Booty calls:
Western women you only call when no other is available...(usually after the bars close). This is the kind of woman you NEVER introduce to family or friends and with whom you're NOT to be seen in public under any circumstance.
B List:
Western Women you date regularly and who make themselves readily available due to their lower than normal self steem. On a scale of 1-10 these women never score higher than 6 or 7 in the overall attraction department.
A List:
Western Women with the lowest self steem that at the same time have the hottest bodies. They score 8 or higher in the attraction scale. Are fun to be with. Pay or share expenses of going out without resentment. They are too busy in their lives or careers to demand or expect a commitment from you.
Franchise Player:
This list is reserved to that elusive ONE. The one who has the best attibutes of every woman in the above lists and many more.
She likes your friends and would never act to cut you off from them. She is the best team player you have ever met and doesn't mind you being the coach and team leader. She matches your value scale and lifestyle like no other woman (to some this means she's the nymphomaniac with the long legs, slim waist and DDD cup size who just inherited a chain of liquor stores in Hawaii, Florida and California)
Take advice from the guy who admits to have a divorce under his belt from a woman who apparently ran a number on him, took his house, his kids, his assets. Which category your American woman fit the Franchise or the Booty? just curious.
Ts-ts-ts dicks and gifts, nasfan6 you were offended in which way? I offended the "idol" of this forum? my most "sincere" apologies. I asked a practical question, I just wanted to know in which of the above theoretical buckets he throws his ex marriage.
I was not offended, I just asked a question from a mere observation.
It seems lately you look to grind an axe with some people here. As far as Toad being an idol, I think not. Though this forum lately seems to have turned into a "Little bitches pissing contest".
It is unfortuante but the ONLY converstaiton we seem to have lately in this forum is when e are trashing each other.
Face it - the only common interest we have here is Russian women and we don't even agree on the best methods with which to pursue THEM (some swear by the Socials - some swear at the Socials, same goes for letter writng).
We come from all walks of life and all backgrounds. We habe all different views politically.
Pay attention for a while and see if I am right. Someone new enters - or some new idea - we beat the crap out of him or it - someone inevitably calls for our moderators to censor - and they generally do.
Then, having vanquished the enemy, we lick our wounds and then go silent.
wtrav was a test dummy for viagra. He missed the part about if your errection last longer than 4 hours you should seek medical treatment. He is an anti american liberal who thinks his dimestore liberalism is the saviour of the world...probably small gentalia.
If you or (or your idea) survive your trashing - a couple of times maybe - you are reluctantly accepted. Then you lay in waiting like the rest of us - ready to trash the next guy (or idea0 that comes along.
Well said Jet:
the amount of times that happens is uncanny,
what I find so hard to understand is the lack of pateince so many memebers show here regarding a new idea.
wtrav makes what to all acounts is quite an innocent statement and is pilloried for it,
" a pissing contest"...hardly!!!...seems more like a return to nursery school if you ask me!
Nursery school?
You mean with Nurses?
Ooh man, I'l pay the schoolfees anytime!
And she can help me pee-pee also, please, I've got problems because size matters.
Shagger, I had once (yeah, luckily only once) a hard-on for almost 24 hours. No dope, medicines or anything chemical, just hormones - a long story and painful also, trust me, excruciatingly.
Not cockteasing but shy she was. It ended with a bang.
Nursery school as in pre-juvenile age TD.......
mature consideration of comments seems to be fast disappearing on this forum once again,(NOT directed at you TD).
It just seems that if your opinion doesn't gel with the rest god help you!
What in the world does the tongue in cheek list I posted above have to do with my or anyone else's divorce???
Other than the unavoidable sense of failure, my divorce to my ex wife did not run a number on me, my houses or assets.
1. I got primary custody of my kids who I raised alone for over 10 years as a single parent.
2. Neither of us had any assets to be pillaged from each other at the time of the divorce.
3. The house was sold and we both got equal shares of the equity.
Go join the "sissy, whinning, I get offended whenever Toad says anything outrageous" club.
