I for one must agree that unless people here learn at least a little bit of restraint on the personal attacts at most the information her will be very limited to meaningless fluff. Of course none of us know the magic answer to all the questions and despite our age and experiences none of us know it all or we would not be here in the first place. I can understand that some feel that what they do is funny or required as one of the men but I must say the most I make of there manly attempts is that they have turned quite childish. I think that if you do not have anything nice to say or at least related to the topic it really should be left out of the threads. Everyone here knows how to start a new thread and if you want to whine about whiners or discuss who is real or not start a thread and that way people that are interested in such can go there. We are all here for our own reasons and I think a minimum requirement to be here should include at least common respect of individuals. Not touchy feely crap but we can all act as gentleman and still disagree.
As for the whiners do a search and you will see who the real whiners are! Again childish examples of the very things they are doing they seem to want to whine about. I fail to see a difference.
Wessman - it might be good if we published programs here so that we can remember each others details and tell each other apart. When you ragged at someone for being in Riga and being rolled by the locals - you evidently confused people and their stories. Because you were actually describing MY background - to my surprise and my response, no doubt, surprised you.
You refer to being believed to be an electrician - I think that actually tradman is an electrician.-
I thought that i had heard you say that you were a counselor of some sort. You mentioned that people were your business. that is why I thought that you were a therapist of some sort.
When I mentioned my credentials - a BA (one of three) in Behavior Science and that I had done some counseling - I certainly wasn't offering anyone that I would provide that service. I once actually aspired to be a clinical psychologist but became very disillusioned with the entire field. I don't actually believe that such practice is very useful at doing anything except emptying patient's wallets (and then some).
Maybe we could do fiance.com cards in the style of baseball cards. Including information statistics such our height and weight, age, profession, how long we have been doing this, highlights from our successes and failures and which countries we have been to.....or...not....some of us might not like that reference here.
to bad you can't find a way through the womens side so we can view each others profiles that would cut down on record keeping, maybe join as a girl, I do not know but in time I am sure someone will find a way in and share it.
There you go wess. That would be a great idea that to post you should be a member and your real name and profile should come up. I think that would put an end to the bull crap and make people much more accountable. I think it would be great. I also think there should be a combined men and womens forum as well. It makes no sense to me to seperate them. We are all looking for each other right? Just my thoughts...
All that is well and good but the only true way would be that if you had to be a member to post. If someone can find a way into the womens side then someone could also find a way to trick us in another way. I feel no need to have this informayion realy. I trust that you are who you are and others who are not, have been question about such things anyway. The better the cops get, the better the crimes get. Try to trust one an other and who realy needs to be accountable anyway. NObody here is realy out to halm anyone
shagy- the mixed forum is a good idea but most here do not speak Russian and those girls who speak english are free to enter if they want. I chat all the time with FSU girls on ICQ. So many sit at work all day with nothing realy to do and have ICQ going all the time. I have 3 girls I chat to often and they are very nice. One is maybe looking for foriener, the others have given me some great advice I think and I have given then some as well. Not sure how great it was though LOL
ICQ is a very comfortable way to communicate:) I enjoy it for more then 2 years already:) It has many helpful features, which make the communication better with people you want to communicate, and you can not communicate with people you don't want to:) It is very easy and nice:)
I don't know about talking, but I heard that the last version gives this opportunity. But I type, as I don't have the latest version and I don't have a microphone, so I type. But I think it will be better if you will visit the ICQ site and will read about it:)
you can search for people wess but they will not always talk back. Just try it and see what happens. Also you can talk to any of use direct if you wish :o)