Michael- Everyone is always trying to build the better mousetrap.Even the scammers. Even when you think you've found a bulletproof relationship, you still can be had. Just ask Tim, though I think he's quite tired of talking about it.
Yeah I know I am gonna give it another month and just feel things out.If its ment to be I will find a lady if not there are plenty of scammers right here were I live lol-Like I said just day by day for now.
It's strange but now that my mind is into this RW thing,I don't even give girls around here a second look. Except maybe the one I saw at the garden center today! 6'1" 125 lbs. blond hair down to her beautiful butt. Dressed to the hilt! But sadly, I don't have a million dollars yet!
One day at a time, thats the way to do it. Don't let yourself get discouraged and don't fall for anyone too quickly if possible. Ive seen alot of guys come and go here because they gave up too easily. If I followed their lead I would have never have found my sweetheart.
After a good nine months of searching and corresponding for ladies. I have eliminated all except one. We met in January and she is everything Ive ever wanted in a woman. We communicate constantly, were very honest and sincere with eachother. Our dreams and goals, our outlook on life is the same. Our only focus is on eachother and both our families. We cant wait to be together and its all finally going to be reality for us in about 5 weeks. Thank god I never gave up or we would have never found eachother. Remember that when you get discouraged. This is not easy and when we meet in reality soon everything between us will be decided. You know the old saying, "I will travel the world for you..." Well for me, its going to be a reality and she knows I will do anything to make this real. Don't give up!
As my boyfriend says "if I'm on the diet, why can't I look up the menu?" meaning that he is with me, and he is not cheating on me, but why can't he look on pretty girls??? :)
And I never forbid him to do so, though he sometimes gets jealous if I look at the handsome man...:))))
Again, not to disagree dma because I am not. That is a personal relationship thing. I never had any trouble saying to my wife who was pretty and stuff, and vis versa, same she was not so relaxed about other things. My cousin and his girl are fully into each other but snap over such things, even if it is a girls or guy showing interest in them, not them looking at other people.
It depends on your partner and in my experience has been that they have been very insecure in themselves (despite being pretty, more likely a cause of insecurity) when it comes to pretty women being nearabout.
The whole subject is often a sensitive one when with your partner. With one, I have been able to observe and pass comment on how pretty, well dressed others have been - with another, merely having a pretty girl walk towards me would result in being masked from her view even though I wasn't looking!
When I am in love I see other women differently, to the point of almost not seeing them at all.