I sound like a broken record here. I would really go just for her. But I do have 2 others I am very sure about also. One is in the same city as I'm going. Same agency for that matter. The other is in Kiev and she wants to come see me. Unfortunatly I don't have the time to go see her. But now I'm beginning to wonder how much that will cost and if its really feasable.
Crash: younger than me, good, hoping I wasn't the youngest :_) I know it must be hard for you to wait, I just want to start my new life over with someone, and yes, I need to be pretty sure before I go.
Its feasable Crash, but she wil expect you to foot the bill mate, where are the 2 with the same agency ? And they Must know about each other, possibly even write their letters at the same time too !
Thats a bit too spooky for my tatse :o))
Tim: I'll email you about the 2 at the same agency and tell you a little more in detail to see what you think. Too much info to write here I think.
Jeff: I want to be 99.9% sure if possible and I have been checking everything out from every angle I can. Its not easy and you have to roll the dice a little. It's going to be intimidating enough going there by myself and not having a clue what anyone is saying. Its going to be an odd experience, I hope I don't hate it.
Crashnsplash: Tell me about problems visiting two on the same trip. If you have been following my posts - I am doing exactly that. And to several writers in this thread. I am glad to hear that i am not alone in having feelings for one - but being havily drawn to another.
Stay tuned to this same channel for the (no doubt) dramatic outcome in April.
In the meantime - none of us is so knowledgeable that we can't use a little help... Someone on this thread mentioned Elena's ebook with reference to going and visiting only one. The Russian woman's mind is so different (in a good way) from that of American women that I don't mind admitting I could use a little assist myself. (Maybe a lot of assist.)
But then again - have any of us REALLY figured out even western women and the way they think? Granted they don't do it all that often (western women thinking), but how do we figure it out when they are doing it?
Crash: I hear what you are saying about dice rolling (i play craps in vegas once per year:-)) ). But my friend, I dont believe you can be even 90% sure when it comes to emotions, love, and 'them durn purty girls' ! Maybe try to learn what you can about the language. I took two years of russian in college (WAY BACK!) and have bought two books on the language to try to learn what I can. I believe it was Elena Petrovka that said , try to not wait longer than 6 months if possible, as the girl begins to wonder about your commitment. Its a b*tch, I know, but bite the bullet, my friend and get over there to her!!
Jet: It was I that mentioned Elenas book. SHe being a russian lady who was once herself on several marriage agencies looking for love, she seems to know what she is talking about. I hear you about two women and same visit, but I dont know. I think I will wait until I am ready to make a decision on one lady and go and visit her.
To figure out when a western woman is thinking. It is easy, it is when she is checking out your package(no, not the one in front but the one in your rear pocket-YOUR WALLET ;)). Then she is thinking how she can take all of it from you when the time is right haha
Jeff your right. Cannot be completely sure about anything. I'm trying to learn the language myself as much as possible, hard to do because I am so busy with my company. Check out the website I'm using http://langintro.com/rintro/index.htm I'll be there the first week of June. I got a nice 2 room flat all lined up for a good price. Just waiting for my visa then I'm getting my tickets. I looked at the airline prices last night and my eyes almost fell outta my head, dam its expensive. But she knows I'm coming for her and she could hardly contain herself, lol. I can't wait to hold her..
Jet, Yes its hard for me because my feelings run very deep for the one. Yet the other one wants to see me also and I'm not going to disappoint her. I have no idea how I'm going to tell one of them no, its bothers me to think about it. When in April are you going? what city, are they both at the same agency? I for one will be looking forward to hear what happens.
I'll be here for everything for me up to when I leave and when I get back. I'm going to keep everyone posted as to what happens... God I hope its a happy ending for me, and the rest of us!!