hey there you guys and gals ,i am so new to this .
i have had a lot of replys ,how do i not offend the ones i am not interested in ?
what are some basic edicate ?
why are there so many beautiful women !!!!! (candy shop is very relivant)
so far i feel this is where i will find my next relationship/marriage ,is this unrealistic how many do leave and marry forigners ?
how big is the gap between russian and western culture ?
excuse the bad spelling ,and thanks for any advice in advance .
Deephouse - you will find answers to practically ALL of your questions (and some you have not thought of yet) in the archves of this forum. Many of our members hasve only written - some have visited once or twice (including myself) some many times more than that. If yo0u read the archive carefully you can even see the evolution of opinion by many as their experiences have grown.
Go to the bottom of this page and click on the numbers. Spend a couple of hours and have at it.
your not wrong jet ,its an interesting read .
i dont think the scam side of it is a concern for me as this is how i ended up here !! without financial loss .
its more the .......difference in culture i have trouble with .eg: what to talk about ?
tradman: it blows me away how polite these girls are .the feminine ideal seams alive and well in russia :-)
Cultural differneces are bigger than you imagine deephouse. Tim summed it up right when he said that you will make a tit of yourself with certaintly within the first 24 hours when you visit Eastern Europe.
What to talk about in your letters? Your hopes and dreams. What you are looking for and who you are (life style etc.)
They want to be sure that you are "serious" (I hear that a lot). And that you want more than just an eternal penpal. They are NOT just anxious to leave their country - but to find the right man under the right conditions they will consider it. It has to be the right mix.
I have never had one girl express a desire to leave their country, it is something they have to do, to find a good man, yes , they are polite and respectful, no four letter expletives from(but then maybe russian for f*ck has more than 4 letters:))) their femininity and maturity is a breath of fresh air, as is their strenght of character