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	Create New Topic   My Posts   My forum buddies   Invite friends   Private messages Russian brides > Main Forum > Need to know when to stop and cut your losses Author Post TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/11/2015 8:28:49 AM   LR - forget about 30 years. First try to get 1 year. First try to get 30 days. 3 days? Seems you can't even do that. No, LR you are just going to grow old with nothing. Nothing wrong with that. I had an uncle that never married, never had a girlfriend. Nothing. Some people are just like that. TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/11/2015 8:44:11 AM   I miss WifeSeeker. Where is he? I want to rattle his cage. Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/11/2015 3:02:45 PM   TomZ wrote: "You see Rick4girl you've probably never encountered pro-daters because you speak the language." that would be wrong...in a way. I probably have had a couple dates with girls you guys would consider "pro-daters" both were probably back in 2010-2011 and both were from Elena's models site. I was curious about them as both were persistent about meeting. neither date went anywhere and Im pretty sure both simply wanted to have a free meal at a nice place. with one, i really knew that moment that it was a dead end but I was hungry and we were already there. With Taxi for her it was probably in the $100 range. I have had a couple bad dates with girls that my friend's agency set up. one in Zhitomer which was an "affiliate" who insisted on having a translator even though I said it wasn't necessary. It was, however, a good oppourtunity to discover that what girls "wrote" in letters and reality were often vastly different. That was the point I decided to not rely on a long correspondence and after a few exchanges, suggest meetings before giving up on agencies altogether. Besides, by 2012 I really didnt have time for all the hassles of agencies and found "chance" encounters offered better odds anyway. Tom, your posts only emphasize the importance of doing your homework both before and during any trip. know who you are meeting, where you are going, etc BEFORE so there are not any surprises. It took a bit for me to realize the best thing to do when things dont seem right is to walk away. It also takes going against natural instincts to terminate a meeting and walk away but it beats the hell out of losing money for nothing. It also underscores the importance of first meetings being at a simple place and that often they wont require alot of time and always be sure that the potential loss of money in the effort is small lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/11/2015 11:15:52 PM   Yes Tom,,, I had to prod her at first to spend my money!! She also haggled like no one before on taxi fees. No Tom,,, I didn’t think it would cement our relationship,,,, just that I was able to provide for her. Wrong Tom,,, Rick has had plenty of bad dates,,, in fact,,, after reading his recent posts,,, I think he has had just as many as myself. If you compare the amount of time each of us has spent,,,,, he might be less successful. No Tom,,, I won’t forget about the 30 years!! Wrong Tom,,, I’ve had more than the 3 days! Wrong Tom,, I’ve been married before! That’s why I won’t forget about the 30 years,,,, because they can shove the 3 years up their a$$! Yes Tom,,, I might grow older with nothing! Nothing is better than the battle of trying to find an honest person online,,,, from anywhere! What Tom,,,,, didn’t you and WS merge into one profile?? TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/12/2015 12:04:08 AM   You know what they say - A fool and his money are quickly parted. lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/12/2015 12:26:31 AM   Did I steal your girl away from you or something??? Holly f-ing Chrxxt are you obsessed!!! dcguy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/12/2015 2:13:43 AM   "I would say that 50% of the profiles you see on the sites are fake." On one free site, my guess is that 100% of the profiles are fakes and/or just "beggars for money". dcguy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/12/2015 2:21:02 AM   The dating game seems similar to casino gambling. You keep thinking that you are going to "hit it big", but you keep losing and start over again. I am not a gambler and not a risk taker. If I was, I would probably be dead by now. Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/12/2015 11:17:10 AM   LR wrote "Wrong Tom,,, Rick has had plenty of bad dates,,, in fact,,, after reading his recent posts,,, I think he has had just as many as myself. If you compare the amount of time each of us has spent,,,,, he might be less successful." Notice Looney that I have mentioned the same experiences more than once. Given that Ive been in Ukraine much longer than you I have had a few bad encounters over many years. If I meet someone and it doesnt progress more than 10 minutes before parting ways then its not a date. Ive done that a few times. I havent dated many different girls in the past 3-4 years because Ive been in a couple longer term relationships. TomZ Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 6:36:47 AM   Rick4girl - LR unfortunately is living in the past. He can't move on. He's reliving the relationship he had with the Ukrainian girl that was over 4 years ago. He's doling out advice but his information is irrelevant since he's been here so long ago. Things on the ground have changed, as you say. And I'm not knocking LR. I think he should come back. Maybe try to correct some of his past mistakes when dealing with girls. Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 11:45:43 AM   I often question some people's use of the term "success" Is success becoming married? If so, If it only lasts 5 years does that still qualify as success or delayed failure? can success be defined as finding a quality girl and have a relationship that creates awesome memories and happy times together even if the 2 never marry and if it lasts only a year or 5? Everyone must qualify this word differently. As the main site is a marriage agency I think the former is probably the standard measure. I was with a girl on and off again for 4 years(almost married twice) and eventually became just friends and although I am older now than then I cannot disqualify that experience as we have fond memories and we both learned alot from it. I would not trade those experiences. To stop and "cut your losses" what does that mean? resigning oneself to forever a lonelyranger and give up love? I think to give up on love is giving up on life! Everyone has a match. sometimes it takes longer to find them lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 10:48:42 PM   Rick: “Notice Looney that I have mentioned the same experiences more than once.” And do you think, that you are the only one that does that???? You keep writing about others’ failures,,, well how many do other guys have?? I haven’t had one girl yet, say to my face, that it was over! One did it through an interpreter,,, one just lapsed, and the rest I discontinued. lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/13/2015 11:21:10 PM   TomZ: “LR unfortunately is living in the past. He can't move on. He's reliving the relationship he had with the Ukrainian girl that was over 4 years ago.” You keep copying Rick’s 4 year thing,,, why? I found the one woman that I wanted,,,, and I still think about her everyday. I have also made 3 trips to Ukraine after meeting her, to meet with others,,, isn’t that trying to move on? “He's doling out advice but his information is irrelevant since he's been here so long ago.” I’m doling out advice?? I didn’t know that,,, I thought that I just offer up my opinions from time to time. Irrelevant?? Before I made my first trip of the online era,,, I read a story here about an agency, that was several years old at that time,,,, it was 100% accurate then and is still 100% accurate today! If anything has changed, it is that the scammers are getting bolder because of the crisis in Ukraine. Tom,,, didn’t you read that link I posted a few days ago??? poppy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 2:14:41 AM   move on get a life .... be honest with youself and marry a bloke ragingbull Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/14/2015 11:34:07 AM   "move on get a life .... be honest with youself and marry a bloke" Danny must be having second thoughts about his marriage. Noone is thinking about being gay except him. lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/15/2015 12:31:52 AM   "move on get a life .... be honest with youself and marry a bloke" Danny,, just because you have made it work,, doesn’t mean that anyone else wants to! To me, a woman with a mustache is a huge turn off! Most FSU women take pride in their looks, and I was shocked by the appearance of yours. poppy Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/16/2015 12:21:10 AM   wife has no face hair ... thank goodness . mabey when you zoom in on your pictures like the true stalker you are things get distorted ....from where i look she is perfect in every way ... looney seriously ... marry a bloke lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/16/2015 2:38:00 AM   Get new glasses!! Or a welding mask! Rick4girl Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/16/2015 8:22:28 PM   LR wrote: "Danny,, just because you have made it work,, doesn’t mean that anyone else wants to!" So you have given up on Ukraine and other FSU countries? closing in on 4 years now!!! How old are you now? 52??? wont be long before you need to find a girl with a nursing degree and experience in home health care! If you wait too much longer to try again you will want to find someone who can be medicare certified!!! lonelyranger1701 Member send PM   block PM add to buddies Send: 1/16/2015 9:18:56 PM   Rick,,,,, do you need a clue??? Here’s one. “"move on get a life .... be honest with youself and marry a bloke" “Danny,, just because you have made it work,, doesnÒt mean that anyone else wants to!” Still 4 years?? Rick,,, tell us about the education that you received in your youth,,,, did it include math?? My plans might be changing due to age,,, I haven’t made a concrete decision yet. And I am less than two years older than you. Your Reply: Your name:   New Registration Password:   Forgot password?   refresh Code:   Russian brides > Main Forum > Need to know when to stop and cut your losses
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