Then get help....the 4X4 stuck in your arse must be a royal pain to live with.
The american woman who qualifies for the 'franchise player' award is an endangered species....but does exist, nevertheless.
They are the exception to the rule, which BTW, only serves to prove the rule.
Finding them and winning them has become the proverbial 'needle in the haystack'. That's why 10,000s of US men look for, find, fall in love, marry and bring home foreign brides.
So the natural evolution of marriage in the west will invariably place the foreign bride as the 'franchise player', but at a much much more attainable level for most average men than her western counterpart.
Personally, I have no doubt in mind that my 'franchise player' was born and still lives in Colombia or FSU.
Toad, you're not light on the insults yourself not only towards me but also others you've not agreed with and called bags and other names. By the way the "your American wife must have run a number on you" statement I borrowed it from you from one of your previous posts attacking someone else. Hope I will not be called for violation of copyright. In any event, what jetmba and others said above is wise. This sort of "discussion" only degrades the purpose of the forum, so on my part I will do my best to refrain from comments that may be perceived as offensive.
Talking about intolerance, a while ago I made a statement about socials not knowing I was touching someone's red hot button. Then that someone felt he had to call me ignorant and cheap (?) and the rest is on public display. Well, perhaps I should be sensitive to the fact that someone may have found a would-be wife in a social and may associate a comment about socials in general as a direct insult to his lady. But, it works much better to come out and say "I find offensive what you said about socials because so and so", give mutual explanations and finish it there rather than "your ignorant and cheap, you want me to give you five bucks". This way almost seems conflicts would be unavoidable.
I recall when jetmba came to the forum and asked about socials a year and a half ago, I and others came up and said some harsh things about socials. But, he handled it very well without conflicts, he was firm about what he wanted and why and was able to stick his own point on the wall as well. He explained why he believed socials are a great way to meet people and I believe he had some good points that most of us who have not been to the socials could not argue and the discussion finished right there. That could be an example to follow, to use logical arguments to present a different point of view.
Thanks trav:
Actually its been nearly twp years since I first inquired about Socials. And we are approaching a year and a half since I actually went (and had " the time of my life".) A lot of people may not realize that you actually are an oldtimer (no offense of course meant by the comment) on this forum - already established when I started writing two years ago.
I wish I could claim that I have always use logical arguments and have a proud history of never name-calling - but I've resorted to an occasional cheap shot in times of anger as well in the past.
I'd like to see a little more civility here in the forum - again recognizing that our only common interest IS Russian women. We can argue till the cows come home on politics etc. and we will not agree. Why would we? There are other forums for those topics and they run the gamut.
Juat a note to anyone who is interested - if you have someone that you AREN'T specifically interested in bringing over on a fiance-visa or a tourist visa. The "Green Card Lottery" which provides 50,000 immigrant visa's to lucky recipients from anywhere in the world to come to the US with a green card is in its final days of application.
Some 3.5 million people applied for it last year. So with 50,000 available spots of course the odds are not good. But if there is anyone you would like to help apply - the web page is avaiable - all apllications have to be via the internet and a .jpg photo is needed (240x360, 300x300 or 360x240). And the person applied for must have a high school education or equivalent.
Jet, I actually met and dated a lady from Moscow that won the green card lottery. She was very highly educated, sweet, and sincere. Unfortunately, it was my first experience with a Russian woman and she wanted our relationship to move so fast my red flags went up. I also had some issues I had to work out myself. However if she was any sample of what I can expect from FSU ladies. I'm not looking anywhere else. Perhaps someone should mention the lottery to fiance.com and they can tell all the ladies how to apply?
I'm new here but I think your correct about all the name calling. We want our ladies to treat us with respect, but we can't even treat each other with respect. I'm not saying you have to agree with someone else's viewpiont, but we should be man enough to agree to disagree and not resort to insults. Aren't we all old enough to know better.