Well, somehow I found this forum and decided to drop a line here. Only because I'm a Russian girl and I know something about foreign men from these marriage-dating sites. It's soooo funny when you guess if a girl is a scammer or not. Or if she wants your money.
Every woman likes presents and nice things. It's a fact. You often invite a girl to a foreign place and expect her to spend her money on passport and tickets. I don't get this. Do you people really believe that our women are THAT desperate? You treat us as if we are just things that exist for your pleasure. I was once on a dating site because I was curious. Men from these sites (not all, but almost everyone) are terrible. They are fat, old, ugly, they wear terrible clothes, honestly. I don't want to offend you. I'm just being honest. And how you choose a girl... It's just wonderful. She must be a blond/dark-haired, she should have green eyes, long hair, slim, attractive, while you are.... just as I said.
By the way, if a man has a date with a woman, he really should pay for her in restaurants. And for an interpreter, if she needs this.Not everyone here speaks your language. Maybe you should learn Russian then? To save your money?
Also I know that you guys talk to several girls, tasting the water, or having fun. But if a woman does the same... then she is called a scammer.
It's sooo fair, yes!
There are some nice men on these sites, serious and honest. But they usually leave any site as soon as possible because... they want to have something real.
And another thing, I would be furious if a man I talk to, wrote my name and address somewhere like you do here....
My friend happens to have chatted with that same ukrainian named tatiana kornikova who is also from rubezhoe ukraine havin almost the same scenarios although this time she was the one who went to saudi at her own expenses. Would you mind sending a picture of her for us to know they are really the same girl if the pictures matches then she really is a scammer. A professional scammer who would even spend hundreds of dollars just so they can get your trust that they are true but as time goes by there she will be askin money again with her alibis sayin that you have seen her in person. also can u post or send her skype account. Thanks! Best Regards! Hoping to hear from you soon!
Would u mind sending me pm so we could exchange photos of that tatiana florinkova if it is the same girl my friend set up a meeting at ksa today. Thanks!
single_lady, you are right. Many men have unreasonable expectations and simply dont understand Ukrainian women.
Biggest problem I see from this site and others is they only want to date english speakers and dont bother to learn any Russian or Ukrainian.
These guys also think that it will be easier to find a Ukrainian lady even if they have failure in their own country.
These guys dont think about their appearance, their style or whether they will even be attractive to any girl anywhere in the world.
They think these girls are desperate to come to USA or other western country.
most of them are idiots.
Rick4girl, all this is so true.
Ukraine is not a very big country and it has a lot of economic problems. But it doesn't mean we are all desperate.
I know some nice women who really are looking for an honest foreign man.
Foreign men make a plenty of mistakes here, and when they come back home, they start complaining how bad Ukraine/Russia is and how materialistic our girls are. No one forces them pay or to buy anything.
Well, in the end everyone gets what he/she deserves :)
I'm glad to see a foreign man who shares my opinion :)
No. Noone forces you, but I wish the ladies would be more upfront about it. I have gone out more than once. More than one lady has done this. I thought we were going someplace nice or interesting. We went shopping. She went in trying on clothes, shoes, or buying groceries. Most of the time, I didn't mind. Other times, it was either argue with her at the cash register that she can't have this or that or just pay for it.